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f the consciousness of merited praise or blame.
In the two foregoing parts of this discourse, I have
chiefly considered the origin and foundation of our
judgments concerning the sentiments and conduct
of others. I come now to consider the origin of
those concerning our own.
The desire of the approbation and esteem of those
we live with, which is of such importance to our
happiness, cannot be fully and entirely contented but
by rendering ourselves the just and proper objects of
those sentiments, and by adjusting our own character
and conduct according to those measures and
rules by which esteem and approbation are naturally
bestowed. It is not sufficient, that from ignorance
174or mistake, esteem and approbation should some way
or other be bestowed upon us. If we are conscious
that we do not deserve to be so favourably thought
of, and that if the truth was known, we should be
regarded with very opposite sentiments, our satisfaction
is far from being complete. The man who applauds
us either for actions which we did not perform,
or for motives which had no sort of influence
upon our conduct, applauds not us, but another person.
We can derive no sort of satisfaction from his
praises. To us they should be more mortifying than
any censure, and should perpetually call to our minds,
the most humbling of all reflections, the reflection
upon what we ought to be, but what we are not. A
woman who paints to conceal her ugliness, could derive,
one should imagine, but little vanity from the
compliments that are paid to her beauty. These,
we should expect, ought rather to put her in mind of
the sentiments which her real complexion would excite,
and mortify her more by the contrast. To be
pleased with such groundless applause is a proof of
the most superficial levity and weakness. It is what
is properly called vanity, and is the foundation of the
most ridiculous and contemptible vices, the vices of
affectation and common lying; follies which, if experience
did not teach us how common they are, one
should imagine the least spark of common sense
would save us from. The foolish liar, who endeavours
to excite the admiration of the company by
the relation of adventures which never had any existence,
the important coxcomb who gives himself
airs of rank and distinction which he well knows he
has no just pretensions to, are both of them, no
doubt, pleased with the applause which they fancy
175they meet with. But their vanity arises from so
gross an illusion of the imagination, that it is difficult
to conceive how any rational creature should be imposed
upon by it. When they place themselves in
the situation of those whom they fancy they have
deceived, they are struck with the highest admiration
for their own persons. They look upon themselves,
not in that light in which, they know, they ought to
appear to their companions, but in that in which
they believe their companions actually look upon
them. Their superficial weakness and trivial folly
hinder them from ever turning their eyes inwards,
or from seeing themselves in that despicable point of
view in which their own consciences should tell them
that they would appear to every body, if the real
truth should ever come to be known.
As ignorant and groundless praise can give no solid
joy, no satisfaction that will bear any serious examination,
so, on the contrary, it often gives real
comfort to reflect, that though no praise should actually
be bestowed upon us, our conduct, however, has
been such as to deserve it, and has been in every respect
suitable to those measures and rules by which
praise and approbation are naturally and commonly
bestowed. We are pleased not only with praise, but with
having done what is praise-worthy. We are pleased to
think that we have rendered ourselves the natural
objects of approbation, though no approbation,
should ever actually be bestowed upon us: and we
are mortified to reflect that we have justly incurred
the blame of those we live with, though that sentiment
should never actually be exerted against us.
176The man who is conscious to himself that he has exactly
observed those measures of conduct which experience
informs him are generally agreeable, reflects
with satisfaction on the propriety of his own
behaviour; when he views it in the light in which
the impartial spectator would view it, he thoroughly
enters into all the motives which influenced it; he
looks back upon every part of it with pleasure
and approbation, and though mankind should never
be acquainted with what he has done, he regards
himself not so much according to the light in which
they actually regard him, as according to that, in
which they would regard him if they were better informed.
He anticipates the applause and admiration
which in this case would be bestowed upon
him, and he applauds and admires himself by sympathy
with sentiments which do not indeed actually
take place, but which the ignorance of the public
alone hinders from taking place, which he knows are
the natural and ordinary effects of such conduct,
which his imagination strongly connects with it,
and which he has acquired a habit of conceiving as
something that naturally and in propriety ought to
flow from it. Men have often voluntarily thrown
away life to acquire after death a renown which they
could no longer enjoy. Their imagination, in the
mean time, anticipated that fame which was thereafter
to be bestowed upon them. Those applauses
which they were never to hear rung in their ears;
the thoughts of that admiration, whose effects they
were never to feel, played about their hearts, banished
from their breasts the strongest of all natural fears,
and transported them to perform actions which seem
aimed beyond the reach of human nature. But in
177point of reality there is surely no great difference
between that approbation which is not to be bestowed
till we can no longer enjoy it, and that which indeed
is never to be bestowed, but which would be
bestowed if the world was ever made to understand
properly the real circumstances of our behaviour.
If the one often produces such violent effects, we
cannot wonder that the other should always be highly
regarded.
On the contrary, the man who has broke through
all those measures of conduct, which can alone render
him agreeable to mankind, tho’ he should have
the most perfect assurance that what he had done
was for ever to be concealed from every human eye,
it is all to no purpose. When he looks back upon it,
and views it in the light in which the impartial spectator
would view it, he finds that he can enter into
none of the motives which influenced it. He is abashed
and confounded at the thoughts of it, and necessarily
feels a very high degree of that shame which he
would be exposed to, if his actions should ever come
to be generally known. His imagination, in this
case too, anticipates the contempt and derision from
which nothing saves him but the ignorance of those
he lives with. He still feels that he is the natural
object of these sentiments, and still trembles at the
thought of what he would suffer if they were ever actually
exerted against him. But if what he had been
guilty of was not merely one of those improprieties
which are the objects of simple disapprobation, but
one of those enormous crimes which excite detestation
and resentment, he could never think of it, as
long as he had any sensibility left, without feeling all
178the agony of horror and remorse; and though he
could be assured that no man was ever to know it,
and could even bring himself to believe that there
was no God to revenge it, he would still feel enough
of both these sentiments to embitter the whole of his
life: He would still regard himself as the natural object
of the hatred and indignation of all his fellow-creatures;
and if his heart was not grown callous by the
habit of crimes, he could not think without terror and
astonishment even of the manner in which mankind
would look upon him, of what would be the expression
of their countenance and of their eyes, if the
dreadful truth should ever come to be known.
These natural pangs of an affrighted conscience are
the dæmons, the avenging furies which in this life
haunt the guilty, which allow them neither quiet nor
repose, which often drive them to despair and distraction,
from which no assurance of secrecy can protect
them, from which no principles of irreligion can
entirely deliver them, and from which nothing can
free them but the vilest and most abject of all states,
a complete insensibility of honour and infamy, to
vice and virtue. Men of the most detestable characters,
who, in the execution of the most dreadful
crimes, had taken their measures so coolly as to avoid
even the suspicion of guilt, have sometimes been
driven, by the horror of their situation, to discover of
their own accord, what no human sagacity could ever
have investigated. By acknowledging their guilt,
by submitting themselves to the resentment of their
offended citizens, and by thus satiating that vengeance
of which they were sensible that they were become
the proper objects, they hoped by their death
179to reconcile themselves, at least in their own imagination,
to the natural sentiments of mankind, to be
able to consider themselves as less worthy of hatred
and resentment, to atone in some measure for their
crimes, and, if possible, to die in peace and with the
forgiveness of all their fellow-creatures. Compared
to what they felt before the discovery, even the
thought of this, it seems, was happiness.
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Let's Analyse the Pattern
We cannot escape our own moral judgment, and true satisfaction comes from internal alignment rather than external validation.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches us to distinguish between external validation and internal moral satisfaction, showing why some achievements feel hollow while others bring deep contentment.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when praise or success feels unexpectedly empty—that's your internal judge telling you something about alignment between your actions and values.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"The man who applauds us either for actions which we did not perform, or for motives which had no sort of influence upon our conduct, applauds not us, but another person."
Context: Smith explaining why undeserved praise feels empty and unsatisfying
This reveals why fake praise hurts rather than helps - we know when we don't deserve it. The praise is for an imaginary version of us, not who we really are, so it can't give us genuine satisfaction.
In Today's Words:
When someone compliments you for something you didn't really do, they're not actually complimenting you - they're complimenting some made-up version of you.
"We can derive no sort of satisfaction from his praises. To us they should be more mortifying than any censure."
Context: Describing how false praise should feel worse than honest criticism
Smith shows that undeserved praise forces us to confront the gap between who we appear to be and who we really are. This self-awareness makes the praise painful rather than pleasant.
In Today's Words:
Getting praised for something you didn't earn should feel worse than being criticized, because it reminds you of what a fraud you are.
"It is not sufficient, that from ignorance or mistake, esteem and approbation should some way or other be bestowed upon us."
Context: Opening argument about why we need to actually deserve the good opinion others have of us
This establishes Smith's central point that true happiness requires internal integrity, not just external approval. We can't be satisfied by fooling others if we can't fool ourselves.
In Today's Words:
It's not enough to have people think well of you if you know they're wrong about who you really are.
Thematic Threads
Identity
In This Chapter
Smith shows that our true identity isn't what others see but what we know ourselves to be
Development
Deepens from earlier discussions of social perception to reveal the primacy of self-knowledge
In Your Life:
You might struggle with imposter syndrome or feel hollow when praised for things you didn't actually accomplish
Personal Growth
In This Chapter
Growth requires honest self-assessment rather than seeking external validation
Development
Builds on previous chapters to show that moral development is an internal process
In Your Life:
You might find that real confidence comes from knowing you've done right, not from others telling you so
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
The gap between social approval and personal integrity creates internal conflict
Development
Contrasts with earlier focus on social judgment to reveal the limits of external validation
In Your Life:
You might feel pressure to maintain appearances while knowing your reality doesn't match
Human Relationships
In This Chapter
Authentic relationships require being honest about who we really are
Development
Extends relationship themes to include the relationship with ourselves
In Your Life:
You might find that hiding your true self from others ultimately isolates you from yourself
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
Why does Smith say that someone who receives praise they don't deserve feels no real satisfaction, even though others think well of them?
analysis • surface - 2
What is the 'impartial spectator' Smith describes, and why can't we fool this internal voice even when we successfully deceive others?
analysis • medium - 3
Think about someone you know who seems constantly stressed or guilty despite appearing successful to others. How might Smith's concept of internal moral judgment explain their behavior?
application • medium - 4
Smith suggests some people confess to crimes no one suspected them of committing. In your workplace or personal life, when might 'coming clean' about something actually bring relief rather than consequences?
application • deep - 5
If we truly cannot escape our own moral judgment, what does this reveal about the relationship between external success and internal peace?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
The Alignment Audit
Think of three areas in your life where there might be a gap between how others see you and how you see yourself. For each area, write down what others believe about you versus what you know to be true. Then identify one small action you could take to bring these closer together - not necessarily by confessing everything, but by aligning your future actions with your values.
Consider:
- •Consider both positive gaps (where you're praised for things you didn't really do) and negative gaps (where you're hiding mistakes or shortcuts)
- •Focus on areas where the misalignment causes you ongoing stress or discomfort
- •Remember that alignment doesn't require perfection - it requires honesty about where you are and commitment to growth
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you felt most at peace with yourself, even if no one else knew what you had done. What made that experience different from times when you received praise but felt empty inside?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 26: The Inner Judge and Moral Mirror
Smith will explore how our personal moral judgments connect to universal standards, revealing the origin of the moral rules that guide human societies. He'll show how individual conscience scales up to create shared ethical frameworks.




