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the church there was all Moscow, all the friends and relations; and
during the ceremony of plighting troth, in the brilliantly lighted
church, there was an incessant flow of discreetly subdued talk in the
circle of gaily dressed women and girls, and men in white ties,
frockcoats, and uniforms. The talk was principally kept up by the men,
while the women were absorbed in watching every detail of the ceremony,
which always means so much to them.
In the little group nearest to the bride were her two sisters: Dolly,
and the other one, the self-possessed beauty, Madame Lvova, who had
just arrived from abroad.
“Why is it Marie’s in lilac, as bad as black, at a wedding?” said
Madame Korsunskaya.
“With her complexion, it’s the one salvation,” responded Madame
Trubetskaya. “I wonder why they had the wedding in the evening? It’s
like shop-people....”
“So much prettier. I was married in the evening too....” answered
Madame Korsunskaya, and she sighed, remembering how charming she had
been that day, and how absurdly in love her husband was, and how
different it all was now.
“They say if anyone’s best man more than ten times, he’ll never be
married. I wanted to be for the tenth time, but the post was taken,”
said Count Siniavin to the pretty Princess Tcharskaya, who had designs
on him.
Princess Tcharskaya only answered with a smile. She looked at Kitty,
thinking how and when she would stand with Count Siniavin in Kitty’s
place, and how she would remind him then of his joke today.
Shtcherbatsky told the old maid of honor, Madame Nikolaeva, that he
meant to put the crown on Kitty’s chignon for luck.
“She ought not to have worn a chignon,” answered Madame Nikolaeva, who
had long ago made up her mind that if the elderly widower she was
angling for married her, the wedding should be of the simplest. “I
don’t like such grandeur.”
Sergey Ivanovitch was talking to Darya Dmitrievna, jestingly assuring
her that the custom of going away after the wedding was becoming common
because newly married people always felt a little ashamed of
themselves.
“Your brother may feel proud of himself. She’s a marvel of sweetness. I
believe you’re envious.”
“Oh, I’ve got over that, Darya Dmitrievna,” he answered, and a
melancholy and serious expression suddenly came over his face.
Stepan Arkadyevitch was telling his sister-in-law his joke about
divorce.
“The wreath wants setting straight,” she answered, not hearing him.
“What a pity she’s lost her looks so,” Countess Nordston said to Madame
Lvova. “Still he’s not worth her little finger, is he?”
“Oh, I like him so—not because he’s my future beau-frère,” answered
Madame Lvova. “And how well he’s behaving! It’s so difficult, too, to
look well in such a position, not to be ridiculous. And he’s not
ridiculous, and not affected; one can see he’s moved.”
“You expected it, I suppose?”
“Almost. She always cared for him.”
“Well, we shall see which of them will step on the rug first. I warned
Kitty.”
“It will make no difference,” said Madame Lvova; “we’re all obedient
wives; it’s in our family.”
“Oh, I stepped on the rug before Vassily on purpose. And you, Dolly?”
Dolly stood beside them; she heard them, but she did not answer. She
was deeply moved. The tears stood in her eyes, and she could not have
spoken without crying. She was rejoicing over Kitty and Levin; going
back in thought to her own wedding, she glanced at the radiant figure
of Stepan Arkadyevitch, forgot all the present, and remembered only her
own innocent love. She recalled not herself only, but all her
women-friends and acquaintances. She thought of them on the one day of
their triumph, when they had stood like Kitty under the wedding crown,
with love and hope and dread in their hearts, renouncing the past, and
stepping forward into the mysterious future. Among the brides that came
back to her memory, she thought too of her darling Anna, of whose
proposed divorce she had just been hearing. And she had stood just as
innocent in orange flowers and bridal veil. And now? “It’s terribly
strange,” she said to herself. It was not merely the sisters, the
women-friends and female relations of the bride who were following
every detail of the ceremony. Women who were quite strangers, mere
spectators, were watching it excitedly, holding their breath, in fear
of losing a single movement or expression of the bride and bridegroom,
and angrily not answering, often not hearing, the remarks of the
callous men, who kept making joking or irrelevant observations.
“Why has she been crying? Is she being married against her will?”
“Against her will to a fine fellow like that? A prince, isn’t he?”
“Is that her sister in the white satin? Just listen how the deacon
booms out, ‘And fearing her husband.’”
“Are the choristers from Tchudovo?”
“No, from the Synod.”
“I asked the footman. He says he’s going to take her home to his
country place at once. Awfully rich, they say. That’s why she’s being
married to him.”
“No, they’re a well-matched pair.”
“I say, Marya Vassilievna, you were making out those fly-away
crinolines were not being worn. Just look at her in the puce dress—an
ambassador’s wife they say she is—how her skirt bounces out from side
to side!”
“What a pretty dear the bride is—like a lamb decked with flowers! Well,
say what you will, we women feel for our sister.”
Such were the comments in the crowd of gazing women who had succeeded
in slipping in at the church doors.
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Let's Analyse the Pattern
When confronting mortality, the mind questions all previously meaningful activities, creating a spiral where nothing feels worthwhile because everything is temporary.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to identify when grief or major life changes trigger the dangerous loop where everything feels meaningless because everything is temporary.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when you catch yourself thinking 'what's the point?' after a setback—name it as meaning collapse, set a timer for the spiral, then ask what matters just for today.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"What am I living for? What am I striving for? What is there in this life of mine that is not destroyed by death?"
Context: He's alone in his study, spiraling into despair after his brother's death
This captures the core of existential crisis - when death's reality makes all our daily activities feel pointless. Levin can't see past mortality to find meaning in temporary human experiences.
In Today's Words:
Why am I even trying when we all just die anyway? What's the point of any of this?
"If I don't accept the answers Christianity gives to the problems of my life, what answers do I accept?"
Context: He's struggling with whether to embrace faith or remain lost in philosophical doubt
Levin recognizes that rejecting traditional beliefs leaves him with no framework for meaning. This shows the difficulty of building a worldview from scratch when grief strips away old certainties.
In Today's Words:
If I don't believe what I was raised to believe, then what am I supposed to believe in?
"My whole life, independently of anything that can happen to me, every moment of it is no more meaningless, as it was before, but it has the positive meaning of goodness, which I have the power to put into it."
Context: This comes from his eventual breakthrough when he realizes meaning comes from choosing goodness
Levin discovers that meaning isn't something we find but something we create through moral choices. This represents his shift from seeking external validation to taking responsibility for creating purpose.
In Today's Words:
I don't have to wait for life to have meaning - I can make it meaningful by choosing to do good things right now.
Thematic Threads
Mortality
In This Chapter
Levin's brother's death forces him to confront the inevitability of his own death and everyone he loves
Development
Introduced here as the catalyst that destroys Levin's previous contentment
In Your Life:
You might face this when losing a parent, surviving an accident, or hitting a milestone age that makes death feel real.
Purpose
In This Chapter
All of Levin's previous sources of meaning—farming, family, love—suddenly feel hollow and pointless
Development
Contrasts sharply with his earlier satisfaction in simple country life and work
In Your Life:
You might question your career, relationships, or goals when facing major loss or life transitions.
Intellectual Isolation
In This Chapter
Philosophy books offer no comfort, leaving Levin more alone with his questions than before
Development
Shows the limitation of purely intellectual approaches to emotional and spiritual crises
In Your Life:
You might find that advice, self-help books, or logical thinking can't touch certain kinds of pain or confusion.
Identity Crisis
In This Chapter
Levin's practical, grounded sense of self crumbles when his usual sources of identity feel meaningless
Development
Represents a fundamental shift from his earlier confidence in simple, tangible values
In Your Life:
You might face this when retirement, illness, or loss forces you to question who you are beyond your roles.
Existential Vulnerability
In This Chapter
Even his love for Kitty and their child can't protect him from questioning life's fundamental worth
Development
Shows how existential crisis can threaten even the most cherished relationships and bonds
In Your Life:
You might find that even your strongest relationships feel fragile when you're questioning everything you believe.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What specific event triggered Levin's crisis of meaning, and how did it change his view of activities he previously enjoyed?
analysis • surface - 2
Why do you think Levin's practical nature made this existential crisis particularly difficult for him to handle?
analysis • medium - 3
Where have you seen people in your life experience this same 'meaning collapse' after a loss or major life event?
application • medium - 4
If you were Levin's friend, what practical advice would you give him to work through this crisis without dismissing his valid concerns?
application • deep - 5
What does Levin's struggle reveal about the difference between finding meaning in permanence versus finding meaning in the present moment?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Meaning Anchors
Create two lists: things that give your life meaning right now, and things that would still matter to you if you knew they were temporary. Notice which activities, relationships, or goals appear on both lists versus just the first. This reveals which sources of meaning are resilient to existential questioning and which are more fragile.
Consider:
- •Consider how your relationship to meaningful activities might change if you focused on impact rather than permanence
- •Notice whether your most fragile meanings are tied to external validation or future outcomes
- •Think about how people you admire find purpose despite knowing everything is temporary
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when loss or crisis made you question what mattered in your life. How did you rebuild your sense of purpose, or what helped you move forward even without complete answers?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 130
Levin's philosophical crisis deepens as he searches desperately for answers that might restore meaning to his existence. His journey toward resolution will take an unexpected turn through a simple conversation that changes everything.




