Summary
Smith draws a sharp line between two types of virtue that govern human relationships. On one side is beneficence—kindness, generosity, gratitude—which must be freely given and can never be forced. You might hate someone for being ungrateful, but you can't make them appreciate what you've done for them. Even the worst ingratitude, while morally reprehensible, doesn't justify punishment because it doesn't actively harm anyone. On the other side is justice—not stealing, not hurting others, keeping promises—which can and must be enforced. When someone violates justice, they actively harm others and deserve consequences. This distinction explains why we feel differently about a friend who won't help us move versus one who steals from us. The first disappoints; the second betrays. Smith argues that resentment evolved as nature's defense system, designed to protect us from real harm, not to punish people for failing to be nice. This creates a delicate balance in relationships and society: we can demand basic fairness from others, but we cannot compel their affection or generosity. Parents and governments complicate this picture—they can require certain acts of care and responsibility—but even they must use this power carefully. Push too hard for kindness, and you destroy the very freedom that makes genuine virtue possible. The chapter reveals why forced gratitude feels hollow and why authentic relationships require voluntary goodwill.
Coming Up in Chapter 20
Having established when punishment is justified, Smith next explores the internal mechanisms that make us feel guilt when we've done wrong and pride when we've done right—the psychological foundations of moral accountability.
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Comparison of those two virtues. Actions of a beneficent tendency, which proceed from proper motives, seem alone to require reward; because such alone are the approved objects of gratitude, or excite the sympathetic gratitude of the spectator. Actions of a hurtful tendency, which proceed from improper motives, seem alone to deserve punishment; because such alone are the approved objects of resentment, or excite the sympathetic resentment of the spectator. Beneficence is always free, it cannot be extorted by force, the mere want of it exposes to no punishment; because the mere want of beneficence tends to do no real positive evil. It may disappoint of the good which might reasonably have been expected, and upon that account it may justly excite dislike and disapprobation: it cannot, however, provoke 120any resentment which mankind will go along with. The man who does not recompense his benefactor, when he has it in his power, and when his benefactor needs his assistance, is, no doubt, guilty of the blackest ingratitude. The heart of every impartial spectator rejects all fellow-feeling with the selfishness of his motives, and he is the proper object of the highest disapprobation. But still he does no positive hurt to any body. He only does not do that good which in propriety he ought to have done. He is the object of hatred, a passion which is naturally excited by impropriety of sentiment and behaviour; not of resentment, a passion which is never properly called forth but by actions which tend to do real and positive hurt to some particular persons. His want of gratitude, therefore, cannot be punished. To oblige him by force to perform what in gratitude he ought to perform, and what every impartial spectator would approve of him for performing, would if possible, be still more improper than his neglecting to perform it. His benefactor would dishonour himself if he attempted by violence to constrain him to gratitude, and it would be impertinent for any third person, who was not the superior of either, to intermeddle. But of all the duties of beneficence, those which gratitude recommends to us approach nearest to what is called a perfect and complete obligation. What friendship, what generosity, what charity, would prompt us to do with universal approbation, is still more free, and can still less be extorted by force than the duties of gratitude. We talk of the debt of gratitude, not of charity, or generosity, nor even of friendship, when friendship is mere esteem, and has not been enhanced and complicated with gratitude for good offices. 121Resentment seems to have been given us by nature for defence, and for defence only. It is the safeguard of justice and the security of innocence. It prompts us to beat off the mischief which is attempted to be done to us, and to retaliate that which is already done; that the offender may be made to repent of his injustice, and that others, through fear of the like punishment, may be terrified...
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Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Two Demands - What You Can Ask For and What You Cannot
The distinction between what we can rightfully demand from others (basic fairness) and what must be freely given (kindness and generosity).
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to separate what you can rightfully expect from others versus what you can only hope to receive.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when you feel frustrated with someone—ask yourself whether they violated basic fairness or simply failed to be as generous as you'd hoped.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Terms to Know
Beneficence
Acts of kindness, generosity, and care that go beyond basic fairness. Smith argues these must be freely given and cannot be forced or demanded. Unlike justice, beneficence is optional—you can't punish someone for not being generous.
Modern Usage:
This is why we feel uncomfortable when someone demands gratitude or when companies mandate 'voluntary' charity drives.
Justice
Basic fairness that prevents harm—not stealing, not hurting others, keeping promises. Unlike beneficence, justice can be enforced through punishment because violating it actively harms people.
Modern Usage:
This is the difference between laws (which enforce justice) and social expectations (which hope for kindness).
Sympathetic resentment
The anger we feel on behalf of someone who has been wronged, even when we're not directly involved. Smith sees this as society's natural way of enforcing justice through shared moral emotions.
Modern Usage:
This is why we get angry watching videos of people being mistreated, even though it doesn't affect us personally.
Impartial spectator
Smith's concept of an imaginary neutral observer who judges actions fairly, without personal bias. This internal voice helps us determine what's truly right or wrong versus what just benefits us.
Modern Usage:
It's like asking yourself 'What would a fair person think?' when you're too emotionally involved in a situation.
Impropriety of sentiment
Having feelings or reactions that don't match what the situation calls for. Smith distinguishes between natural human failings and actual moral violations that deserve punishment.
Modern Usage:
This explains why we judge someone differently for being ungrateful versus being cruel—one is disappointing, the other is wrong.
Positive evil
Actively causing harm to someone, as opposed to simply failing to help them. Smith argues only positive evil justifies punishment and resentment.
Modern Usage:
It's the difference between a coworker who won't help you with a project versus one who sabotages your work.
Characters in This Chapter
The ungrateful man
Moral example
Smith's hypothetical person who refuses to help his benefactor when he has the power to do so. He represents the limits of moral enforcement—we can hate his ingratitude but can't punish him for it.
Modern Equivalent:
The friend who never returns favors but never actually hurts you
The benefactor
Victim of ingratitude
The person who helped someone and now needs help in return. Smith uses this figure to show why we feel sympathy for those whose kindness isn't reciprocated, even though no real harm was done.
Modern Equivalent:
The parent whose adult child never calls
The impartial spectator
Moral judge
Smith's imaginary neutral observer who feels disgust at the ungrateful man's selfishness but recognizes that punishment isn't justified. This figure helps distinguish between disapproval and legitimate resentment.
Modern Equivalent:
The wise friend who validates your feelings but talks you out of revenge
Key Quotes & Analysis
"Beneficence is always free, it cannot be extorted by force, the mere want of it exposes to no punishment"
Context: Smith explains why kindness must be voluntary to be genuine
This reveals why forced gratitude feels hollow and why authentic relationships require freedom. Smith argues that the moment we try to compel kindness, we destroy the very thing we're seeking.
In Today's Words:
You can't make someone be nice to you, and you shouldn't be able to punish them for not being generous.
"The heart of every impartial spectator rejects all fellow-feeling with the selfishness of his motives"
Context: Describing how we naturally judge the ungrateful person
Smith shows how moral emotions work automatically—we instinctively side against selfishness even when no real harm is done. This natural disgust helps maintain social bonds without requiring legal enforcement.
In Today's Words:
Everyone can see right through selfish people, and nobody feels sorry for them.
"He only does not do that good which in propriety he ought to have done"
Context: Explaining why ingratitude is wrong but not punishable
This distinction between failing to do good and actively doing harm is crucial for understanding justice. Smith argues that disappointment and betrayal are different categories that require different responses.
In Today's Words:
He's not hurting anyone—he's just not helping when he should.
Thematic Threads
Human Relationships
In This Chapter
Smith reveals the delicate balance between demanding basic fairness and allowing space for voluntary kindness in all relationships
Development
Builds on earlier chapters about sympathy by showing the limits of what we can expect from others
In Your Life:
You see this when you feel frustrated that coworkers aren't more supportive, even though they're not actively undermining you
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
Society can enforce justice through laws and consequences but cannot compel genuine virtue or affection
Development
Extends previous discussions of social judgment by identifying what society can and cannot rightfully regulate
In Your Life:
You experience this tension when family members pressure you to be more grateful or enthusiastic about obligations
Personal Growth
In This Chapter
Understanding the difference between justice and beneficence helps individuals set appropriate boundaries and expectations
Development
Provides practical framework for the moral development themes explored throughout the book
In Your Life:
You grow when you stop trying to force appreciation from others and focus on protecting yourself from actual harm
Class
In This Chapter
Different social positions create different obligations—parents and employers have special duties that complicate the justice-beneficence divide
Development
Adds nuance to earlier discussions of social hierarchy by showing how power creates special responsibilities
In Your Life:
You navigate this when supervisors expect both professional competence and personal loyalty from subordinates
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
According to Smith, what's the key difference between justice and beneficence, and why can we enforce one but not the other?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Smith argue that resentment evolved as a natural response to injustice but not to lack of kindness?
analysis • medium - 3
Think about a recent conflict at work or home. Was the problem a violation of justice (someone harmed you) or a lack of beneficence (someone wasn't as helpful as you hoped)?
application • medium - 4
How would you handle a situation where someone important to you consistently fails to show appreciation for your efforts?
application • deep - 5
What does this distinction between forced and voluntary virtue teach us about building genuine relationships?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Relationship Expectations
Choose one important relationship in your life. Create two columns: 'What I Can Rightfully Expect' (justice) and 'What I Hope For But Cannot Demand' (beneficence). List 5-7 items in each column based on your actual interactions with this person. Notice which column contains most of your recent frustrations.
Consider:
- •Be honest about which expectations are reasonable versus wishful thinking
- •Consider how your attempts to force beneficence might be backfiring
- •Think about whether you're giving the other person credit for meeting basic justice requirements
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you tried to force someone to be grateful or affectionate. What happened? How might you approach similar situations differently now that you understand this distinction?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 20: The Weight of Conscience
In the next chapter, you'll discover to recognize when self-interest crosses moral boundaries, and learn guilt and remorse serve as internal moral compasses. These insights reveal timeless patterns that resonate in our own lives and relationships.