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f the passions which take their origin from the body.
1. It is indecent to express any strong degree of
those passions which arise from a certain situation or
disposition of the body; because the company, not
being in the same disposition, cannot be expected
to sympathize with them. Violent hunger, for example,
though upon many occasions not only natural,
but unavoidable, is always indecent, and to
eat voraciously is universally regarded as a piece of
ill manners. There is, however, some degree of
sympathy, even with hunger. It is agreeable to see
our companions eat with a good appetite, and all
35expressions of loathing are offensive. The disposition
of body which is habitual to a man in health,
makes his stomach easily keep time, if I may be
allowed so coarse an expression, with the one, and
not with the other. We can sympathize with the
distress which excessive hunger occasions when we
read the description of it in the journal of a siege,
or of a sea voyage. We imagine ourselves in the
situation of the sufferers, and thence readily conceive
the grief, the fear and consternation, which
must necessarily distract them. We feel, ourselves,
some degree of those passions, and therefore sympathize
with them: but as we do not grow hungry
by reading the description, we cannot properly,
even in this case, be said to sympathize with their
hunger.
It is the same case with the passion by which Nature
unites the two sexes. Though naturally the
most furious of all passions, all strong expressions of
it are upon every occasion indecent, even between
persons in whom its most complete indulgence is acknowledged
by all laws, both human and divine,
to be perfectly innocent. There seems, however,
to be some degree of sympathy even with this passion.
To talk to a woman as we should to a man
is improper: it is expected that their company
should inspire us with more gaiety, more pleasantry,
and more attention; and an entire insensibility to
the fair sex, renders a man contemptible in some
measure even to the men.
Such is our aversion for all the appetites which
take their origin from the body: all strong expressions
of them are loathsome and disagreeable. According
36to some ancient philosophers, these are the
passions which we share in common with the brutes,
and which having no connexion with the characteristical
qualities of human nature, are upon that account
beneath its dignity. But there are many
other passions which we share in common with the
brutes, such as resentment, natural affection, even
gratitude, which do not, upon that account, appear
to be so brutal. The true cause of the peculiar
disgust which we conceive for the appetites of the
body when we see them in other men, is that we
cannot enter into them. To the person himself
who feels them, as soon as they are gratified, the
object that excited them ceases to be agreeable:
even its presence often becomes offensive to him;
he looks round to no purpose for the charm which
transported him the moment before, and he can
now as little enter into his own passion as another
person. When we have dined, we order the covers
to be removed; and we should treat in the
same manner the objects of the most ardent and
passionate desires, if they were the objects of no
other passions but those which take their origin from
the body.
In the command of those appetites of the body
consists that virtue which is properly called temperance.
To restrain them within those bounds,
which regard to health and fortune prescribes, is the
part of prudence. But to confine them within those
limits, which grace, which propriety, which delicacy,
and modesty, require, is the office of temperance.
2. It is for the same reason that to cry out with
bodily pain, how intolerable soever, appears always
37unmanly and unbecoming. There is, however, a
good deal of sympathy even with bodily pain. If,
as has already been observed, I see a stroke aimed,
and just ready to fall upon the leg or arm, of another
person, I naturally shrink and draw back my own
leg, or my own arm; and when it does fall, I feel
it in some measure, and am hurt by it as well as the
sufferer. My hurt, however, is, no doubt, excessively
slight, and, upon that account, if he makes
any violent out-cry, as I cannot go along with him,
I never fail to despise him. And this is the case of
all the passions which take their origin from the body:
they excite either no sympathy at all, or such a degree
of it, as is altogether disproportioned to the
violence of what is felt by the sufferer.
It is quite otherwise with those passions which take
their origin from the imagination. The frame of
my body can be but little affected by the alterations
which are brought about upon that of my companion:
but my imagination is more ductile, and
more readily assumes, if I may so, the shape and
configuration of the imaginations of those with
whom I am familiar. A disappointment in love,
or ambition, will, upon this account, call forth more
sympathy than the greatest bodily evil. Those passions
arise altogether from the imagination. The
person who has lost his whole fortune, if he is in
health, feels nothing in his body. What he suffers
is from the imagination only, which represents to
him the loss of his dignity, neglect from his friends,
contempt from his enemies, dependence, want, and
misery, coming fast upon him; and we sympathize
with him more strongly upon this account, because
our imaginations can more readily mould themselves
38upon his imagination, than our bodies can mould
themselves upon his body.
The loss of a leg may generally be regarded as a
more real calamity than the loss of a mistress. It
would be a ridiculous tragedy, however, of which
the catastrophe was to turn upon a loss of that kind.
A misfortune of the other kind, how frivolous soever
it may appear to be, has given occasion to many
a fine one.
Nothing is so soon forgot as pain. The moment
it is gone the whole agony of it is over, and the
thought of it can no longer give us any sort of disturbance.
We ourselves cannot then enter into the
anxiety and anguish which we had before conceived.
An unguarded word from a friend will occasion a
more durable uneasiness. The agony which this
creates is by no means over with the word. What
at first disturbs us is not the object of the senses,
but the idea of the imagination. As it is an idea,
therefore, which occasions our uneasiness, till time
and other accidents have in some measure effaced
it from our memory, the imagination continues to
fret and rankle within, from the thought of it.
Pain never calls forth any very lively sympathy
unless it is accompanied with danger. We sympathize
with the fear, though not with the agony of
the sufferer. Fear, however, is a passion derived
altogether from the imagination, which represents,
with an uncertainty and fluctuation that increases
our anxiety, not what we really feel, but what we
may hereafter possibly suffer. The gout or the
tooth-ache, though exquisitely painful, excite very
39little sympathy; more dangerous diseases, though
accompanied with very little pain, excite the highest.
Some people faint and grow sick at the sight of
a chirurgical operation, and that bodily pain which
is occasioned by tearing the flesh, seems, in them,
to excite the most excessive sympathy. We conceive
in a much more lively and distinct manner,
the pain which proceeds from an external cause, than
we do that which arises from an internal disorder.
I can scarce form an idea of the agonies of my
neighbour when he is tortured with the gout, or the
stone; but I have the clearest conception of what
he must suffer from an incision, a wound, or a fracture.
The chief cause, however, why such objects
produce such violent effects upon us, is their novelty.
Once who has been witness to a dozen dissections,
and as many amputations, sees, ever after, all operations
of this kind with great indifference, and often
with perfect insensibility. Though we have
read or seen represented more than five hundred
tragedies, we shall seldom feel so entire an abatement
of our sensibility to the object which they represent
to us.
In some of the Greek tragedies there is an attempt
to excite compassion, by the representation of the
agonies of bodily pain. Philoctetes cries out and
faints from the extremity of his sufferings. Hippolytus
and Hercules are both introduced as expiring
under the severest tortures, which, it seems,
even the fortitude of Hercules was incapable of supporting.
In all these cases, however, it is not the
pain which interests us, but some other circumstance.
40It is not the sore foot, but the solitude, of Philoctetes
which affects us, and diffuses over that charming
tragedy, that romantic wildness, which is so
agreeable to the imagination. The agonies of Hercules
and Hippolytus are interested only because we
foresee that death is to be the consequence. If those
heroes were to recover, we should think the representation
of their sufferings perfectly ridiculous.
What a tragedy would that be of which the distress
consisted in a colic. Yet no pain is more exquisite.
These attempts to excite compassion by the representation
of bodily pain, may be regarded as among
the greatest breaches of decorum of which the Greek
theatre has set the example.
The little sympathy which we feel with bodily
pain is the foundation of the propriety of constancy
and patience in enduring it. The man, who under
the severest tortures allows no weakness to escape
him, vents no groan, gives way to no passion which
we do not entirely enter into, commands our highest
admiration. His firmness enables him to keep
time with our indifference and insensibility. We
admire and entirely go along with the magnanimous
effort which he makes for this purpose. We approve
of his behaviour, and from our experience of
the common weakness of human nature, we are surprised,
and wonder how he should be able to act so
as to deserve approbation. Approbation, mixed
and animated by wonder and surprise, constitutes the
sentiment which is properly called admiration, of
which, applause is the natural expression, as has already
been observed.
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Let's Analyse the Pattern
People only sympathize with suffering they can mentally simulate, leaving physical and practical struggles invisible and unsupported.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches you to recognize when and why people show compassion versus judgment based on their ability to mentally simulate someone else's experience.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when you feel more sympathy for emotional problems than physical ones, and catch yourself making assumptions about others' 'real' versus 'performed' struggles.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"Violent hunger, though upon many occasions not only natural, but unavoidable, is always indecent, and to eat voraciously is universally regarded as a piece of ill manners."
Context: Smith explaining why we judge people for displaying bodily needs publicly
This reveals how social rules often contradict natural human needs. Even when hunger is completely justified, society still demands we hide it. Smith shows that 'good manners' often means protecting others from witnessing what they can't sympathize with.
In Today's Words:
Even when you're starving, scarfing down food in public makes people uncomfortable and judge you as lacking self-control.
"We can sympathize with the distress which excessive hunger occasions when we read the description of it in the journal of a siege, but as we do not grow hungry by reading the description, we cannot properly be said to sympathize with their hunger."
Context: Distinguishing between sympathizing with emotions versus physical sensations
Smith makes a crucial distinction here - we can feel someone's fear or desperation because those are mental states we can imagine, but we can't actually feel their physical hunger. This explains why emotional suffering gets more sympathy than physical pain.
In Today's Words:
You can feel bad for someone's anxiety about being broke, but you can't actually feel their empty stomach growling.
"The company, not being in the same disposition, cannot be expected to sympathize with them."
Context: Explaining why bodily passions make others uncomfortable
This is Smith's core insight about human social psychology - we can only sympathize with what we can imagine experiencing ourselves. When someone displays a physical need we don't currently have, we naturally withdraw our sympathy.
In Today's Words:
If you're not feeling what they're feeling, you can't really understand it, so their display of need just makes you uncomfortable.
Thematic Threads
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
Society demands we hide bodily needs and physical struggles to maintain social approval
Development
Builds on earlier chapters about performing for others' approval
In Your Life:
You might find yourself apologizing for being tired, hungry, or in pain because others can't relate to physical needs
Class
In This Chapter
Physical laborers must hide exhaustion and pain while knowledge workers can openly discuss mental fatigue
Development
Expands the class theme to show how different types of suffering get different social treatment
In Your Life:
Your job might value mental stress over physical demands, making your real challenges invisible
Human Relationships
In This Chapter
Relationships suffer when partners can't empathize with each other's different types of pain and need
Development
Deepens relationship dynamics by showing the limits of human sympathy
In Your Life:
You might feel closest to people who share similar physical experiences because they don't need explanations
Identity
In This Chapter
We define strength as suffering silently, creating false identities around enduring what others can't see
Development
Continues identity themes by showing how we perform strength for social acceptance
In Your Life:
You might pride yourself on 'pushing through' pain, not realizing this performance costs you real support
Personal Growth
In This Chapter
True wisdom means recognizing the limits of human empathy and finding appropriate support systems
Development
Introduced here as a new dimension of self-awareness
In Your Life:
Growing up might mean stopping the performance of strength and finding people who understand your real struggles
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
According to Smith, why do we judge someone for eating messily in public but feel sympathy for someone going through a breakup?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Smith say we admire people who endure physical pain silently, even though staying quiet doesn't actually reduce their suffering?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see this empathy gap playing out today - people getting more sympathy for struggles others can imagine versus struggles they can't?
application • medium - 4
If you had a chronic illness or disability, how would you navigate a workplace that gives mental health days but questions physical limitations?
application • deep - 5
What does Smith's observation reveal about the difference between performing strength and actually being strong?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Sympathy Blind Spots
Think of three people in your life dealing with ongoing challenges. For each person, write down whether their struggle is something you can mentally simulate or not. Notice which ones you find easier to support and which ones you might unconsciously judge or avoid. This exercise reveals your own empathy gaps and helps you become a more intentional supporter.
Consider:
- •Physical struggles (chronic pain, fatigue, illness) versus emotional ones (anxiety, heartbreak, stress)
- •How your own life experiences shape what you can and cannot imagine
- •The difference between understanding someone's situation intellectually versus feeling moved to help
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you felt like others didn't understand or believe your struggle. What did you need from them that you didn't get? How can you offer that same understanding to others facing invisible challenges?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 7: Why We Can't Connect with Love
Next, Smith examines the flip side: those emotions that spring purely from our imagination and thoughts. These passions of the mind follow completely different rules and earn very different reactions from others.




