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he pilgrim woman was appeased and, being encouraged to talk, gave a
long account of Father Amphilochus, who led so holy a life that his
hands smelled of incense, and how on her last visit to Kiev some monks
she knew let her have the keys of the catacombs, and how she, taking
some dried bread with her, had spent two days in the catacombs with
the saints. “I’d pray awhile to one, ponder awhile, then go on to
another. I’d sleep a bit and then again go and kiss the relics, and
there was such peace all around, such blessedness, that one don’t want
to come out, even into the light of heaven again.”
Pierre listened to her attentively and seriously. Prince Andrew went out
of the room, and then, leaving “God’s folk” to finish their tea,
Princess Mary took Pierre into the drawing room.
“You are very kind,” she said to him.
“Oh, I really did not mean to hurt her feelings. I understand them so
well and have the greatest respect for them.”
Princess Mary looked at him silently and smiled affectionately.
“I have known you a long time, you see, and am as fond of you as of a
brother,” she said. “How do you find Andrew?” she added hurriedly,
not giving him time to reply to her affectionate words. “I am very
anxious about him. His health was better in the winter, but last spring
his wound reopened and the doctor said he ought to go away for a
cure. And I am also very much afraid for him spiritually. He has not a
character like us women who, when we suffer, can weep away our sorrows.
He keeps it all within him. Today he is cheerful and in good spirits,
but that is the effect of your visit—he is not often like that. If
you could persuade him to go abroad. He needs activity, and this quiet
regular life is very bad for him. Others don’t notice it, but I see
it.”
Toward ten o’clock the men servants rushed to the front door, hearing
the bells of the old prince’s carriage approaching. Prince Andrew and
Pierre also went out into the porch.
“Who’s that?” asked the old prince, noticing Pierre as he got out
of the carriage.
“Ah! Very glad! Kiss me,” he said, having learned who the young
stranger was.
The old prince was in a good temper and very gracious to Pierre.
Before supper, Prince Andrew, coming back to his father’s study, found
him disputing hotly with his visitor. Pierre was maintaining that a time
would come when there would be no more wars. The old prince disputed it
chaffingly, but without getting angry.
“Drain the blood from men’s veins and put in water instead, then
there will be no more war! Old women’s nonsense—old women’s
nonsense!” he repeated, but still he patted Pierre affectionately
on the shoulder, and then went up to the table where Prince Andrew,
evidently not wishing to join in the conversation, was looking over the
papers his father had brought from town. The old prince went up to him
and began to talk business.
“The marshal, a Count Rostóv, hasn’t sent half his contingent. He
came to town and wanted to invite me to dinner—I gave him a pretty
dinner!... And there, look at this.... Well, my boy,” the old prince
went on, addressing his son and patting Pierre on the shoulder. “A
fine fellow—your friend—I like him! He stirs me up. Another says
clever things and one doesn’t care to listen, but this one talks
rubbish yet stirs an old fellow up. Well, go! Get along! Perhaps I’ll
come and sit with you at supper. We’ll have another dispute. Make
friends with my little fool, Princess Mary,” he shouted after Pierre,
through the door.
Only now, on his visit to Bald Hills, did Pierre fully realize the
strength and charm of his friendship with Prince Andrew. That charm was
not expressed so much in his relations with him as with all his family
and with the household. With the stern old prince and the gentle, timid
Princess Mary, though he had scarcely known them, Pierre at once felt
like an old friend. They were all fond of him already. Not only Princess
Mary, who had been won by his gentleness with the pilgrims, gave him her
most radiant looks, but even the one-year-old “Prince Nicholas” (as
his grandfather called him) smiled at Pierre and let himself be taken
in his arms, and Michael Ivánovich and Mademoiselle Bourienne looked at
him with pleasant smiles when he talked to the old prince.
The old prince came in to supper; this was evidently on Pierre’s
account. And during the two days of the young man’s visit he was
extremely kind to him and told him to visit them again.
When Pierre had gone and the members of the household met together, they
began to express their opinions of him as people always do after a new
acquaintance has left, but as seldom happens, no one said anything but
what was good of him.
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Let's Analyse the Pattern
Genuine connections form through authentic engagement and respectful curiosity, not through performance or agreement.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to distinguish between genuine relationship-building and social performance by observing how Pierre creates bonds through respect rather than agreement.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when someone listens to understand versus listening to respond—the quality of attention reveals who's performing and who's genuinely connecting.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"I understand them so well and have the greatest respect for them."
Context: Pierre explains to Princess Mary why he listened respectfully to the pilgrim woman's stories
This reveals Pierre's character - he doesn't need to share someone's beliefs to respect their humanity and experiences. This simple act of respect immediately creates a bond with Princess Mary, who sees his genuine kindness.
In Today's Words:
I get where they're coming from, and I respect that
"I have known you a long time, you see, and am as fond of you as of a brother."
Context: Princess Mary responds to Pierre's kindness toward their guest
Shows how quickly authentic kindness creates family-like bonds. Princess Mary recognizes Pierre as someone who treats all people with dignity, making him instantly trustworthy with her deepest concerns.
In Today's Words:
You feel like family to me
"There was such peace all around, such blessedness, that one don't want to come out, even into the light of heaven again."
Context: Describing her spiritual experience in the catacombs with the saints
Illustrates how people find profound meaning in experiences others might not understand. Her simple but powerful description shows that wisdom and spiritual insight don't require formal education or social status.
In Today's Words:
It felt so peaceful and perfect that I never wanted to leave
Thematic Threads
Class
In This Chapter
Pierre treats the pilgrim woman and the prince with equal respect despite vast social differences
Development
Continues theme of Pierre transcending class barriers through genuine humanity
In Your Life:
You might notice how differently you interact with your supervisor versus the cleaning staff, and question why.
Identity
In This Chapter
Pierre's natural warmth and authenticity immediately endear him to the entire household
Development
Shows Pierre's true character emerging as he stops trying to fit predetermined roles
In Your Life:
You might recognize moments when being yourself worked better than trying to be who you thought others wanted.
Human Relationships
In This Chapter
Instant family-like bonds form through genuine interest and respectful disagreement
Development
Demonstrates healthy relationship dynamics contrasting with earlier toxic social interactions
In Your Life:
You might notice which relationships feel effortless versus those where you're constantly performing.
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
Pierre ignores social rules about who deserves respect and engages authentically with everyone
Development
Pierre increasingly rejects artificial social hierarchies in favor of human connection
In Your Life:
You might catch yourself following unspoken rules about who you should take seriously or impress.
Personal Growth
In This Chapter
Pierre's emotional intelligence and capacity for genuine connection create belonging
Development
Shows Pierre's evolution from awkward social outsider to someone who naturally builds family bonds
In Your Life:
You might recognize your own journey from trying to fit in to finding where you naturally belong.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What specific actions did Pierre take that made the entire household embrace him so quickly?
analysis • surface - 2
Why did the old prince appreciate Pierre more than someone who simply agreed with everything he said?
analysis • medium - 3
Think about your workplace or social circles - who builds the strongest relationships, and how do they do it?
application • medium - 4
When you meet new people, do you tend to perform a version of yourself or show up authentically? What's the difference in results?
application • deep - 5
What does Pierre's instant acceptance teach us about what people really want from relationships?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Connection Style
Think of the last three new people you met - at work, in your neighborhood, or socially. Write down how you approached each interaction: Did you ask questions about their lives? Did you share something genuine about yourself? Did you agree with everything they said or engage honestly when you disagreed? Now identify which interactions felt most natural and which person you'd be most likely to talk to again.
Consider:
- •Notice whether you change your personality based on who you're talking to
- •Pay attention to which conversations energized you versus drained you
- •Consider whether you remember details about what they shared with you
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when someone made you feel instantly comfortable and accepted. What specific things did they do that created that feeling? How can you offer that same gift to others?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 99: Finding Home in Structure
As Pierre settles into this newfound sense of belonging, the larger world continues to churn with political tensions that will soon reach even this peaceful estate.




