Summary
Mrs. March leaves for Washington to care for her critically ill husband, and the March family must learn to function without their anchor. The chapter opens with a heart-wrenching goodbye scene where each sister receives specific guidance from their mother about their roles and responsibilities. After she leaves, the girls break down crying but quickly rally around Hannah's practical wisdom and coffee. The bulk of the chapter consists of letters exchanged between the family - each one revealing the distinct personality and concerns of its writer. Meg's letter shows her growing maturity and pride in managing the household. Jo's characteristic exuberance shines through her messy handwriting and includes a poem about finding purpose in work. Beth's brief, sweet note reveals her quiet devotion, while Amy's letter is full of spelling errors and concerns about French lessons and jelly. Hannah's practical report and Mr. Laurence's formal but kind note round out the correspondence. These letters serve as both plot device and character study, showing how each family member copes with separation differently. The chapter demonstrates that love isn't just expressed through grand gestures but through daily acts of care - mended stockings, maintained routines, and faithful letter-writing. It also reveals how crisis can accelerate maturity, particularly in Meg, who steps into a more adult role. The various writing styles create a realistic portrait of how different personalities handle stress and maintain connection across distance.
Coming Up in Chapter 17
While the March family adapts to life without their mother, Beth's quiet devotion to others will soon put her own health at risk in ways no one could have predicted.
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CHAPTER SIXTEEN LETTERS In the cold gray dawn the sisters lit their lamp and read their chapter with an earnestness never felt before. For now the shadow of a real trouble had come, the little books were full of help and comfort, and as they dressed, they agreed to say goodbye cheerfully and hopefully, and send their mother on her anxious journey unsaddened by tears or complaints from them. Everything seemed very strange when they went down, so dim and still outside, so full of light and bustle within. Breakfast at that early hour seemed odd, and even Hannah’s familiar face looked unnatural as she flew about her kitchen with her nightcap on. The big trunk stood ready in the hall, Mother’s cloak and bonnet lay on the sofa, and Mother herself sat trying to eat, but looking so pale and worn with sleeplessness and anxiety that the girls found it very hard to keep their resolution. Meg’s eyes kept filling in spite of herself, Jo was obliged to hide her face in the kitchen roller more than once, and the little girls wore a grave, troubled expression, as if sorrow was a new experience to them. Nobody talked much, but as the time drew very near and they sat waiting for the carriage, Mrs. March said to the girls, who were all busied about her, one folding her shawl, another smoothing out the strings of her bonnet, a third putting on her overshoes, and a fourth fastening up her travelling bag... “Children, I leave you to Hannah’s care and Mr. Laurence’s protection. Hannah is faithfulness itself, and our good neighbor will guard you as if you were his own. I have no fears for you, yet I am anxious that you should take this trouble rightly. Don’t grieve and fret when I am gone, or think that you can be idle and comfort yourselves by being idle and trying to forget. Go on with your work as usual, for work is a blessed solace. Hope and keep busy, and whatever happens, remember that you never can be fatherless.” “Yes, Mother.” “Meg, dear, be prudent, watch over your sisters, consult Hannah, and in any perplexity, go to Mr. Laurence. Be patient, Jo, don’t get despondent or do rash things, write to me often, and be my brave girl, ready to help and cheer all. Beth, comfort yourself with your music, and be faithful to the little home duties, and you, Amy, help all you can, be obedient, and keep happy safe at home.” “We will, Mother! We will!” The rattle of an approaching carriage made them all start and listen. That was the hard minute, but the girls stood it well. No one cried, no one ran away or uttered a lamentation, though their hearts were very heavy as they sent loving messages to Father, remembering, as they spoke that it might be too late to deliver them. They kissed their mother quietly, clung about her tenderly, and tried to...
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Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Crisis Leadership - When Emergency Reveals Character
Emergency situations strip away social masks and reveal people's authentic character and coping mechanisms.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize that people's behavior during emergencies reveals their true personality and values, not their everyday social mask.
Practice This Today
This week, notice how different people in your life respond to small disruptions - a cancelled plan, a work deadline, a minor emergency - and file that information away for understanding how they'll handle bigger challenges.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Terms to Know
Domestic sphere
In the 1800s, women were expected to manage the home and family while men handled business and politics. This was seen as women's natural role and area of influence.
Modern Usage:
We still see echoes of this when women are automatically expected to handle household management and childcare, even when both parents work full-time.
Correspondence culture
Before phones and internet, letter-writing was the primary way to maintain relationships across distance. People wrote formal, detailed letters that served as both news and emotional connection.
Modern Usage:
Today we see this in how families use group texts, video calls, and social media to stay connected when separated by distance or circumstances.
Coming of age through crisis
Major family emergencies often forced young people to mature quickly and take on adult responsibilities. Crisis revealed character and accelerated personal growth.
Modern Usage:
We see this today when teenagers step up during family illness, job loss, or other emergencies, suddenly becoming more responsible and self-reliant.
Matriarchal guidance
The mother figure provided moral direction and practical wisdom that held the family together. Her influence shaped how children handled challenges and relationships.
Modern Usage:
This shows up today in how single mothers, grandmothers, or other female family members often become the emotional center that keeps extended families connected.
Class-conscious education
Middle-class families emphasized proper speech, manners, and cultural knowledge as markers of respectability and social standing. Education was about character as much as academics.
Modern Usage:
We see this in how parents today worry about their children's digital footprint, social skills, and cultural literacy as keys to future success.
Epistolary narrative
A storytelling technique using letters, diary entries, or documents to reveal character and advance plot. Each writer's voice shows their personality and perspective.
Modern Usage:
Modern versions include movies told through text messages, social media posts, or email chains that reveal different characters' viewpoints.
Characters in This Chapter
Mrs. March (Marmee)
Family anchor and moral guide
Before leaving for Washington, she gives each daughter specific advice about their roles and responsibilities. Her departure forces the family to function independently while maintaining her values.
Modern Equivalent:
The single mom who has to travel for work and leaves detailed instructions for the older kids to manage the household
Meg
Eldest sister stepping into adult role
Takes charge of household management in her mother's absence. Her letter shows growing maturity and pride in successfully handling adult responsibilities for the first time.
Modern Equivalent:
The college student who becomes the responsible one when parents divorce or face crisis
Jo
Emotional heart trying to stay strong
Struggles most with the goodbye but channels her energy into work and writing. Her letter reveals her characteristic enthusiasm and determination to find purpose in difficult times.
Modern Equivalent:
The family member who copes with stress by staying busy and throwing themselves into projects
Beth
Quiet supporter
Handles the separation with typical gentle grace. Her brief letter shows she expresses love through actions rather than words, maintaining family routines and caring for others.
Modern Equivalent:
The family peacekeeper who shows love through small daily acts of service
Amy
Youngest trying to be grown-up
Her letter full of spelling errors and concerns about French lessons shows she's still a child trying to participate in adult responsibilities. Represents innocence in crisis.
Modern Equivalent:
The little sister who wants to help during family emergencies but still needs guidance and reassurance
Hannah
Practical wisdom keeper
Provides stability and common-sense guidance when the girls break down after their mother leaves. Her letter shows she's watching over the family with both affection and practicality.
Modern Equivalent:
The longtime family friend or relative who steps in during crisis with no-nonsense support
Key Quotes & Analysis
"I shall come back to you soon, and if I don't, you must not feel that I have left you willingly."
Context: Said during the emotional goodbye as she prepares to leave for Washington
This shows the depth of family bonds and the sacrifice parents make for each other. It acknowledges that separation is painful for everyone while emphasizing that duty sometimes requires difficult choices.
In Today's Words:
I'll be back as soon as I can, and if something happens to me, know that I never wanted to leave you
"We never are too old for this, my dear, because it is a play we are playing all the time in one way or another."
Context: Referring to their family game of trying to be better people
This reveals that personal growth and moral development are lifelong processes, not just childhood lessons. It frames character building as an ongoing choice rather than a destination.
In Today's Words:
We're all still working on becoming better people - that never stops, no matter how old you get
"The house seems like a different place without Mother, and we girls are like lost sheep without our shepherd."
Context: Describing how the family feels after Mrs. March's departure
This shows how central the mother figure was to family stability and identity. It also reveals Meg's growing awareness of family dynamics and her role in maintaining them.
In Today's Words:
Everything feels wrong without Mom here - we don't really know how to function as a family without her
Thematic Threads
Responsibility
In This Chapter
Meg steps into adult leadership role, managing household and siblings while maintaining emotional stability
Development
Evolved from earlier complaints about domestic duties to genuine pride in competence
In Your Life:
You might recognize this when you surprise yourself by how well you handle a family crisis or workplace emergency
Identity
In This Chapter
Each sister's letter reveals distinct personality through writing style, concerns, and coping mechanisms
Development
Builds on established character traits but shows them under pressure
In Your Life:
You see this when stress brings out either your best or worst qualities in relationships
Communication
In This Chapter
Letters become lifeline maintaining family connection across distance, each reflecting writer's emotional needs
Development
Introduced here as primary plot device and character revelation method
In Your Life:
You experience this when you realize how much your texting style reveals about your emotional state
Class
In This Chapter
Family's financial constraints show in Amy's concern about French lessons and social appearances
Development
Continues thread of economic anxiety affecting daily choices and social positioning
In Your Life:
You might notice this when your own financial stress affects decisions about your children's activities or education
Growth
In This Chapter
Crisis accelerates maturity, particularly in Meg who embraces adult responsibilities with newfound confidence
Development
Continues theme of gradual character development but shows crisis as catalyst
In Your Life:
You see this when unexpected challenges force you to develop skills or confidence you didn't know you had
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What specific advice does Mrs. March give each daughter before leaving, and how does each sister respond to the crisis of her departure?
analysis • surface - 2
How do the different letter-writing styles reveal each family member's personality and way of handling stress?
analysis • medium - 3
Think about a time when your family faced a crisis or major change. How did each person's true character show through their response?
application • medium - 4
When you're under pressure at work or in relationships, what does your natural response reveal about who you really are underneath your everyday persona?
application • deep - 5
Why do crisis situations strip away pretense and reveal people's core character? What does this teach us about choosing who to trust in important relationships?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Crisis Response Profile
Think of three different people in your life - a family member, a coworker, and a friend. Write down how each person typically responds when things go wrong: Do they take charge, withdraw, panic, blame others, or something else? Then reflect on your own crisis response pattern. What does this tell you about the reliability and compatibility of these relationships?
Consider:
- •Notice whether people become more helpful or more demanding under stress
- •Pay attention to who stays calm versus who creates additional drama
- •Consider how different crisis styles might complement or clash with your own
Journaling Prompt
Write about a recent stressful situation you experienced. What was your automatic response, and what did that reveal about your character? How might you want to develop your crisis response for future challenges?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 17: When Good Intentions Fall Apart
The coming pages reveal good intentions fade without consistent action, and teach us reliable people often carry unfair burdens. These discoveries help us navigate similar situations in our own lives.