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20:019:001 etter is the poor that walketh in his integrity, than he that
is perverse in his lips, and is a fool.
20:019:002 Also, that the soul be without knowledge, it is not good; and
he that hasteth with his feet sinneth.
20:019:003 The foolishness of man perverteth his way: and his heart
fretteth against the LORD.
20:019:004 Wealth maketh many friends; but the poor is separated from his
neighbour.
20:019:005 A false witness shall not be unpunished, and he that speaketh
lies shall not escape.
20:019:006 Many will intreat the favour of the prince: and every man is a
friend to him that giveth gifts.
20:019:007 All the brethren of the poor do hate him: how much more do his
friends go far from him? he pursueth them with words, yet they
are wanting to him.
20:019:008 He that getteth wisdom loveth his own soul: he that keepeth
understanding shall find good.
20:019:009 A false witness shall not be unpunished, and he that speaketh
lies shall perish.
20:019:010 Delight is not seemly for a fool; much less for a servant to
have rule over princes.
20:019:011 The discretion of a man deferreth his anger; and it is his
glory to pass over a transgression.
20:019:012 The king's wrath is as the roaring of a lion; but his favour
is as dew upon the grass.
20:019:013 A foolish son is the calamity of his father: and the
contentions of a wife are a continual dropping.
20:019:014 House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent
wife is from the LORD.
20:019:015 Slothfulness casteth into a deep sleep; and an idle soul shall
suffer hunger.
20:019:016 He that keepeth the commandment keepeth his own soul; but he
that despiseth his ways shall die.
20:019:017 He that hath pity upon the poor lendeth unto the LORD; and
that which he hath given will he pay him again.
20:019:018 Chasten thy son while there is hope, and let not thy soul
spare for his crying.
20:019:019 A man of great wrath shall suffer punishment: for if thou
deliver him, yet thou must do it again.
20:019:020 Hear counsel, and receive instruction, that thou mayest be
wise in thy latter end.
20:019:021 There are many devices in a man's heart; nevertheless the
counsel of the LORD, that shall stand.
20:019:022 The desire of a man is his kindness: and a poor man is better
than a liar.
20:019:023 The fear of the LORD tendeth to life: and he that hath it
shall abide satisfied; he shall not be visited with evil.
20:019:024 A slothful man hideth his hand in his bosom, and will not so
much as bring it to his mouth again.
20:019:025 Smite a scorner, and the simple will beware: and reprove one
that hath understanding, and he will understand knowledge.
20:019:026 He that wasteth his father, and chaseth away his mother, is a
son that causeth shame, and bringeth reproach.
20:019:027 Cease, my son, to hear the instruction that causeth to err
from the words of knowledge.
20:019:028 An ungodly witness scorneth judgment: and the mouth of the
wicked devoureth iniquity.
20:019:029 Judgments are prepared for scorners, and stripes for the back
of fools.
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Let's Analyse the Pattern
People's loyalty and attention fluctuate based on your perceived value and circumstances rather than genuine connection.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize when people's treatment of you shifts based on your perceived status or usefulness rather than your actual worth.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when someone's friendliness increases or decreases based on what you can do for them - this reveals who sees you as a person versus a resource.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"Better is the poor that walketh in his integrity, than he that is perverse in his lips, and is a fool."
Context: Opening statement establishing the chapter's theme about character versus wealth
Solomon immediately challenges society's assumption that rich equals better. He's saying that a poor person who lives honestly is worth more than a wealthy person who lies and cheats. This would have been radical thinking in a world where poverty was seen as God's punishment.
In Today's Words:
I'd rather be broke and honest than rich and crooked.
"Wealth maketh many friends; but the poor is separated from his neighbour."
Context: Observing how money affects social relationships
This is Solomon being brutally honest about human nature. He's not saying this is right, just that it's reality. People gravitate toward those who can benefit them and avoid those who might need help. Understanding this prevents you from taking it personally when relationships change with your circumstances.
In Today's Words:
Money brings people around; being broke makes them disappear.
"The discretion of a man deferreth his anger; and it is his glory to pass over a transgression."
Context: Teaching about emotional control and conflict resolution
Solomon reframes self-control as strength rather than weakness. Being able to stay calm when provoked and choosing not to retaliate for minor slights shows wisdom and maturity. This is practical advice for workplace conflicts and family drama.
In Today's Words:
Keeping your cool when someone pisses you off shows real strength, and sometimes the best response is no response.
"A foolish son is the calamity of his father: and the contentions of a wife are a continual dropping."
Context: Describing ongoing family relationship challenges
Solomon acknowledges two of the most painful ongoing stresses in family life. The comparison to water torture (continual dropping) shows how constant conflict wears people down over time. He's validating that these situations are genuinely difficult, not just minor annoyances.
In Today's Words:
A kid who keeps screwing up breaks their parent's heart, and living with someone who argues about everything is like water torture.
Thematic Threads
Class
In This Chapter
Wealth creates artificial friendships while poverty reveals true relationships
Development
Building on earlier chapters about rich vs poor treatment
In Your Life:
Notice how differently people treat you when you're financially struggling versus doing well
Human Relationships
In This Chapter
Relationships based on benefit versus character show different durability
Development
Deepens earlier themes about choosing companions wisely
In Your Life:
Evaluate your friendships - which ones would survive your worst day
Personal Growth
In This Chapter
Self-control and the ability to overlook offenses as signs of maturity
Development
Continues emphasis on wisdom through restraint
In Your Life:
Your reputation at work often depends more on staying calm than being right
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
Society expects the poor to be grateful and the rich to be generous
Development
Expands on how different classes face different behavioral expectations
In Your Life:
You're judged differently for the same actions depending on your economic status
Identity
In This Chapter
Better to be poor with integrity than wealthy through deception
Development
Reinforces core value of character over material success
In Your Life:
Your self-respect matters more than others' perception of your success
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
Solomon says wealth attracts friends while poverty repels them - even from family. What specific examples of this pattern have you witnessed?
analysis • surface - 2
Why do you think people unconsciously distance themselves from those facing financial hardship, even when they don't mean to be cruel?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see this fair-weather loyalty pattern playing out today - in workplaces, social media, community groups, or family dynamics?
application • medium - 4
How would you build relationships that could survive your own tough times, and how would you identify people worth investing in during theirs?
application • deep - 5
Solomon balances brutal realism about human nature with hope that people can choose better. How do you stay realistic without becoming cynical?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Loyalty Network
Draw three circles: your good times circle (people who enjoy your company when things are going well), your crisis circle (people who would actually show up during real trouble), and your growth circle (people who challenge you to be better). Place names in each circle, noting overlaps. This isn't about judging people harshly - it's about seeing relationships clearly so you can invest your energy wisely.
Consider:
- •Some people are meant to be good-times friends, and that's perfectly fine
- •Your crisis circle might be smaller than expected - that's normal and valuable information
- •The people in your growth circle might not always feel comfortable to be around
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you discovered who your real friends were during a difficult period. What did that teach you about choosing relationships going forward?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 20: Hard Truths About Work and Character
The next chapter opens with a warning about alcohol that goes deeper than simple temperance advice. Solomon will explore how substances - and the illusion of control they provide - can derail even the wisest plans.
