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lexey Alexandrovitch, on coming back from church service, had spent
the whole morning indoors. He had two pieces of business before him
that morning; first, to receive and send on a deputation from the
native tribes which was on its way to Petersburg, and now at Moscow;
secondly, to write the promised letter to the lawyer. The deputation,
though it had been summoned at Alexey Alexandrovitch’s instigation, was
not without its discomforting and even dangerous aspect, and he was
glad he had found it in Moscow. The members of this deputation had not
the slightest conception of their duty and the part they were to play.
They naïvely believed that it was their business to lay before the
commission their needs and the actual condition of things, and to ask
assistance of the government, and utterly failed to grasp that some of
their statements and requests supported the contention of the enemy’s
side, and so spoiled the whole business. Alexey Alexandrovitch was
busily engaged with them for a long while, drew up a program for them
from which they were not to depart, and on dismissing them wrote a
letter to Petersburg for the guidance of the deputation. He had his
chief support in this affair in the Countess Lidia Ivanovna. She was a
specialist in the matter of deputations, and no one knew better than
she how to manage them, and put them in the way they should go. Having
completed this task, Alexey Alexandrovitch wrote the letter to the
lawyer. Without the slightest hesitation he gave him permission to act
as he might judge best. In the letter he enclosed three of Vronsky’s
notes to Anna, which were in the portfolio he had taken away.
Since Alexey Alexandrovitch had left home with the intention of not
returning to his family again, and since he had been at the lawyer’s
and had spoken, though only to one man, of his intention, since
especially he had translated the matter from the world of real life to
the world of ink and paper, he had grown more and more used to his own
intention, and by now distinctly perceived the feasibility of its
execution.
He was sealing the envelope to the lawyer, when he heard the loud tones
of Stepan Arkadyevitch’s voice. Stepan Arkadyevitch was disputing with
Alexey Alexandrovitch’s servant, and insisting on being announced.
“No matter,” thought Alexey Alexandrovitch, “so much the better. I will
inform him at once of my position in regard to his sister, and explain
why it is I can’t dine with him.”
“Come in!” he said aloud, collecting his papers, and putting them in
the blotting-paper.
“There, you see, you’re talking nonsense, and he’s at home!” responded
Stepan Arkadyevitch’s voice, addressing the servant, who had refused to
let him in, and taking off his coat as he went, Oblonsky walked into
the room. “Well, I’m awfully glad I’ve found you! So I hope....” Stepan
Arkadyevitch began cheerfully.
“I cannot come,” Alexey Alexandrovitch said coldly, standing and not
asking his visitor to sit down.
Alexey Alexandrovitch had thought to pass at once into those frigid
relations in which he ought to stand with the brother of a wife against
whom he was beginning a suit for divorce. But he had not taken into
account the ocean of kindliness brimming over in the heart of Stepan
Arkadyevitch.
Stepan Arkadyevitch opened wide his clear, shining eyes.
“Why can’t you? What do you mean?” he asked in perplexity, speaking in
French. “Oh, but it’s a promise. And we’re all counting on you.”
“I want to tell you that I can’t dine at your house, because the terms
of relationship which have existed between us must cease.”
“How? How do you mean? What for?” said Stepan Arkadyevitch with a
smile.
“Because I am beginning an action for divorce against your sister, my
wife. I ought to have....”
But, before Alexey Alexandrovitch had time to finish his sentence,
Stepan Arkadyevitch was behaving not at all as he had expected. He
groaned and sank into an armchair.
“No, Alexey Alexandrovitch! What are you saying?” cried Oblonsky, and
his suffering was apparent in his face.
“It is so.”
“Excuse me, I can’t, I can’t believe it!”
Alexey Alexandrovitch sat down, feeling that his words had not had the
effect he anticipated, and that it would be unavoidable for him to
explain his position, and that, whatever explanations he might make,
his relations with his brother-in-law would remain unchanged.
“Yes, I am brought to the painful necessity of seeking a divorce,” he
said.
“I will say one thing, Alexey Alexandrovitch. I know you for an
excellent, upright man; I know Anna—excuse me, I can’t change my
opinion of her—for a good, an excellent woman; and so, excuse me, I
cannot believe it. There is some misunderstanding,” said he.
“Oh, if it were merely a misunderstanding!...”
“Pardon, I understand,” interposed Stepan Arkadyevitch. “But of
course.... One thing: you must not act in haste. You must not, you must
not act in haste!”
“I am not acting in haste,” Alexey Alexandrovitch said coldly, “but one
cannot ask advice of anyone in such a matter. I have quite made up my
mind.”
“This is awful!” said Stepan Arkadyevitch. “I would do one thing,
Alexey Alexandrovitch. I beseech you, do it!” he said. “No action has
yet been taken, if I understand rightly. Before you take advice, see my
wife, talk to her. She loves Anna like a sister, she loves you, and
she’s a wonderful woman. For God’s sake, talk to her! Do me that favor,
I beseech you!”
Alexey Alexandrovitch pondered, and Stepan Arkadyevitch looked at him
sympathetically, without interrupting his silence.
“You will go to see her?”
“I don’t know. That was just why I have not been to see you. I imagine
our relations must change.”
“Why so? I don’t see that. Allow me to believe that apart from our
connection you have for me, at least in part, the same friendly feeling
I have always had for you ... and sincere esteem,” said Stepan
Arkadyevitch, pressing his hand. “Even if your worst suppositions were
correct, I don’t—and never would—take on myself to judge either side,
and I see no reason why our relations should be affected. But now, do
this, come and see my wife.”
“Well, we look at the matter differently,” said Alexey Alexandrovitch
coldly. “However, we won’t discuss it.”
“No; why shouldn’t you come today to dine, anyway? My wife’s expecting
you. Please, do come. And, above all, talk it over with her. She’s a
wonderful woman. For God’s sake, on my knees, I implore you!”
“If you so much wish it, I will come,” said Alexey Alexandrovitch,
sighing.
And, anxious to change the conversation, he inquired about what
interested them both—the new head of Stepan Arkadyevitch’s department,
a man not yet old, who had suddenly been promoted to so high a
position.
Alexey Alexandrovitch had previously felt no liking for Count
Anitchkin, and had always differed from him in his opinions. But now,
from a feeling readily comprehensible to officials—that hatred felt by
one who has suffered a defeat in the service for one who has received a
promotion, he could not endure him.
“Well, have you seen him?” said Alexey Alexandrovitch with a malignant
smile.
“Of course; he was at our sitting yesterday. He seems to know his work
capitally, and to be very energetic.”
“Yes, but what is his energy directed to?” said Alexey Alexandrovitch.
“Is he aiming at doing anything, or simply undoing what’s been done?
It’s the great misfortune of our government—this paper administration,
of which he’s a worthy representative.”
“Really, I don’t know what fault one could find with him. His policy I
don’t know, but one thing—he’s a very nice fellow,” answered Stepan
Arkadyevitch. “I’ve just been seeing him, and he’s really a capital
fellow. We lunched together, and I taught him how to make, you know
that drink, wine and oranges. It’s so cooling. And it’s a wonder he
didn’t know it. He liked it awfully. No, really he’s a capital fellow.”
Stepan Arkadyevitch glanced at his watch.
“Why, good heavens, it’s four already, and I’ve still to go to
Dolgovushin’s! So please come round to dinner. You can’t imagine how
you will grieve my wife and me.”
The way in which Alexey Alexandrovitch saw his brother-in-law out was
very different from the manner in which he had met him.
“I’ve promised, and I’ll come,” he answered wearily.
“Believe me, I appreciate it, and I hope you won’t regret it,” answered
Stepan Arkadyevitch, smiling.
And, putting on his coat as he went, he patted the footman on the head,
chuckled, and went out.
“At five o’clock, and not evening dress, please,” he shouted once more,
turning at the door.
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Let's Analyse the Pattern
Facing mortality strips away pretense and reveals what truly matters in relationships and life choices.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize people's true nature by observing their behavior during difficult, high-stakes moments.
Practice This Today
Next time someone faces a crisis—illness, job loss, family emergency—notice who shows up with actions, not just words, and who disappears when things get uncomfortable.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"Death destroyed all the complicated lies of life and left only the simple truth."
Context: As Levin processes watching his brother's final moments
This captures how death strips away all the artificial complexities we create and forces us to see what actually matters. It's Tolstoy's insight that mortality clarifies life's real priorities.
In Today's Words:
When someone's dying, all the drama and complications suddenly don't matter - only love and connection do.
"He felt that his love for his wife was strengthened by seeing her true nature revealed."
Context: Levin watching Kitty care for his dying brother
Crisis reveals character, and Kitty's fearless compassion shows Levin who she really is. This moment deepens their relationship through shared experience of life's hardest realities.
In Today's Words:
Seeing how she handled the worst situation made him love her even more.
"All his questions about the meaning of life seemed suddenly unimportant beside this simple human suffering."
Context: Levin's realization as he witnesses his brother's death
This shows how intellectual struggles pale beside real human experience. Levin's philosophical searching is replaced by immediate understanding of what matters: alleviating suffering and showing love.
In Today's Words:
All his deep thinking about life's purpose felt pointless when faced with actual pain and loss.
Thematic Threads
Mortality
In This Chapter
Nikolai's death forces Levin to confront the reality of human fragility and finite time
Development
Introduced here as a visceral experience that changes Levin's philosophical understanding
In Your Life:
You might recognize this when a health scare makes you suddenly appreciate ordinary moments with loved ones.
Human Connection
In This Chapter
Kitty's compassionate care for Nikolai reveals the power of simple human presence during suffering
Development
Builds on earlier themes of authentic relationships versus social performance
In Your Life:
You see this when someone shows up for you during your worst moments without trying to fix or judge.
Personal Growth
In This Chapter
Levin's intellectual understanding of life and death is transformed by witnessing actual death
Development
Continues his journey from abstract thinking to lived experience
In Your Life:
You experience this when theory meets reality—like reading about parenting versus actually having a child.
Class
In This Chapter
Death equalizes everyone—Nikolai's social struggles become irrelevant in his final moments
Development
Shows how mortality transcends social divisions explored throughout the novel
In Your Life:
You notice this in hospital rooms where CEO and janitor families wait with the same fear and hope.
Identity
In This Chapter
Levin sees Kitty's true character revealed under pressure, deepening his understanding of who she really is
Development
Builds on the theme of discovering authentic self versus social persona
In Your Life:
You witness this when crisis reveals who people really are beneath their everyday masks.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
How does watching his brother die change what Levin thinks is important in life?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Kitty's behavior during Nikolai's death surprise Levin and strengthen their relationship?
analysis • medium - 3
When have you seen people's true priorities emerge during a crisis or loss? What changed about how they treated relationships?
application • medium - 4
If you knew someone important to you only had weeks to live, what conversations would you prioritize having with them?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter suggest about the difference between thinking about life's meaning versus experiencing it directly?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Priority Reality Check
Think of someone you care about who you've been taking for granted or having ongoing tension with. Write down what you would say to them if you knew they only had a month to live. Then consider what's stopping you from having that conversation now. Notice how imagining loss changes your perspective on what matters in the relationship.
Consider:
- •Focus on what you'd want them to know, not what you want to prove or win
- •Consider whether your current conflicts would matter if time was limited
- •Think about what you'd regret not saying or doing if it was too late
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you gained clarity about what really mattered during a difficult situation. How did that experience change how you approach relationships or priorities now?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 110
In the aftermath of Nikolai's death, Levin and Kitty must navigate their grief while making practical decisions about the future. The experience has changed them both, but will it bring them closer together or reveal new challenges in their marriage?




