Summary
Chapter 61
Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen
The epilogue wraps up everyone's story with Austen's trademark wit. Mrs. Bennet is thrilled with her two grandest daughters married, though she remains 'occasionally nervous and invariably silly' - some things never change. Mr. Bennet misses Elizabeth terribly and visits Pemberley constantly, especially when unexpected. Jane and Bingley move to Derbyshire after a year because even Bingley's easy temper couldn't handle living near Mrs. Bennet permanently. This puts Jane within thirty miles of Elizabeth, which delights both sisters. Kitty blossoms away from Lydia's bad influence, spending time with her elder sisters and becoming 'less irritable, less ignorant, and less insipid.' Mary stays home to keep Mrs. Bennet company, no longer suffering by comparison to her beautiful sisters. Wickham and Lydia remain a disaster - always in debt, constantly moving, with Wickham's affection quickly fading to indifference. Lydia actually writes asking Elizabeth to get Wickham a government position, which Elizabeth flatly refuses. Though Darcy never receives Wickham at Pemberley, he helps him professionally for Elizabeth's sake. Georgiana and Elizabeth become close sisters, with Georgiana learning from Elizabeth that you can tease your husband with affection. Even Lady Catherine eventually reconciles, her curiosity overcoming her resentment. The Gardiners remain close friends. It's a realistic happy ending - the good people thrive, the foolish ones don't change much, and love makes the difference where it can.
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LXI. [Illustration] Happy for all her maternal feelings was the day on which Mrs. Bennet got rid of her two most deserving daughters. With what delighted pride she afterwards visited Mrs. Bingley, and talked of Mrs. Darcy, may be guessed. I wish I could say, for the sake of her family, that the accomplishment of her earnest desire in the establishment of so many of her children produced so happy an effect as to make her a sensible, amiable, well-informed woman for the rest of her life; though, perhaps, it was lucky for her husband, who might not have relished domestic felicity in so unusual a form, that she still was occasionally nervous and invariably silly. Mr. Bennet missed his second daughter exceedingly; his affection for her drew him oftener from home than anything else could do. He delighted in going to Pemberley, especially when he was least expected. Mr. Bingley and Jane remained at Netherfield only a twelvemonth. So near a vicinity to her mother and Meryton relations was not desirable even to _his_ easy temper, or _her_ affectionate heart. The darling wish of his sisters was then gratified: he bought an estate in a neighbouring county to Derbyshire; and Jane and Elizabeth, in addition to every other source of happiness, were within thirty miles of each other. Kitty, to her very material advantage, spent the chief of her time with her two elder sisters. In society so superior to what she had generally known, her improvement was great. She was not of so ungovernable a temper as Lydia; and, removed from the influence of Lydia’s example, she became, by proper attention and management, less irritable, less ignorant, and less insipid. From the further disadvantage of Lydia’s society she was of course carefully kept; and though Mrs. Wickham frequently invited her to come and stay with her, with the promise of balls and young men, her father would never consent to her going. Mary was the only daughter who remained at home; and she was necessarily drawn from the pursuit of accomplishments by Mrs. Bennet’s being quite unable to sit alone. Mary was obliged to mix more with the world, but she could still moralize over every morning visit; and as she was no longer mortified by comparisons between her sisters’ beauty and her own, it was suspected by her father that she submitted to the change without much reluctance. As for Wickham and Lydia, their characters suffered no revolution from the marriage of her sisters. He bore with philosophy the conviction that Elizabeth must now become acquainted with whatever of his ingratitude and falsehood had before been unknown to her; and, in spite of everything, was not wholly without hope that Darcy might yet be prevailed on to make his fortune. The congratulatory letter which Elizabeth received from Lydia on her marriage explained to her that, by his wife at least, if not by himself, such a hope was cherished. The letter was to this effect:-- /* “My...
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Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to identify relationships where both people become better versions of themselves, rather than just more compliant ones.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Terms to Know
Social station
Your place in society's hierarchy based on wealth, family background, and connections. In Austen's time, this determined who you could marry, befriend, or even speak to. Darcy initially thought Elizabeth was beneath his station.
First impressions
The immediate judgments we make about people when we first meet them. The novel's original title was actually 'First Impressions' because both Elizabeth and Darcy got each other completely wrong at first sight.
Pride vs. prejudice
Pride means thinking too highly of yourself; prejudice means judging others unfairly based on limited information. Both Elizabeth and Darcy had to overcome these flaws to find love.
Genteel poverty
Being from a 'good' family but having little money. The Bennet family has social respectability but financial insecurity, which is why the daughters need to marry well.
Entailment
A legal arrangement where property must be inherited by the nearest male relative. The Bennet estate will go to Mr. Collins, leaving the daughters with nothing when their father dies.
Character development
How people change and grow throughout a story. Both Elizabeth and Darcy become better versions of themselves by learning from their mistakes and each other.
Characters in This Chapter
Elizabeth Bennet
Protagonist
In this chapter, she openly discusses how wrong she was about Darcy and how his letter changed everything. She shows remarkable self-awareness about her own prejudices and growth.
Mr. Darcy
Male protagonist
He reveals when he first fell in love with Elizabeth and admits how much he's changed. His honesty about his former arrogance shows genuine character growth.
Lady Catherine de Bourgh
Antagonist
Though not present, her recent interference is discussed as actually helping bring Elizabeth and Darcy together. Her opposition backfired completely.
Mr. Wickham
Antagonist
His lies about Darcy are referenced as the source of Elizabeth's initial hatred. His deception serves as a turning point in Elizabeth's understanding.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"I cannot fix on the hour, or the spot, or the look, or the words, which laid the foundation. It is too long ago. I was in the middle before I knew that I had begun."
Context: When Elizabeth asks when he first started loving her
This shows how real love develops gradually, not in a lightning bolt moment. Darcy fell for Elizabeth's character long before he could admit it to himself.
"My good opinion once lost is lost forever."
Context: Recalling her earlier harsh words to Darcy
Elizabeth is remembering how absolute and unforgiving she used to be. It shows how much she's grown in wisdom and humility since then.
"You taught me a lesson, hard indeed at first, but most advantageous. By you, I was properly humbled."
Context: Explaining how Elizabeth's rejection changed him
This reveals that love isn't just about finding someone who accepts you as you are, but someone who challenges you to become better.
Thematic Threads
Growth
In This Chapter
Elizabeth and Darcy trace how they've each become better people through loving each other
Development
Culmination of gradual character development shown throughout the novel
In Your Life:
When you look back at your closest relationships, can you identify specific ways that loving someone has challenged you to become a better version of yourself?
Communication
In This Chapter
Their honest conversation about past misunderstandings and hurt feelings
Development
Evolved from pride-driven silence to vulnerable honesty
In Your Life:
Think of a time when you finally had an honest conversation about a long-standing misunderstanding with someone important to you - what made you both ready to be vulnerable in that moment?
Pride
In This Chapter
Both acknowledge how their pride initially blinded them to truth
Development
Transformed from destructive force to healthy self-respect
In Your Life:
Can you recall a situation where your pride prevented you from seeing the truth about yourself or someone else, and how did you eventually move past that blindness?
Partnership
In This Chapter
They recognize how they've made each other stronger rather than just accepting flaws
Development
Evolved from individual pride to mutual enhancement
In Your Life:
In your most meaningful relationship, do you feel like you and your partner actively make each other stronger, or do you simply tolerate each other's weaknesses?
Family
In This Chapter
Their union transforms both families for the better
Development
Shows how individual growth radiates outward to benefit others
In Your Life:
How has your personal growth and the relationships you've built positively influenced your family dynamics or friend groups around you?
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What specific moments do Elizabeth and Darcy identify as turning points in how they saw each other?
- 2
Why was it necessary for both of them to change before they could have a successful relationship?
- 3
Think of couples you know who've been together a long time - how do they challenge each other to grow while still being supportive?
- 4
How can you tell the difference between someone who wants to help you improve and someone who just wants to control you?
- 5
What does this chapter suggest about why some relationships make people better while others make them smaller?
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Growth Relationships
Think of three important relationships in your life - romantic, friendship, family, or work. For each one, identify: What has this person challenged you to improve about yourself? What have you challenged them to improve? How do you both handle these growth moments - with support or defensiveness? This exercise helps you recognize which relationships are helping you become your best self versus which ones keep you stuck.
Consider:
- •Growth-oriented feedback feels uncomfortable but loving, while controlling criticism feels threatening and conditional
- •The healthiest relationships involve both people evolving, not one person doing all the changing
- •Pay attention to whether you feel more confident and capable in the relationship or more anxious and self-doubting
