Summary
Kitty Shcherbatsky sits at her dressing table, torn between two very different suitors who represent two different futures. Count Vronsky, the dazzling cavalry officer, makes her heart race with his charm and status, while Konstantin Levin, the earnest landowner, offers something deeper but less exciting. As she prepares for the evening, Kitty believes Vronsky will propose tonight, and she's already decided to accept him. Her choice reveals the pull of glamour over substance that many young people face. Kitty represents the privileged young woman who has never faced real hardship, making decisions based on surface appeal rather than character. Her preference for Vronsky over Levin shows how social status and excitement can blind us to genuine worth. This moment captures a universal truth about youth and attraction: we often choose what glitters over what's gold. Kitty's certainty about Vronsky's intentions also shows her inexperience with the world and with men like him, who may not be as serious about commitment as she assumes. The chapter builds tension around this choice that will ripple through multiple lives. Tolstoy uses Kitty's situation to explore how society shapes our desires and how young women of her class were taught to value the wrong qualities in potential husbands. Her decision-making process reveals the gap between romantic fantasy and reality, between what we think we want and what actually makes us happy. The evening ahead promises to be pivotal, but perhaps not in the way Kitty expects.
Coming Up in Chapter 12
The evening unfolds at the grand ball, where Kitty waits for Vronsky's proposal while other dramas simmer beneath the glittering surface. But sometimes the night we've planned for turns out very differently than we imagined.
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Levin emptied his glass, and they were silent for a while. “There’s one other thing I ought to tell you. Do you know Vronsky?” Stepan Arkadyevitch asked Levin. “No, I don’t. Why do you ask?” “Give us another bottle,” Stepan Arkadyevitch directed the Tatar, who was filling up their glasses and fidgeting round them just when he was not wanted. “Why you ought to know Vronsky is that he’s one of your rivals.” “Who’s Vronsky?” said Levin, and his face was suddenly transformed from the look of childlike ecstasy which Oblonsky had just been admiring to an angry and unpleasant expression. “Vronsky is one of the sons of Count Kirill Ivanovitch Vronsky, and one of the finest specimens of the gilded youth of Petersburg. I made his acquaintance in Tver when I was there on official business, and he came there for the levy of recruits. Fearfully rich, handsome, great connections, an aide-de-camp, and with all that a very nice, good-natured fellow. But he’s more than simply a good-natured fellow, as I’ve found out here—he’s a cultivated man, too, and very intelligent; he’s a man who’ll make his mark.” Levin scowled and was dumb. “Well, he turned up here soon after you’d gone, and as I can see, he’s over head and ears in love with Kitty, and you know that her mother....” “Excuse me, but I know nothing,” said Levin, frowning gloomily. And immediately he recollected his brother Nikolay and how hateful he was to have been able to forget him. “You wait a bit, wait a bit,” said Stepan Arkadyevitch, smiling and touching his hand. “I’ve told you what I know, and I repeat that in this delicate and tender matter, as far as one can conjecture, I believe the chances are in your favor.” Levin dropped back in his chair; his face was pale. “But I would advise you to settle the thing as soon as may be,” pursued Oblonsky, filling up his glass. “No, thanks, I can’t drink any more,” said Levin, pushing away his glass. “I shall be drunk.... Come, tell me how are you getting on?” he went on, obviously anxious to change the conversation. “One word more: in any case I advise you to settle the question soon. Tonight I don’t advise you to speak,” said Stepan Arkadyevitch. “Go round tomorrow morning, make an offer in due form, and God bless you....” “Oh, do you still think of coming to me for some shooting? Come next spring, do,” said Levin. Now his whole soul was full of remorse that he had begun this conversation with Stepan Arkadyevitch. A feeling such as his was profaned by talk of the rivalry of some Petersburg officer, of the suppositions and the counsels of Stepan Arkadyevitch. Stepan Arkadyevitch smiled. He knew what was passing in Levin’s soul. “I’ll come some day,” he said. “But women, my boy, they’re the pivot everything turns upon. Things are in a bad way with me, very bad. And it’s all through...
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Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Glitter Over Gold
Choosing what impresses others or excites us immediately over what actually serves our long-term wellbeing and happiness.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize when we're rationalizing choices we know aren't in our best interest.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when you're about to make a decision that feels exciting but conflicts with your stated values—pause and ask what you're really choosing.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Terms to Know
Russian aristocracy
The wealthy upper class in 19th century Russia who owned vast estates and lived lives of luxury while most Russians were peasants. They spoke French as much as Russian and followed European fashions and customs.
Modern Usage:
Like today's ultra-wealthy who live in a bubble separate from regular working people's concerns.
Coming out season
The period when young aristocratic women were formally introduced to society and expected to find husbands. It was like a marriage market where families showed off their daughters to eligible bachelors.
Modern Usage:
Similar to how some communities still have debutante balls or how dating apps create a marketplace for relationships.
Drawing room
The formal living room where aristocratic families received guests and held social gatherings. It was the center of high society interaction and where important conversations happened.
Modern Usage:
Like the main social space in someone's home where they entertain guests and family business gets discussed.
Cavalry officer
A military man who served in the horse-mounted units, considered glamorous and prestigious in Russian society. These officers were often wealthy, charming, and seen as ideal marriage prospects.
Modern Usage:
Like today's attractive men in prestigious careers - professional athletes, pilots, or successful entrepreneurs who seem exciting but may not be serious about commitment.
Landowner
Someone who owned large agricultural estates and managed farming operations. In Russia, this meant controlling the lives of many peasant workers and dealing with practical, unglamorous daily business.
Modern Usage:
Like someone who owns their own business or works in agriculture - solid, practical work but not as flashy as other careers.
Marriage settlement
The financial and legal arrangements made between families when their children married. Parents negotiated dowries, inheritance rights, and property transfers as part of the marriage deal.
Modern Usage:
Like prenups today, or how families still sometimes get involved in major financial decisions when their adult children marry.
Characters in This Chapter
Kitty Shcherbatsky
Young protagonist facing a life choice
An 18-year-old from a wealthy family who must choose between two very different suitors. Her decision reveals how inexperience and social pressure can lead to poor choices about what really matters in life.
Modern Equivalent:
The college student choosing between the exciting bad boy and the reliable nice guy
Count Vronsky
The charming but unreliable love interest
A handsome cavalry officer who represents excitement and social status. He's the type who knows exactly how to charm young women but may not be serious about commitment.
Modern Equivalent:
The smooth-talking guy with the nice car who's great at first dates but terrible at relationships
Konstantin Levin
The sincere but overlooked suitor
An earnest landowner who truly loves Kitty but lacks Vronsky's glamour. He represents genuine feeling and stability, but seems boring compared to his flashier rival.
Modern Equivalent:
The dependable friend who's been there all along but gets friend-zoned for someone more exciting
Princess Shcherbatsky
The concerned mother
Kitty's mother who wants her daughter to make a good marriage but may be influenced more by social status than by what would make Kitty truly happy.
Modern Equivalent:
The mom who wants her daughter to marry someone impressive rather than someone who treats her well
Key Quotes & Analysis
"She was thinking of Vronsky and of the happiness that would be hers, and also of Levin; and she contrasted them."
Context: As Kitty sits at her dressing table preparing for the evening
This shows how Kitty is actively choosing between two different futures. The fact that she's 'contrasting' them reveals she knows they represent different paths, but she's making her choice based on immediate attraction rather than deeper compatibility.
In Today's Words:
She was weighing her options between the exciting guy and the steady one.
"No, it's impossible, she told herself, recalling his look when he saw Levin."
Context: When she briefly doubts whether Vronsky really cares for her
Kitty is already seeing signs that Vronsky might not be as interested as she hopes, but she's pushing away her doubts. This shows how we often ignore red flags when we want something badly enough.
In Today's Words:
No way, she told herself, remembering how he acted around the other guy.
"She felt sorry for Levin, and this sorrow gave a disagreeable tinge to the happiness she was expecting."
Context: As Kitty thinks about rejecting Levin's proposal
Kitty's guilt about hurting Levin shows she recognizes his genuine feelings, but she's still choosing excitement over kindness. The fact that her guilt taints her happiness suggests her instincts know something's wrong with her choice.
In Today's Words:
She felt bad about hurting the nice guy, and it put a damper on her excitement about the other one.
Thematic Threads
Class
In This Chapter
Kitty's attraction to Vronsky's military status and social position over Levin's genuine character
Development
Building from earlier establishment of social hierarchies and their power over individual choices
In Your Life:
You might find yourself impressed by someone's job title or possessions rather than their actual character or how they treat you.
Identity
In This Chapter
Kitty defines herself through which suitor she attracts, seeing her worth reflected in their social status
Development
Continues theme of characters seeking validation through others' perceptions
In Your Life:
You might catch yourself feeling more valuable when attractive or successful people pay attention to you.
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
Kitty has been shaped to value what society celebrates in men—charm and status over depth and loyalty
Development
Deepens exploration of how society programs our desires and choices
In Your Life:
You might realize you're pursuing goals that look good to others rather than what actually makes you happy.
Personal Growth
In This Chapter
Kitty's inexperience leads her to mistake surface attraction for love and compatibility
Development
Introduced here as contrast to other characters' hard-won wisdom
In Your Life:
You might recognize times when your lack of experience led you to trust appearances over substance.
Human Relationships
In This Chapter
The contrast between Vronsky's exciting but shallow appeal and Levin's deeper but less thrilling devotion
Development
Continues examination of what makes relationships genuine versus superficial
In Your Life:
You might notice the difference between people who excite you and people who actually care about your wellbeing.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What two different futures does Kitty see represented by her two suitors, and which one is she planning to choose?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Kitty feel so certain that Vronsky will propose, and what does this reveal about her experience with relationships?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see people today choosing the 'Vronsky option' over the 'Levin option' in dating, career choices, or major purchases?
application • medium - 4
If you were Kitty's friend, what questions would you ask her to help her think more clearly about this decision?
application • deep - 5
What does Kitty's situation teach us about how society shapes what we think we want versus what actually makes us happy?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Create Your Glitter vs. Gold Test
Think of a current decision you're facing or a recent choice you made. Create two columns: 'What Impresses Me Now' and 'What Will Matter in 5 Years.' Fill in each column honestly, then compare them. This reveals your own glitter traps.
Consider:
- •Notice which column is easier to fill - that tells you what you naturally focus on
- •Look for patterns in what consistently appears in your '5 years' column across different decisions
- •Consider how peer pressure or social media might be influencing your 'impresses me now' list
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you chose glitter over gold, or when you resisted the temptation and chose substance instead. What did you learn from that experience?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 12
The coming pages reveal key events and character development in this chapter, and teach us thematic elements and literary techniques. These discoveries help us navigate similar situations in our own lives.