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hen she went into Kitty’s little room, a pretty, pink little room,
full of knick-knacks in vieux saxe, as fresh, and pink, and white,
and gay as Kitty herself had been two months ago, Dolly remembered how
they had decorated the room the year before together, with what love
and gaiety. Her heart turned cold when she saw Kitty sitting on a low
chair near the door, her eyes fixed immovably on a corner of the rug.
Kitty glanced at her sister, and the cold, rather ill-tempered
expression of her face did not change.
“I’m just going now, and I shall have to keep in and you won’t be able
to come to see me,” said Dolly, sitting down beside her. “I want to
talk to you.”
“What about?” Kitty asked swiftly, lifting her head in dismay.
“What should it be, but your trouble?”
“I have no trouble.”
“Nonsense, Kitty. Do you suppose I could help knowing? I know all about
it. And believe me, it’s of so little consequence.... We’ve all been
through it.”
Kitty did not speak, and her face had a stern expression.
“He’s not worth your grieving over him,” pursued Darya Alexandrovna,
coming straight to the point.
“No, because he has treated me with contempt,” said Kitty, in a
breaking voice. “Don’t talk of it! Please, don’t talk of it!”
“But who can have told you so? No one has said that. I’m certain he was
in love with you, and would still be in love with you, if it
hadn’t....”
“Oh, the most awful thing of all for me is this sympathizing!” shrieked
Kitty, suddenly flying into a passion. She turned round on her chair,
flushed crimson, and rapidly moving her fingers, pinched the clasp of
her belt first with one hand and then with the other. Dolly knew this
trick her sister had of clenching her hands when she was much excited;
she knew, too, that in moments of excitement Kitty was capable of
forgetting herself and saying a great deal too much, and Dolly would
have soothed her, but it was too late.
“What, what is it you want to make me feel, eh?” said Kitty quickly.
“That I’ve been in love with a man who didn’t care a straw for me, and
that I’m dying of love for him? And this is said to me by my own
sister, who imagines that ... that ... that she’s sympathizing with
me!... I don’t want these condolences and humbug!”
“Kitty, you’re unjust.”
“Why are you tormenting me?”
“But I ... quite the contrary ... I see you’re unhappy....”
But Kitty in her fury did not hear her.
“I’ve nothing to grieve over and be comforted about. I am too proud
ever to allow myself to care for a man who does not love me.”
“Yes, I don’t say so either.... Only one thing. Tell me the truth,”
said Darya Alexandrovna, taking her by the hand: “tell me, did Levin
speak to you?...”
The mention of Levin’s name seemed to deprive Kitty of the last vestige
of self-control. She leaped up from her chair, and flinging her clasp
on the ground, she gesticulated rapidly with her hands and said:
“Why bring Levin in too? I can’t understand what you want to torment me
for. I’ve told you, and I say it again, that I have some pride, and
never, never would I do as you’re doing—go back to a man who’s
deceived you, who has cared for another woman. I can’t understand it!
You may, but I can’t!”
And saying these words she glanced at her sister, and seeing that Dolly
sat silent, her head mournfully bowed, Kitty, instead of running out of
the room as she had meant to do, sat down near the door, and hid her
face in her handkerchief.
The silence lasted for two minutes: Dolly was thinking of herself. That
humiliation of which she was always conscious came back to her with a
peculiar bitterness when her sister reminded her of it. She had not
looked for such cruelty in her sister, and she was angry with her. But
suddenly she heard the rustle of a skirt, and with it the sound of
heart-rending, smothered sobbing, and felt arms about her neck. Kitty
was on her knees before her.
“Dolinka, I am so, so wretched!” she whispered penitently. And the
sweet face covered with tears hid itself in Darya Alexandrovna’s skirt.
As though tears were the indispensable oil, without which the machinery
of mutual confidence could not run smoothly between the two sisters,
the sisters after their tears talked, not of what was uppermost in
their minds, but, though they talked of outside matters, they
understood each other. Kitty knew that the words she had uttered in
anger about her husband’s infidelity and her humiliating position had
cut her poor sister to the heart, but that she had forgiven her. Dolly
for her part knew all she had wanted to find out. She felt certain that
her surmises were correct; that Kitty’s misery, her inconsolable
misery, was due precisely to the fact that Levin had made her an offer
and she had refused him, and Vronsky had deceived her, and that she was
fully prepared to love Levin and to detest Vronsky. Kitty said not a
word of that; she talked of nothing but her spiritual condition.
“I have nothing to make me miserable,” she said, getting calmer; “but
can you understand that everything has become hateful, loathsome,
coarse to me, and I myself most of all? You can’t imagine what
loathsome thoughts I have about everything.”
“Why, whatever loathsome thoughts can you have?” asked Dolly, smiling.
“The most utterly loathsome and coarse: I can’t tell you. It’s not
unhappiness, or low spirits, but much worse. As though everything that
was good in me was all hidden away, and nothing was left but the most
loathsome. Come, how am I to tell you?” she went on, seeing the puzzled
look in her sister’s eyes. “Father began saying something to me just
now.... It seems to me he thinks all I want is to be married. Mother
takes me to a ball: it seems to me she only takes me to get me married
off as soon as may be, and be rid of me. I know it’s not the truth, but
I can’t drive away such thoughts. Eligible suitors, as they call them—I
can’t bear to see them. It seems to me they’re taking stock of me and
summing me up. In old days to go anywhere in a ball dress was a simple
joy to me, I admired myself; now I feel ashamed and awkward. And then!
The doctor.... Then....” Kitty hesitated; she wanted to say further
that ever since this change had taken place in her, Stepan Arkadyevitch
had become insufferably repulsive to her, and that she could not see
him without the grossest and most hideous conceptions rising before her
imagination.
“Oh, well, everything presents itself to me, in the coarsest, most
loathsome light,” she went on. “That’s my illness. Perhaps it will pass
off.”
“But you mustn’t think about it.”
“I can’t help it. I’m never happy except with the children at your
house.”
“What a pity you can’t be with me!”
“Oh, yes, I’m coming. I’ve had scarlatina, and I’ll persuade mamma to
let me.”
Kitty insisted on having her way, and went to stay at her sister’s and
nursed the children all through the scarlatina, for scarlatina it
turned out to be. The two sisters brought all the six children
successfully through it, but Kitty was no better in health, and in Lent
the Shtcherbatskys went abroad.
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Let's Analyse the Pattern
When intense desire for one thing narrows our focus so completely that we lose sight of consequences and other important priorities.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to identify when intense desire narrows our focus so completely that we lose sight of consequences and other priorities.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when you're completely focused on one thing—a person, goal, or purchase—and force yourself to list three other important areas of your life before making any big decisions.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"He could not sit still, and kept walking up and down the platform."
Context: Describing Vronsky's agitated state while waiting for Anna's train
This physical restlessness shows how his emotional state has taken control of his body. A disciplined military officer has been reduced to pacing like a caged animal, revealing the depth of his obsession.
In Today's Words:
He was way too wound up to just sit there and had to keep moving around.
"His whole life now seemed to him nothing but a preparation for this meeting."
Context: Revealing how completely Anna has taken over Vronsky's sense of purpose
This shows how obsessive love can make everything else in life feel meaningless. His career, duties, and identity have all become secondary to this one relationship.
In Today's Words:
Everything he'd ever done felt like it was just leading up to seeing her again.
"He looked at his watch every minute, as though time could be made to go faster by his looking."
Context: Showing Vronsky's impatience and desperate need to see Anna
This captures the irrational behavior that comes with intense anticipation. He knows looking at his watch won't help, but he can't stop himself from this useless action.
In Today's Words:
He kept checking the time like that would somehow make her get there faster.
Thematic Threads
Obsession
In This Chapter
Vronsky's complete mental occupation with Anna, unable to focus on anything else
Development
Escalated from initial attraction to consuming preoccupation that overrides his military discipline
In Your Life:
You might recognize this when you find yourself checking your phone constantly for one person's messages while ignoring everything else.
Identity
In This Chapter
His composed military bearing dissolves under emotional pressure, revealing how desire can reshape who we are
Development
Building on earlier themes of how relationships challenge our sense of self
In Your Life:
You see this when you catch yourself acting completely different around someone you're attracted to or trying to impress.
Class
In This Chapter
His privileged position as an officer becomes irrelevant in the face of emotional need
Development
Continues the theme that intense emotions can temporarily dissolve social boundaries
In Your Life:
You experience this when personal crisis makes workplace hierarchies or social status feel meaningless.
Control
In This Chapter
His usual self-discipline crumbles into restless pacing and compulsive clock-checking
Development
Develops the ongoing tension between social expectations and personal desires
In Your Life:
You know this feeling when you're waiting for important news and can't concentrate on normal tasks.
Anticipation
In This Chapter
The painful intensity of waiting for Anna's arrival consumes his entire present moment
Development
Introduced here as a new dimension of how desire distorts time and attention
In Your Life:
You feel this when anticipating a first date, job interview, or any moment that feels like it will change everything.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What physical signs show us that Vronsky has lost his usual self-control while waiting at the train station?
analysis • surface - 2
How has Vronsky's identity as a disciplined military officer changed since meeting Anna, and what does this tell us about the power of obsessive focus?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see this same pattern of tunnel vision in modern life - someone becoming so focused on one thing that they lose perspective on everything else?
application • medium - 4
If you were Vronsky's friend watching him pace that platform, what specific strategies would you use to help him step back and see the bigger picture?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter reveal about how intense emotions can override our rational decision-making, and why might this be both dangerous and necessary for human survival?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Own Tunnel Vision Moments
Think of a time when you became completely focused on getting something or someone, to the point where you lost sight of other important things in your life. Write down what you were focused on, what you stopped paying attention to, and what the consequences were. Then identify three warning signs that could help you recognize when you're entering tunnel vision mode again.
Consider:
- •Consider both positive obsessions (career goals, helping others) and negative ones (toxic relationships, risky investments)
- •Think about what you typically sacrifice first when tunnel vision kicks in - sleep, family time, financial security, or other relationships
- •Notice if there are specific emotions or situations that make you more vulnerable to losing perspective
Journaling Prompt
Write about a current situation where you might be developing tunnel vision. What would change if you forced yourself to consider three other important areas of your life right now?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 38
Anna steps off the train, and the moment Vronsky has been desperately anticipating finally arrives. But their reunion will be more intense and revealing than either of them expected.




