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20:021:001 he king's heart is in the hand of the LORD, as the rivers of
water: he turneth it whithersoever he will.
20:021:002 Every way of a man is right in his own eyes: but the LORD
pondereth the hearts.
20:021:003 To do justice and judgment is more acceptable to the LORD than
sacrifice.
20:021:004 An high look, and a proud heart, and the plowing of the
wicked, is sin.
20:021:005 The thoughts of the diligent tend only to plenteousness; but
of every one that is hasty only to want.
20:021:006 The getting of treasures by a lying tongue is a vanity tossed
to and fro of them that seek death.
20:021:007 The robbery of the wicked shall destroy them; because they
refuse to do judgment.
20:021:008 The way of man is froward and strange: but as for the pure,
his work is right.
20:021:009 It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a
brawling woman in a wide house.
20:021:010 The soul of the wicked desireth evil: his neighbour findeth no
favour in his eyes.
20:021:011 When the scorner is punished, the simple is made wise: and
when the wise is instructed, he receiveth knowledge.
20:021:012 The righteous man wisely considereth the house of the wicked:
but God overthroweth the wicked for their wickedness.
20:021:013 Whoso stoppeth his ears at the cry of the poor, he also shall
cry himself, but shall not be heard.
20:021:014 A gift in secret pacifieth anger: and a reward in the bosom
strong wrath.
20:021:015 It is joy to the just to do judgment: but destruction shall be
to the workers of iniquity.
20:021:016 The man that wandereth out of the way of understanding shall
remain in the congregation of the dead.
20:021:017 He that loveth pleasure shall be a poor man: he that loveth
wine and oil shall not be rich.
20:021:018 The wicked shall be a ransom for the righteous, and the
transgressor for the upright.
20:021:019 It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a
contentious and an angry woman.
20:021:020 There is treasure to be desired and oil in the dwelling of the
wise; but a foolish man spendeth it up.
20:021:021 He that followeth after righteousness and mercy findeth life,
righteousness, and honour.
20:021:022 A wise man scaleth the city of the mighty, and casteth down
the strength of the confidence thereof.
20:021:023 Whoso keepeth his mouth and his tongue keepeth his soul from
troubles.
20:021:024 Proud and haughty scorner is his name, who dealeth in proud
wrath.
20:021:025 The desire of the slothful killeth him; for his hands refuse
to labour.
20:021:026 He coveteth greedily all the day long: but the righteous
giveth and spareth not.
20:021:027 The sacrifice of the wicked is abomination: how much more,
when he bringeth it with a wicked mind?
20:021:028 A false witness shall perish: but the man that heareth
speaketh constantly.
20:021:029 A wicked man hardeneth his face: but as for the upright, he
directeth his way.
20:021:030 There is no wisdom nor understanding nor counsel against the
LORD.
20:021:031 The horse is prepared against the day of battle: but safety is
of the LORD.
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Let's Analyse the Pattern
The tendency to automatically justify our choices and perspectives while remaining blind to our actual motivations and the real impact of our behavior.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to catch yourself in the act of self-justification before it destroys your relationships and opportunities.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when you feel most justified in your anger or decisions, then ask one trusted person if they see the situation differently.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"Every way of a man is right in his own eyes: but the LORD pondereth the hearts."
Context: Teaching about self-deception and the need for honest self-examination
This captures how we all naturally think we're right and justified in our choices. True wisdom requires stepping back and honestly examining our real motivations, not just our surface explanations.
In Today's Words:
Everyone thinks they're doing the right thing, but deeper wisdom sees through to what's really driving us.
"The thoughts of the diligent tend only to plenteousness; but of every one that is hasty only to want."
Context: Contrasting patient work with impatient shortcuts
This reveals the mental difference between people who build wealth and those who stay broke. Diligent people think about abundance and long-term building, while hasty people focus on quick fixes that never work.
In Today's Words:
Patient, steady workers think about building wealth, but people who want everything now end up with nothing.
"It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house."
Context: Warning about choosing relationships carefully
Solomon uses vivid imagery to show that space and comfort mean nothing if you're living with constant conflict. Better to have less material comfort than to live with someone who makes every day miserable.
In Today's Words:
I'd rather live in a tiny apartment alone than in a mansion with someone who fights about everything.
"Whoso stoppeth his ears at the cry of the poor, he also shall cry himself, but shall not be heard."
Context: Teaching about reciprocity and compassion
This warns that ignoring others' genuine needs creates a pattern where your own needs will be ignored. It's not just about karma, but about building the kind of community that supports everyone.
In Today's Words:
If you ignore people when they really need help, don't expect anyone to help you when you're in trouble.
Thematic Threads
Self-Deception
In This Chapter
Solomon repeatedly contrasts how people see themselves versus reality - everyone thinks their way is right, but few examine their hearts honestly
Development
Introduced here as a core theme
In Your Life:
You might justify staying in situations that aren't working by telling yourself you're being loyal or responsible.
Power Dynamics
In This Chapter
Even kings' hearts are controlled by higher forces, revealing the limits of human control and the illusion of absolute power
Development
Builds on earlier themes about authority and divine sovereignty
In Your Life:
You might overestimate your control over outcomes at work or in relationships, leading to frustration when things don't go as planned.
Patience vs. Haste
In This Chapter
Contrasts the diligent worker who builds lasting wealth with those chasing quick schemes that lead to poverty
Development
Continues the established pattern of valuing steady work over shortcuts
In Your Life:
You might be tempted by get-rich-quick schemes or quick fixes instead of doing the slow, consistent work that actually creates results.
Toxic Relationships
In This Chapter
Better to live alone than with a contentious, angry partner who creates constant household conflict
Development
Expands on relationship wisdom from earlier chapters
In Your Life:
You might stay in relationships or friendships that drain your energy because you've convinced yourself that enduring conflict shows loyalty.
Work Ethic
In This Chapter
Warns against the deadly combination of laziness and envy - wanting what others have without doing the work to earn it
Development
Reinforces consistent themes about the value of diligent labor
In Your Life:
You might find yourself resenting others' success while avoiding the difficult work required to achieve your own goals.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
Solomon says even kings can't control outcomes, yet every person thinks their way is right. What's the contradiction here?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Solomon repeatedly warn against get-rich-quick schemes and hasty decisions? What pattern is he identifying?
analysis • medium - 3
Think about someone you know who creates constant drama or conflict. How do they justify their behavior to themselves?
application • medium - 4
Solomon suggests it's better to live alone than with a contentious person. When is it wise to remove yourself from toxic situations, and when should you stay and work things out?
application • deep - 5
If everyone thinks they're right most of the time, but most people are wrong about themselves, what does this reveal about human nature and how we should approach our own decisions?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
The Self-Justification Audit
Think of a recent situation where you felt completely justified in your actions or position, especially if others disagreed with you. Write down your original reasoning, then deliberately argue the opposite perspective as convincingly as possible. Finally, identify what blind spots this exercise revealed about your original position.
Consider:
- •Focus on situations where you felt strongly right, not minor preferences
- •Try to genuinely understand the other perspective, not just mock it
- •Look for patterns in how you justify decisions to yourself
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you discovered you were wrong about something important. How did you recognize the truth? What warning signs did you miss? How has this experience changed how you evaluate your own judgment?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 22: Building Your Reputation and Avoiding Life's Traps
The next chapter opens with a striking comparison between reputation and riches, exploring what truly matters when building a life that lasts. Solomon will reveal why your name might be worth more than your bank account.
