Summary
Kolya Krassotkin finally arrives to meet Alyosha, bringing his dog Perezvon. Despite his confident exterior, Kolya is deeply insecure about his height and appearance, constantly worrying about how others perceive him. He reveals the painful backstory of his relationship with the dying Ilusha. Kolya had befriended the younger boy and become his protector, but when Ilusha confessed to the cruel prank with the dog Zhutchka (feeding it bread with a pin), Kolya decided to teach him a lesson through coldness and rejection. This 'tough love' approach backfired spectacularly - instead of learning remorse, Ilusha became defiant and eventually attacked Kolya with a knife. Now, with Ilusha dying and consumed with guilt over Zhutchka, Kolya realizes his mistake. The chapter explores how our attempts to 'toughen up' others often come from our own insecurities and can cause lasting damage. Alyosha listens without judgment, treating Kolya as an equal rather than a child, which immediately wins Kolya's respect. The interaction shows how genuine acceptance can break through defensive barriers. Kolya hints that he may have found Zhutchka, setting up hope for healing both boys' relationship and Ilusha's guilt-ridden conscience.
Coming Up in Chapter 67
Kolya prepares to enter Ilusha's sickroom with Perezvon, planning a dramatic reveal that could either bring joy or heartbreak. Will his theatrical gesture help heal the wounds between the boys, or will it be too little, too late?
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The Lost Dog Kolya leaned against the fence with an air of dignity, waiting for Alyosha to appear. Yes, he had long wanted to meet him. He had heard a great deal about him from the boys, but hitherto he had always maintained an appearance of disdainful indifference when he was mentioned, and he had even “criticized” what he heard about Alyosha. But secretly he had a great longing to make his acquaintance; there was something sympathetic and attractive in all he was told about Alyosha. So the present moment was important: to begin with, he had to show himself at his best, to show his independence, “Or he’ll think of me as thirteen and take me for a boy, like the rest of them. And what are these boys to him? I shall ask him when I get to know him. It’s a pity I am so short, though. Tuzikov is younger than I am, yet he is half a head taller. But I have a clever face. I am not good‐looking. I know I’m hideous, but I’ve a clever face. I mustn’t talk too freely; if I fall into his arms all at once, he may think—Tfoo! how horrible if he should think—!” Such were the thoughts that excited Kolya while he was doing his utmost to assume the most independent air. What distressed him most was his being so short; he did not mind so much his “hideous” face, as being so short. On the wall in a corner at home he had the year before made a pencil‐mark to show his height, and every two months since he anxiously measured himself against it to see how much he had gained. But alas! he grew very slowly, and this sometimes reduced him almost to despair. His face was in reality by no means “hideous”; on the contrary, it was rather attractive, with a fair, pale skin, freckled. His small, lively gray eyes had a fearless look, and often glowed with feeling. He had rather high cheekbones; small, very red, but not very thick, lips; his nose was small and unmistakably turned up. “I’ve a regular pug nose, a regular pug nose,” Kolya used to mutter to himself when he looked in the looking‐glass, and he always left it with indignation. “But perhaps I haven’t got a clever face?” he sometimes thought, doubtful even of that. But it must not be supposed that his mind was preoccupied with his face and his height. On the contrary, however bitter the moments before the looking‐glass were to him, he quickly forgot them, and forgot them for a long time, “abandoning himself entirely to ideas and to real life,” as he formulated it to himself. Alyosha came out quickly and hastened up to Kolya. Before he reached him, Kolya could see that he looked delighted. “Can he be so glad to see me?” Kolya wondered, feeling pleased. We may note here, in passing, that Alyosha’s appearance had undergone a complete change...
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Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Righteous Punishment - When Our Insecurities Hurt Others
Using moral superiority and emotional withdrawal to mask our own insecurities while claiming to teach others lessons.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize when our attempts to 'educate' others are really ways of managing our own insecurities and need for control.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when you feel the urge to teach someone a lesson through withdrawal or coldness—ask yourself if you're actually protecting your own ego rather than helping them grow.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Terms to Know
Performative masculinity
The way boys and men feel pressure to act tough, independent, or superior to prove their worth. Kolya constantly worries about appearing childish or weak, so he puts on an air of superiority and criticism.
Modern Usage:
We see this when guys refuse to ask for directions, act like they don't care about things they actually care deeply about, or put others down to seem more important.
Moral pedagogy
The idea that you can teach someone to be better by being harsh or withholding affection until they 'learn their lesson.' Kolya thought rejecting Ilusha would make him feel proper remorse for his cruelty.
Modern Usage:
This shows up in 'tough love' parenting, giving someone the silent treatment until they apologize, or cutting off friends to teach them a lesson about their behavior.
Psychological projection
When we assume others see our flaws the same way we do, or when we try to fix in others what we hate about ourselves. Kolya's harshness toward Ilusha reflects his own self-criticism.
Modern Usage:
Like when someone who's insecure about their weight constantly comments on others' eating habits, or when perfectionists are hardest on people who remind them of their own mistakes.
Redemptive guilt
The crushing weight of knowing you've hurt someone and desperately wanting to make it right. Both boys are consumed by guilt - Ilusha over the dog, Kolya over rejecting Ilusha.
Modern Usage:
This is the feeling when you realize your words really hurt someone's feelings, or when you find out someone was struggling and you weren't there for them.
Social hierarchy anxiety
The fear of being seen as lower status or less important than others. Kolya obsesses over his height and age, worried Alyosha will dismiss him as 'just a kid.'
Modern Usage:
This happens when you're nervous about meeting your partner's successful friends, or when you downplay your job title because you think it sounds unimpressive.
Emotional gatekeeping
Withholding kindness or connection as a way to control a relationship or teach someone a lesson. Kolya deliberately stayed away from Ilusha to 'discipline' him.
Modern Usage:
Like when parents give kids the silent treatment, or when friends punish each other by excluding them from group activities until they apologize.
Characters in This Chapter
Kolya Krassotkin
Conflicted mentor figure
A brilliant but insecure boy who tried to 'teach' Ilusha moral lessons through rejection and coldness. His good intentions backfired catastrophically, and now he's desperate to make amends before Ilusha dies.
Modern Equivalent:
The smart kid who thinks they know what's best for everyone but learns their 'tough love' approach actually damages people
Alyosha Karamazov
Non-judgmental listener
Treats Kolya as an equal rather than a child, creating a safe space for confession. His acceptance allows Kolya to drop his defensive mask and admit his mistakes.
Modern Equivalent:
The friend who listens without trying to fix you or make you feel worse about your mistakes
Ilusha
Victim of misguided discipline
The dying boy whose cruel act with the dog led Kolya to reject him. Instead of learning remorse, he became more defiant and eventually violent, showing how punishment can backfire.
Modern Equivalent:
The kid who acts out more when adults try to shame them into better behavior
Perezvon
Symbol of hope
Kolya's dog who may actually be the missing Zhutchka. Represents the possibility of healing and redemption for both boys' damaged relationship.
Modern Equivalent:
The unexpected solution that's been right in front of you the whole time
Key Quotes & Analysis
"Or he'll think of me as thirteen and take me for a boy, like the rest of them."
Context: Kolya's internal anxiety before meeting Alyosha
Shows how desperately Kolya wants to be seen as mature and important. His whole identity is built around being superior to other children, which sets him up for the mistakes he makes with Ilusha.
In Today's Words:
I hope he doesn't see me as just some kid who doesn't matter.
"I wanted to punish him for his cruelty, but I seem to have punished myself more than him."
Context: Explaining to Alyosha why he stayed away from the dying Ilusha
The heart of Kolya's realization that his 'moral teaching' was really about his own need to feel superior. True punishment often hurts the punisher more than the punished.
In Today's Words:
I thought I was teaching him a lesson, but I just made everything worse for both of us.
"I've been hoping and hoping that he would come to me himself to beg my forgiveness."
Context: Admitting his expectations about Ilusha's response to being rejected
Reveals how Kolya's 'lesson' was really about his ego - he wanted Ilusha to grovel and acknowledge Kolya's moral superiority rather than genuinely learn compassion.
In Today's Words:
I wanted him to come crawling back and admit I was right all along.
Thematic Threads
Insecurity
In This Chapter
Kolya's deep anxiety about his height and appearance drives his need to control and teach others
Development
Introduced here as a driving force behind seemingly confident behavior
In Your Life:
You might recognize this when your harshest judgments of others coincide with your deepest self-doubts
Power
In This Chapter
Kolya uses emotional withdrawal as a weapon, withholding friendship to punish Ilusha
Development
Builds on earlier themes of how people use whatever power they have
In Your Life:
You see this when someone uses silence, coldness, or disapproval to control behavior instead of direct communication
Acceptance
In This Chapter
Alyosha treats Kolya as an equal rather than a child, immediately breaking through his defenses
Development
Continues Alyosha's pattern of meeting people where they are without judgment
In Your Life:
You experience this when someone listens to your story without trying to fix or judge you
Guilt
In This Chapter
Both boys are consumed by guilt—Ilusha over the dog, Kolya over his failed teaching method
Development
Deepens the exploration of how guilt drives destructive behavior patterns
In Your Life:
You might notice how guilt makes you either withdraw completely or overcompensate with harsh self-punishment
Redemption
In This Chapter
Kolya's hint about finding Zhutchka suggests a path toward healing both relationships and conscience
Development
Introduced here as a possibility emerging from honest acknowledgment of mistakes
In Your Life:
You see this when someone takes concrete action to repair damage rather than just apologizing with words
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
Why did Kolya decide to punish Ilusha with coldness instead of talking to him directly about the dog incident?
analysis • surface - 2
How did Kolya's own insecurities about his height and appearance influence the way he treated Ilusha?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see this pattern of 'tough love' punishment in workplaces, families, or relationships today?
application • medium - 4
What's the difference between Kolya's approach to correction and Alyosha's approach? Which one actually changes behavior?
analysis • deep - 5
When someone withdraws warmth to 'teach you a lesson,' what does this reveal about their own emotional state?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Rewrite the Tough Love Script
Think of a time when someone used coldness or withdrawal to 'teach you a lesson,' or when you did this to someone else. Write out what actually happened, then rewrite the scene using Alyosha's approach—staying connected while addressing the problem. How would the conversation have gone differently?
Consider:
- •Focus on the difference between punishment and guidance
- •Notice how insecurity drives the need to 'toughen up' others
- •Consider how acceptance creates space for genuine change
Journaling Prompt
Write about a relationship where you've been either the cold teacher or the rejected student. What was really driving that dynamic? How could warmth and honesty have changed the outcome?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 67: The Return of Zhutchka
The coming pages reveal genuine reconciliation requires both vulnerability and action, and teach us timing matters when offering help or making amends. These discoveries help us navigate similar situations in our own lives.