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Colonel Fitzwilliam’s manners were very much admired at the Parsonage,
and the ladies all felt that he must add considerably to the pleasure of
their engagements at Rosings. It was some days, however, before they
received any invitation thither, for while there were visitors in the
house they could not be necessary; and it was not till Easter-day,
almost a week after the gentlemen’s arrival, that they were honoured by
such an attention, and then they were merely asked on leaving church to
come there in the evening. For the last week they had seen very little
of either Lady Catherine or her daughter. Colonel Fitzwilliam had called
at the Parsonage more than once during the time, but Mr. Darcy they had
only seen at church.
The invitation was accepted, of course, and at a proper hour they joined
the party in Lady Catherine’s drawing-room. Her Ladyship received them
civilly, but it was plain that their company was by no means so
acceptable as when she could get nobody else; and she was, in fact,
almost engrossed by her nephews, speaking to them, especially to Darcy,
much more than to any other person in the room.
Colonel Fitzwilliam seemed really glad to see them: anything was a
welcome relief to him at Rosings; and Mrs. Collins’s pretty friend had,
moreover, caught his fancy very much. He now seated himself by her, and
talked so agreeably of Kent and Hertfordshire, of travelling and staying
at home, of new books and music, that Elizabeth had never been half so
well entertained in that room before; and they conversed with so much
spirit and flow as to draw the attention of Lady Catherine herself, as
well as of Mr. Darcy. His eyes had been soon and repeatedly turned
towards them with a look of curiosity; and that her Ladyship, after a
while, shared the feeling, was more openly acknowledged, for she did not
scruple to call out,--
“What is that you are saying, Fitzwilliam? What is it you are talking
of? What are you telling Miss Bennet? Let me hear what it is.”
“We were talking of music, madam,” said he, when no longer able to avoid
a reply.
“Of music! Then pray speak aloud. It is of all subjects my delight. I
must have my share in the conversation, if you are speaking of music.
There are few people in England, I suppose, who have more true
enjoyment of music than myself, or a better natural taste. If I had ever
learnt, I should have been a great proficient. And so would Anne, if her
health had allowed her to apply. I am confident that she would have
performed delightfully. How does Georgiana get on, Darcy?”
Mr. Darcy spoke with affectionate praise of his sister’s proficiency.
“I am very glad to hear such a good account of her,” said Lady
Catherine; “and pray tell her from me, that she cannot expect to excel,
if she does not practise a great deal.”
“I assure you, madam,” he replied, “that she does not need such advice.
She practises very constantly.”
“So much the better. It cannot be done too much; and when I next write
to her, I shall charge her not to neglect it on any account. I often
tell young ladies, that no excellence in music is to be acquired without
constant practice. I have told Miss Bennet several times, that she will
never play really well, unless she practises more; and though Mrs.
Collins has no instrument, she is very welcome, as I have often told
her, to come to Rosings every day, and play on the pianoforte in Mrs.
Jenkinson’s room. She would be in nobody’s way, you know, in that part
of the house.”
Mr. Darcy looked a little ashamed of his aunt’s ill-breeding, and made
no answer.
When coffee was over, Colonel Fitzwilliam reminded Elizabeth of having
promised to play to him; and she sat down directly to the instrument. He
drew a chair near her. Lady Catherine listened to half a song, and then
talked, as before, to her other nephew; till the latter walked away from
her, and moving with his usual deliberation towards the pianoforte,
stationed himself so as to command a full view of the fair performer’s
countenance. Elizabeth saw what he was doing, and at the first
convenient pause turned to him with an arch smile, and said,--
“You mean to frighten me, Mr. Darcy, by coming in all this state to hear
me. But I will not be alarmed, though your sister does play so well.
There is a stubbornness about me that never can bear to be frightened at
the will of others. My courage always rises with every attempt to
intimidate me.”
“I shall not say that you are mistaken,” he replied, “because you could
not really believe me to entertain any design of alarming you; and I
have had the pleasure of your acquaintance long enough to know, that you
find great enjoyment in occasionally professing opinions which, in fact,
are not your own.”
Elizabeth laughed heartily at this picture of herself, and said to
Colonel Fitzwilliam, “Your cousin will give you a very pretty notion of
me, and teach you not to believe a word I say. I am particularly unlucky
in meeting with a person so well able to expose my real character, in a
part of the world where I had hoped to pass myself off with some degree
of credit. Indeed, Mr. Darcy, it is very ungenerous in you to mention
all that you knew to my disadvantage in Hertfordshire--and, give me
leave to say, very impolitic too--for it is provoking me to retaliate,
and such things may come out as will shock your relations to hear.”
“I am not afraid of you,” said he, smilingly.
“Pray let me hear what you have to accuse him of,” cried Colonel
Fitzwilliam. “I should like to know how he behaves among strangers.”
“You shall hear, then--but prepare for something very dreadful. The
first time of my ever seeing him in Hertfordshire, you must know, was at
a ball--and at this ball, what do you think he did? He danced only four
dances! I am sorry to pain you, but so it was. He danced only four
dances, though gentlemen were scarce; and, to my certain knowledge, more
than one young lady was sitting down in want of a partner. Mr. Darcy,
you cannot deny the fact.”
“I had not at that time the honour of knowing any lady in the assembly
beyond my own party.”
“True; and nobody can ever be introduced in a ball-room. Well, Colonel
Fitzwilliam, what do I play next? My fingers wait your orders.”
“Perhaps,” said Darcy, “I should have judged better had I sought an
introduction, but I am ill-qualified to recommend myself to strangers.”
“Shall we ask your cousin the reason of this?” said Elizabeth, still
addressing Colonel Fitzwilliam. “Shall we ask him why a man of sense and
education, and who has lived in the world, is ill-qualified to recommend
himself to strangers?”
“I can answer your question,” said Fitzwilliam, “without applying to
him. It is because he will not give himself the trouble.”
“I certainly have not the talent which some people possess,” said Darcy,
“of conversing easily with those I have never seen before. I cannot
catch their tone of conversation, or appear interested in their
concerns, as I often see done.”
“My fingers,” said Elizabeth, “do not move over this instrument in the
masterly manner which I see so many women’s do. They have not the same
force or rapidity, and do not produce the same expression. But then I
have always supposed it to be my own fault--because I would not take
the trouble of practising. It is not that I do not believe my fingers
as capable as any other woman’s of superior execution.”
Darcy smiled and said, “You are perfectly right. You have employed your
time much better. No one admitted to the privilege of hearing you can
think anything wanting. We neither of us perform to strangers.”
Here they were interrupted by Lady Catherine, who called out to know
what they were talking of. Elizabeth immediately began playing again.
Lady Catherine approached, and, after listening for a few minutes, said
to Darcy,--
“Miss Bennet would not play at all amiss if she practised more, and
could have the advantage of a London master. She has a very good notion
of fingering, though her taste is not equal to Anne’s. Anne would have
been a delightful performer, had her health allowed her to learn.”
Elizabeth looked at Darcy, to see how cordially he assented to his
cousin’s praise: but neither at that moment nor at any other could she
discern any symptom of love; and from the whole of his behaviour to Miss
De Bourgh she derived this comfort for Miss Bingley, that he might have
been just as likely to marry her, had she been his relation.
Lady Catherine continued her remarks on Elizabeth’s performance, mixing
with them many instructions on execution and taste. Elizabeth received
them with all the forbearance of civility; and at the request of the
gentlemen remained at the instrument till her Ladyship’s carriage was
ready to take them all home.
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Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize when someone's authority is actually crumbling beneath their aggressive display.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"I will not be interrupted. Hear me in silence."
Context: Lady Catherine demands Elizabeth listen to her accusations without defending herself.
Shows Lady Catherine's authoritarian nature and expectation that lower-class people should submit without question. It's the classic bully's tactic of demanding silence from their victim.
"I am not to be intimidated into anything so wholly unreasonable."
Context: Elizabeth refuses Lady Catherine's demand that she promise never to marry Darcy.
This is Elizabeth's declaration of independence from social pressure. She recognizes manipulation when she sees it and refuses to be bullied into making promises about her own life.
"Do you think that any consideration would tempt me to accept the man who has been the means of ruining, perhaps for ever, the happiness of a most beloved sister?"
Context: Elizabeth throws Lady Catherine's assumptions back at her, referencing Darcy's interference with Jane and Bingley.
Elizabeth cleverly neither confirms nor denies any engagement while making it clear she won't be dictated to. She's learned to use strategic ambiguity as a defense against bullying.
Thematic Threads
Power
In This Chapter
Lady Catherine's desperate attempt to control Elizabeth's future through intimidation and social pressure
Development
Evolved from earlier subtle class distinctions to open confrontation and threats
In Your Life:
When someone tries to use their position or status to pressure you into a decision, how do you resist without escalating the conflict?
Agency
In This Chapter
Elizabeth's refusal to promise anything about her personal choices, claiming full control over her own life
Development
Culmination of her growth from passive observer to active agent of her own destiny
In Your Life:
What's one area of your life where you've stopped letting others make choices for you, and how did you claim that control?
Class
In This Chapter
Lady Catherine weaponizes social hierarchy, insisting Elizabeth's lower status disqualifies her from marrying Darcy
Development
Reaches its most explicit and ugly expression as desperate last resort
In Your Life:
Have you ever felt judged or dismissed because of your background, education, or economic status - how did you respond?
Fear
In This Chapter
Lady Catherine's panic about losing control over family arrangements reveals deep insecurity beneath her authority
Development
Previously hidden anxieties now exposed through desperate overreach
In Your Life:
What insecurities drive you to try to control situations or people, and when has that desperation backfired?
Dignity
In This Chapter
Elizabeth maintains composure and self-respect while being verbally attacked and threatened
Development
Demonstrates complete transformation from earlier intimidation by social superiors
In Your Life:
How do you stay calm and maintain your self-respect when someone is attacking your character or choices?
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What specific tactics does Lady Catherine use to try to control Elizabeth, and how does Elizabeth respond to each one?
- 2
Why does Lady Catherine become more desperate and aggressive as the conversation continues? What does this reveal about her actual position of power?
- 3
Where do you see this same escalation pattern in modern situations - at work, in families, or in relationships?
- 4
If you were in Elizabeth's position, facing someone using their authority to bully you into compliance, what would be your strategy?
- 5
What does this confrontation teach us about the difference between real strength and the appearance of power?
Critical Thinking Exercise
Decode the Power Play
Think of a time when someone escalated their behavior when you didn't do what they wanted - a boss, family member, friend, or authority figure. Write down exactly what tactics they used and in what order. Then analyze: what were they really afraid of losing? How did their escalation actually reveal their weakness rather than their strength?
Consider:
- •Notice how bullies often claim moral authority ('it's for your own good') when they're really protecting their own interests
- •Pay attention to the sequence - how tactics get more desperate as initial manipulation fails
- •Consider how staying calm and refusing to engage with the drama often exposes the other person's true motivations
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 32
Lady Catherine storms off in a rage, but her meddling may have consequences she never intended. Meanwhile, Elizabeth finds herself wondering if there might be more truth to the rumors than she realized.




