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War and Peace - Coming Home Changed

Leo Tolstoy

War and Peace

Coming Home Changed

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Summary

Nicholas returns to Moscow as a decorated war hero, welcomed with open arms by family and society. He's grown up - the boy who once worried about Scripture exams now wears the Cross of St. George and trains racehorses. But success has created unexpected distance. He pulls away from Sonya, the girl who loves him, telling himself he needs freedom and that romance would diminish his newfound manhood. Meanwhile, his father Count Rostov throws himself into planning an elaborate dinner for Prince Bagration, the military hero Moscow has chosen to celebrate. The preparations are frantic and expensive, revealing both the count's generous nature and his financial recklessness. Anna Mikhaylovna brings gossip about Pierre's marital troubles with the scandalous Dolokhov. The chapter reveals how Moscow society has processed the shocking defeat at Austerlitz - by creating scapegoats and elevating heroes like Bagration while ignoring uncomfortable truths about leaders like Kutuzov. This shows how communities often prefer comforting narratives to harsh realities. Nicholas embodies the complex aftermath of war - he's gained status and confidence but lost some capacity for intimate connection. His transformation reflects a broader theme about how external achievements can sometimes distance us from the relationships that once mattered most.

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n his return to Moscow from the army, Nicholas Rostóv was welcomed
by his home circle as the best of sons, a hero, and their darling
Nikólenka; by his relations as a charming, attractive, and polite young
man; by his acquaintances as a handsome lieutenant of hussars, a good
dancer, and one of the best matches in the city.

The Rostóvs knew everybody in Moscow. The old count had money enough
that year, as all his estates had been remortgaged, and so Nicholas,
acquiring a trotter of his own, very stylish riding breeches of the
latest cut, such as no one else yet had in Moscow, and boots of the
latest fashion, with extremely pointed toes and small silver spurs,
passed his time very gaily. After a short period of adapting himself
to the old conditions of life, Nicholas found it very pleasant to be
at home again. He felt that he had grown up and matured very much. His
despair at failing in a Scripture examination, his borrowing money from
Gavríl to pay a sleigh driver, his kissing Sónya on the sly—he now
recalled all this as childishness he had left immeasurably behind.
Now he was a lieutenant of hussars, in a jacket laced with silver, and
wearing the Cross of St. George, awarded to soldiers for bravery in
action, and in the company of well-known, elderly, and respected racing
men was training a trotter of his own for a race. He knew a lady on one
of the boulevards whom he visited of an evening. He led the mazurka
at the Arkhárovs’ ball, talked about the war with Field Marshal
Kámenski, visited the English Club, and was on intimate terms with a
colonel of forty to whom Denísov had introduced him.

His passion for the Emperor had cooled somewhat in Moscow. But still, as
he did not see him and had no opportunity of seeing him, he often spoke
about him and about his love for him, letting it be understood that he
had not told all and that there was something in his feelings for the
Emperor not everyone could understand, and with his whole soul he shared
the adoration then common in Moscow for the Emperor, who was spoken of
as the “angel incarnate.”

During Rostóv’s short stay in Moscow, before rejoining the army, he
did not draw closer to Sónya, but rather drifted away from her. She was
very pretty and sweet, and evidently deeply in love with him, but he was
at the period of youth when there seems so much to do that there is no
time for that sort of thing and a young man fears to bind himself and
prizes his freedom which he needs for so many other things. When he
thought of Sónya, during this stay in Moscow, he said to himself,
“Ah, there will be, and there are, many more such girls somewhere whom
I do not yet know. There will be time enough to think about love when I
want to, but now I have no time.” Besides, it seemed to him that the
society of women was rather derogatory to his manhood. He went to balls
and into ladies’ society with an affectation of doing so against his
will. The races, the English Club, sprees with Denísov, and visits to
a certain house—that was another matter and quite the thing for a
dashing young hussar!

At the beginning of March, old Count Ilyá Rostóv was very busy
arranging a dinner in honor of Prince Bagratión at the English Club.

The count walked up and down the hall in his dressing gown, giving
orders to the club steward and to the famous Feoktíst, the club’s
head cook, about asparagus, fresh cucumbers, strawberries, veal, and
fish for this dinner. The count had been a member and on the committee
of the club from the day it was founded. To him the club entrusted the
arrangement of the festival in honor of Bagratión, for few men knew
so well how to arrange a feast on an open-handed, hospitable scale,
and still fewer men would be so well able and willing to make up out of
their own resources what might be needed for the success of the fete.
The club cook and the steward listened to the count’s orders with
pleased faces, for they knew that under no other management could they
so easily extract a good profit for themselves from a dinner costing
several thousand rubles.

“Well then, mind and have cocks’ comb in the turtle soup, you
know!”

“Shall we have three cold dishes then?” asked the cook.

The count considered.

“We can’t have less—yes, three... the mayonnaise, that’s one,”
said he, bending down a finger.

“Then am I to order those large sterlets?” asked the steward.

“Yes, it can’t be helped if they won’t take less. Ah, dear me! I
was forgetting. We must have another entrée. Ah, goodness gracious!”
he clutched at his head. “Who is going to get me the flowers? Dmítri!
Eh, Dmítri! Gallop off to our Moscow estate,” he said to the factotum
who appeared at his call. “Hurry off and tell Maksím, the gardener,
to set the serfs to work. Say that everything out of the hothouses must
be brought here well wrapped up in felt. I must have two hundred pots
here on Friday.”

Having given several more orders, he was about to go to his “little
countess” to have a rest, but remembering something else of
importance, he returned again, called back the cook and the club
steward, and again began giving orders. A light footstep and the
clinking of spurs were heard at the door, and the young count, handsome,
rosy, with a dark little mustache, evidently rested and made sleeker by
his easy life in Moscow, entered the room.

“Ah, my boy, my head’s in a whirl!” said the old man with a smile,
as if he felt a little confused before his son. “Now, if you would
only help a bit! I must have singers too. I shall have my own orchestra,
but shouldn’t we get the gypsy singers as well? You military men like
that sort of thing.”

“Really, Papa, I believe Prince Bagratión worried himself less before
the battle of Schön Grabern than you do now,” said his son with a
smile.

The old count pretended to be angry.

“Yes, you talk, but try it yourself!”

And the count turned to the cook, who, with a shrewd and respectful
expression, looked observantly and sympathetically at the father and
son.

“What have the young people come to nowadays, eh, Feoktíst?” said
he. “Laughing at us old fellows!”

“That’s so, your excellency, all they have to do is to eat a good
dinner, but providing it and serving it all up, that’s not their
business!”

“That’s it, that’s it!” exclaimed the count, and gaily seizing
his son by both hands, he cried, “Now I’ve got you, so take the
sleigh and pair at once, and go to Bezúkhov’s, and tell him ‘Count
Ilyá has sent you to ask for strawberries and fresh pineapples.’ We
can’t get them from anyone else. He’s not there himself, so you’ll
have to go in and ask the princesses; and from there go on to the
Rasgulyáy—the coachman Ipátka knows—and look up the gypsy
Ilyúshka, the one who danced at Count Orlóv’s, you remember, in a
white Cossack coat, and bring him along to me.”

“And am I to bring the gypsy girls along with him?” asked Nicholas,
laughing. “Dear, dear!...”

At that moment, with noiseless footsteps and with the businesslike,
preoccupied, yet meekly Christian look which never left her face, Anna
Mikháylovna entered the hall. Though she came upon the count in his
dressing gown every day, he invariably became confused and begged her to
excuse his costume.

“No matter at all, my dear count,” she said, meekly closing her
eyes. “But I’ll go to Bezúkhov’s myself. Pierre has arrived, and
now we shall get anything we want from his hothouses. I have to see him
in any case. He has forwarded me a letter from Borís. Thank God, Borís
is now on the staff.”

The count was delighted at Anna Mikháylovna’s taking upon herself one
of his commissions and ordered the small closed carriage for her.

“Tell Bezúkhov to come. I’ll put his name down. Is his wife with
him?” he asked.

Anna Mikháylovna turned up her eyes, and profound sadness was depicted
on her face.

“Ah, my dear friend, he is very unfortunate,” she said. “If what
we hear is true, it is dreadful. How little we dreamed of such a thing
when we were rejoicing at his happiness! And such a lofty angelic soul
as young Bezúkhov! Yes, I pity him from my heart, and shall try to give
him what consolation I can.”

“Wh-what is the matter?” asked both the young and old Rostóv.

Anna Mikháylovna sighed deeply.

“Dólokhov, Mary Ivánovna’s son,” she said in a mysterious
whisper, “has compromised her completely, they say. Pierre took him
up, invited him to his house in Petersburg, and now... she has come here
and that daredevil after her!” said Anna Mikháylovna, wishing to show
her sympathy for Pierre, but by involuntary intonations and a half smile
betraying her sympathy for the “daredevil,” as she called Dólokhov.
“They say Pierre is quite broken by his misfortune.”

“Dear, dear! But still tell him to come to the club—it will all blow
over. It will be a tremendous banquet.”

Next day, the third of March, soon after one o’clock, two hundred and
fifty members of the English Club and fifty guests were awaiting the
guest of honor and hero of the Austrian campaign, Prince Bagratión, to
dinner.

On the first arrival of the news of the battle of Austerlitz, Moscow had
been bewildered. At that time, the Russians were so used to victories
that on receiving news of the defeat some would simply not believe it,
while others sought some extraordinary explanation of so strange an
event. In the English Club, where all who were distinguished, important,
and well informed foregathered when the news began to arrive in
December, nothing was said about the war and the last battle, as
though all were in a conspiracy of silence. The men who set the tone
in conversation—Count Rostopchín, Prince Yúri Dolgorúkov, Valúev,
Count Markóv, and Prince Vyázemski—did not show themselves at the
club, but met in private houses in intimate circles, and the
Moscovites who took their opinions from others—Ilyá Rostóv among
them—remained for a while without any definite opinion on the subject
of the war and without leaders. The Moscovites felt that something was
wrong and that to discuss the bad news was difficult, and so it was best
to be silent. But after a while, just as a jury comes out of its room,
the bigwigs who guided the club’s opinion reappeared, and everybody
began speaking clearly and definitely. Reasons were found for the
incredible, unheard-of, and impossible event of a Russian defeat,
everything became clear, and in all corners of Moscow the same things
began to be said. These reasons were the treachery of the Austrians, a
defective commissariat, the treachery of the Pole Przebyszéwski and of
the Frenchman Langeron, Kutúzov’s incapacity, and (it was whispered)
the youth and inexperience of the sovereign, who had trusted worthless
and insignificant people. But the army, the Russian army, everyone
declared, was extraordinary and had achieved miracles of valor. The
soldiers, officers, and generals were heroes. But the hero of heroes was
Prince Bagratión, distinguished by his Schön Grabern affair and by
the retreat from Austerlitz, where he alone had withdrawn his column
unbroken and had all day beaten back an enemy force twice as numerous
as his own. What also conduced to Bagratión’s being selected as
Moscow’s hero was the fact that he had no connections in the city
and was a stranger there. In his person, honor was shown to a simple
fighting Russian soldier without connections and intrigues, and to one
who was associated by memories of the Italian campaign with the name of
Suvórov. Moreover, paying such honor to Bagratión was the best way of
expressing disapproval and dislike of Kutúzov.

“Had there been no Bagratión, it would have been necessary to
invent him,” said the wit Shinshín, parodying the words of Voltaire.
Kutúzov no one spoke of, except some who abused him in whispers,
calling him a court weathercock and an old satyr.

All Moscow repeated Prince Dolgorúkov’s saying: “If you go on
modeling and modeling you must get smeared with clay,” suggesting
consolation for our defeat by the memory of former victories; and the
words of Rostopchín, that French soldiers have to be incited to battle
by highfalutin words, and Germans by logical arguments to show them
that it is more dangerous to run away than to advance, but that Russian
soldiers only need to be restrained and held back! On all sides, new and
fresh anecdotes were heard of individual examples of heroism shown by
our officers and men at Austerlitz. One had saved a standard, another
had killed five Frenchmen, a third had loaded five cannon singlehanded.
Berg was mentioned, by those who did not know him, as having, when
wounded in the right hand, taken his sword in the left, and gone
forward. Of Bolkónski, nothing was said, and only those who knew him
intimately regretted that he had died so young, leaving a pregnant wife
with his eccentric father.

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Let's Analyse the Pattern

Pattern: The Success Isolation Trap
Nicholas returns from war transformed - decorated, confident, admired. But his success has created an unexpected problem: the very achievements that elevated him now isolate him from intimate connection. He pulls away from Sonya, telling himself romance would diminish his newfound status. This reveals a cruel pattern - external validation often makes us less capable of accepting love. The mechanism is psychological self-protection. When we achieve recognition, we start believing our worth depends on maintaining that elevated image. Vulnerability feels dangerous because it might reveal we're still the same flawed person underneath the medals. Nicholas fears that being someone's boyfriend might make him seem less heroic. So he chooses the admiration of strangers over the love of someone who knew him before he was special. This pattern appears everywhere today. The nurse who gets promoted to supervisor suddenly can't joke around with former colleagues - the new role feels too important. The single mom who finally gets her degree starts dating 'up' and drops friends from her old neighborhood. The guy who loses weight and gets attention suddenly finds his longtime girlfriend 'not good enough.' We see it in social media too - people curating perfect images while feeling lonelier than ever. Recognizing this pattern means asking yourself: Am I using my achievements to avoid intimacy? When success makes you feel like you need to 'level up' your relationships, that's the isolation trap activating. The navigation strategy is remembering that people who loved you before you were impressive are often the most valuable relationships you have. They see your worth without the performance. Real confidence doesn't require distance from authentic connection - it makes intimacy safer, not scarier. When you can name the pattern, predict where it leads, and navigate it successfully - that's amplified intelligence.

Achievement creates psychological distance from intimate relationships as we fear vulnerability might diminish our elevated status.

Why This Matters

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Skill: Detecting Status-Based Isolation

This chapter teaches how to recognize when achievements are being used as barriers against intimacy and authentic connection.

Practice This Today

This week, notice when you feel tempted to pull away from people who knew you 'before' - that's the isolation trap activating.

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Now let's explore the literary elements.

Key Quotes & Analysis

"He felt that he had grown up and matured very much. His despair at failing in a Scripture examination, his borrowing money from Gavríl to pay a sleigh driver, his kissing Sónya on the sly—he now recalled all this as childishness he had left immeasurably behind."

— Narrator

Context: Nicholas reflecting on how war has changed him

This shows how external achievements can make us dismiss our past selves and relationships as 'childish.' Nicholas uses his military success to justify emotional distance, but he's really just afraid of vulnerability. The things he calls childish were actually moments of genuine human connection.

In Today's Words:

All that stuff that used to matter - school stress, money problems, sneaking around with my girlfriend - that was kid stuff. I'm a different person now.

"The old count had money enough that year, as all his estates had been remortgaged."

— Narrator

Context: Explaining how the Rostóvs can afford their current lifestyle

This perfectly captures the dangerous logic of living beyond your means. The count has 'money enough' only because he's borrowed against his future. It's a classic setup for financial disaster, but right now everyone can pretend everything is fine.

In Today's Words:

Dad had plenty of cash that year since he'd taken out loans against everything we owned.

"Now he was a lieutenant of hussars, in a jacket laced with silver, and wearing the Cross of St. George, awarded to soldiers for bravery in action."

— Narrator

Context: Describing Nicholas's new status and appearance

The focus on external symbols - the uniform, the decoration, the silver lacing - shows how Nicholas's identity is now built on public recognition rather than private relationships. These symbols give him confidence but also create distance from his former self.

In Today's Words:

Now he was someone important - decorated veteran, sharp uniform, the kind of guy people noticed when he walked into a room.

Thematic Threads

Identity

In This Chapter

Nicholas struggles between his new identity as war hero and his capacity for intimate relationships with people who knew him before

Development

Evolved from earlier chapters where characters defined themselves by social roles - now showing how achievement can trap us in those roles

In Your Life:

You might recognize this when a promotion or accomplishment makes you feel like you need to 'upgrade' your relationships or social circle

Class

In This Chapter

Count Rostov's expensive dinner preparations reveal how the wealthy perform generosity while hiding financial recklessness

Development

Continues the theme of how social class requires constant performance that often contradicts private reality

In Your Life:

You see this when people spend money they don't have to maintain appearances or when financial stress gets hidden behind social obligations

Social Expectations

In This Chapter

Moscow society creates comfortable narratives about military heroes while avoiding harsh truths about leadership failures

Development

Builds on earlier themes about how communities prefer reassuring stories to difficult realities

In Your Life:

You encounter this when your workplace blames individuals for systemic problems or when communities scapegoat rather than address root causes

Personal Growth

In This Chapter

Nicholas has matured from worried student to confident soldier, but growth has created new problems around intimacy and connection

Development

Shows that character development isn't always straightforward progress - growth can create new challenges

In Your Life:

You might notice this when getting stronger or more successful creates unexpected distance from people who matter to you

Human Relationships

In This Chapter

Nicholas pulls away from Sonya's genuine love, preferring the safer admiration of society that doesn't require vulnerability

Development

Deepens the exploration of how external pressures interfere with authentic connection

In Your Life:

You see this pattern when you find yourself avoiding people who really know you in favor of those who only see your achievements

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You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.

Discussion Questions

  1. 1

    What changes do we see in Nicholas when he returns from war, and how does his family react to these changes?

    analysis • surface
  2. 2

    Why does Nicholas pull away from Sonya despite her continued love for him, and what does he tell himself to justify this distance?

    analysis • medium
  3. 3

    Where do you see this pattern today - people using their achievements or new status to distance themselves from old relationships?

    application • medium
  4. 4

    If you had a friend like Nicholas who was pulling away after success, what would you do to help them recognize this pattern?

    application • deep
  5. 5

    What does Nicholas's behavior teach us about the relationship between external validation and our capacity for intimate connection?

    reflection • deep

Critical Thinking Exercise

10 minutes

Map Your Success Isolation Risk

Think of a recent achievement or improvement in your life - a promotion, weight loss, new skill, or overcoming a challenge. Write down the relationships that were important to you before this success. Now honestly assess: have any of these relationships changed since your achievement? Are you treating anyone differently or expecting them to treat you differently?

Consider:

  • •Notice if you've started feeling like certain people 'don't understand you anymore' since your success
  • •Pay attention to whether you're seeking validation from new people while taking old supporters for granted
  • •Consider if you're using your achievement as a reason to avoid vulnerability with people who knew you before

Journaling Prompt

Write about a time when someone you cared about achieved something significant and then seemed to drift away from you. How did that feel, and what do you wish they had done differently?

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Chapter 71: The Hero's Uncomfortable Welcome

The grand dinner for Prince Bagration begins, bringing together Moscow's elite in a celebration that will reveal the true character of the city's social fabric and the complex politics surrounding Russia's military heroes.

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