Summary
After twenty years apart, Penelope refuses to simply accept that the stranger who killed the suitors is truly her husband. Despite everyone's insistence, she demands proof—not just physical evidence, but something only Ulysses would know. Her test comes through their marriage bed, carved from a living olive tree that Ulysses built their bedroom around. When he describes this intimate detail that only they share, Penelope finally breaks down and embraces him. Their reunion is both joyful and practical—Ulysses warns that they're not safe yet, as the families of the dead suitors will seek revenge. He tells Penelope about a prophecy requiring him to travel inland with an oar until he finds people who don't know the sea, then make sacrifices to Poseidon. The chapter shows how real intimacy isn't just physical or emotional—it's built on shared knowledge, private moments, and secrets that bind two people together. Penelope's caution isn't coldness; it's wisdom. She's learned that hope can be dangerous, and that protecting yourself sometimes means testing even those you love most. Their conversation reveals that true partnership means being honest about future challenges, not just celebrating present victories.
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But their private reunion must wait—the families of the dead suitors are gathering for revenge, and Ulysses must face one final confrontation. Meanwhile, in the underworld, the ghosts of the suitors tell their own version of recent events.
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PENELOPE EVENTUALLY RECOGNISES HER HUSBAND—EARLY IN THE MORNING ULYSSES, TELEMACHUS, EUMAEUS, AND PHILOETIUS LEAVE THE TOWN. Euryclea now went upstairs laughing to tell her mistress that her dear husband had come home. Her aged knees became young again and her feet were nimble for joy as she went up to her mistress and bent over her head to speak to her. “Wake up Penelope, my dear child,” she exclaimed, “and see with your own eyes something that you have been wanting this long time past. Ulysses has at last indeed come home again, and has killed the suitors who were giving so much trouble in his house, eating up his estate and ill treating his son.” “My good nurse,” answered Penelope, “you must be mad. The gods sometimes send some very sensible people out of their minds, and make foolish people become sensible. This is what they must have been doing to you; for you always used to be a reasonable person. Why should you thus mock me when I have trouble enough already—talking such nonsense, and waking me up out of a sweet sleep that had taken possession of my eyes and closed them? I have never slept so soundly from the day my poor husband went to that city with the ill-omened name. Go back again into the women’s room; if it had been any one else who had woke me up to bring me such absurd news I should have sent her away with a severe scolding. As it is your age shall protect you.” “My dear child,” answered Euryclea, “I am not mocking you. It is quite true as I tell you that Ulysses is come home again. He was the stranger whom they all kept on treating so badly in the cloister. Telemachus knew all the time that he was come back, but kept his father’s secret that he might have his revenge on all these wicked people.” Then Penelope sprang up from her couch, threw her arms round Euryclea, and wept for joy. “But my dear nurse,” said she, “explain this to me; if he has really come home as you say, how did he manage to overcome the wicked suitors single handed, seeing what a number of them there always were?” “I was not there,” answered Euryclea, “and do not know; I only heard them groaning while they were being killed. We sat crouching and huddled up in a corner of the women’s room with the doors closed, till your son came to fetch me because his father sent him. Then I found Ulysses standing over the corpses that were lying on the ground all round him, one on top of the other. You would have enjoyed it if you could have seen him standing there all bespattered with blood and filth, and looking just like a lion. But the corpses are now all piled up in the gatehouse that is in the outer court, and Ulysses has lit a great fire to purify the house with sulphur. He has sent me to call you, so come with me that you may both be happy together after all; for now at last the desire of your heart has been fulfilled; your husband is come home to find both wife and son alive and well, and to take his revenge in his own house on the suitors who behaved so badly to him.” “My dear nurse,” said Penelope, “do not exult too confidently over all this. You know how delighted every one would be to see Ulysses come home—more particularly myself, and the son who has been born to both of us; but what you tell me cannot be really true. It is some god who is angry with the suitors for their great wickedness, and has made an end of them; for they respected no man in the whole world, neither rich nor poor, who came near them, and they have come to a bad end in consequence of their iniquity; Ulysses is dead far away from the Achaean land; he will never return home again.” Then nurse Euryclea said, “My child, what are you talking about? but you were all hard of belief and have made up your mind that your husband is never coming, although he is in the house and by his own fire side at this very moment. Besides I can give you another proof; when I was washing him I perceived the scar which the wild boar gave him, and I wanted to tell you about it, but in his wisdom he would not let me, and clapped his hands over my mouth; so come with me and I will make this bargain with you—if I am deceiving you, you may have me killed by the most cruel death you can think of.” “My dear nurse,” said Penelope, “however wise you may be you can hardly fathom the counsels of the gods. Nevertheless, we will go in search of my son, that I may see the corpses of the suitors, and the man who has killed them.” On this she came down from her upper room, and while doing so she considered whether she should keep at a distance from her husband and question him, or whether she should at once go up to him and embrace him. When, however, she had crossed the stone floor of the cloister, she sat down opposite Ulysses by the fire, against the wall at right angles180 [to that by which she had entered], while Ulysses sat near one of the bearing-posts, looking upon the ground, and waiting to see what his brave wife would say to him when she saw him. For a long time she sat silent and as one lost in amazement. At one moment she looked him full in the face, but then again directly, she was misled by his shabby clothes and failed to recognise him,181 till Telemachus began to reproach her and said: “Mother—but you are so hard that I cannot call you by such a name—why do you keep away from my father in this way? Why do you not sit by his side and begin talking to him and asking him questions? No other woman could bear to keep away from her husband when he had come back to her after twenty years of absence, and after having gone through so much; but your heart always was as hard as a stone.” Penelope answered, “My son, I am so lost in astonishment that I can find no words in which either to ask questions or to answer them. I cannot even look him straight in the face. Still, if he really is Ulysses come back to his own home again, we shall get to understand one another better by and by, for there are tokens with which we two are alone acquainted, and which are hidden from all others.” Ulysses smiled at this, and said to Telemachus, “Let your mother put me to any proof she likes; she will make up her mind about it presently. She rejects me for the moment and believes me to be somebody else, because I am covered with dirt and have such bad clothes on; let us, however, consider what we had better do next. When one man has killed another—even though he was not one who would leave many friends to take up his quarrel—the man who has killed him must still say good bye to his friends and fly the country; whereas we have been killing the stay of a whole town, and all the picked youth of Ithaca. I would have you consider this matter.” “Look to it yourself, father,” answered Telemachus, “for they say you are the wisest counsellor in the world, and that there is no other mortal man who can compare with you. We will follow you with right good will, nor shall you find us fail you in so far as our strength holds out.” “I will say what I think will be best,” answered Ulysses. “First wash and put your shirts on; tell the maids also to go to their own room and dress; Phemius shall then strike up a dance tune on his lyre, so that if people outside hear, or any of the neighbours, or some one going along the street happens to notice it, they may think there is a wedding in the house, and no rumours about the death of the suitors will get about in the town, before we can escape to the woods upon my own land. Once there, we will settle which of the courses heaven vouchsafes us shall seem wisest.” Thus did he speak, and they did even as he had said. First they washed and put their shirts on, while the women got ready. Then Phemius took his lyre and set them all longing for sweet song and stately dance. The house re-echoed with the sound of men and women dancing, and the people outside said, “I suppose the queen has been getting married at last. She ought to be ashamed of herself for not continuing to protect her husband’s property until he comes home.”182 This was what they said, but they did not know what it was that had been happening. The upper servant Eurynome washed and anointed Ulysses in his own house and gave him a shirt and cloak, while Minerva made him look taller and stronger than before; she also made the hair grow thick on the top of his head, and flow down in curls like hyacinth blossoms; she glorified him about the head and shoulders just as a skilful workman who has studied art of all kinds under Vulcan or Minerva—and his work is full of beauty—enriches a piece of silver plate by gilding it. He came from the bath looking like one of the immortals, and sat down opposite his wife on the seat he had left. “My dear,” said he, “heaven has endowed you with a heart more unyielding than woman ever yet had. No other woman could bear to keep away from her husband when he had come back to her after twenty years of absence, and after having gone through so much. But come, nurse, get a bed ready for me; I will sleep alone, for this woman has a heart as hard as iron.” “My dear,” answered Penelope, “I have no wish to set myself up, nor to depreciate you; but I am not struck by your appearance, for I very well remember what kind of a man you were when you set sail from Ithaca. Nevertheless, Euryclea, take his bed outside the bed chamber that he himself built. Bring the bed outside this room, and put bedding upon it with fleeces, good coverlets, and blankets.” She said this to try him, but Ulysses was very angry and said, “Wife, I am much displeased at what you have just been saying. Who has been taking my bed from the place in which I left it? He must have found it a hard task, no matter how skilled a workman he was, unless some god came and helped him to shift it. There is no man living, however strong and in his prime, who could move it from its place, for it is a marvellous curiosity which I made with my very own hands. There was a young olive growing within the precincts of the house, in full vigour, and about as thick as a bearing-post. I built my room round this with strong walls of stone and a roof to cover them, and I made the doors strong and well-fitting. Then I cut off the top boughs of the olive tree and left the stump standing. This I dressed roughly from the root upwards and then worked with carpenter’s tools well and skilfully, straightening my work by drawing a line on the wood, and making it into a bed-prop. I then bored a hole down the middle, and made it the centre-post of my bed, at which I worked till I had finished it, inlaying it with gold and silver; after this I stretched a hide of crimson leather from one side of it to the other. So you see I know all about it, and I desire to learn whether it is still there, or whether any one has been removing it by cutting down the olive tree at its roots.” When she heard the sure proofs Ulysses now gave her, she fairly broke down. She flew weeping to his side, flung her arms about his neck, and kissed him. “Do not be angry with me Ulysses,” she cried, “you, who are the wisest of mankind. We have suffered, both of us. Heaven has denied us the happiness of spending our youth, and of growing old, together; do not then be aggrieved or take it amiss that I did not embrace you thus as soon as I saw you. I have been shuddering all the time through fear that someone might come here and deceive me with a lying story; for there are many very wicked people going about. Jove’s daughter Helen would never have yielded herself to a man from a foreign country, if she had known that the sons of Achaeans would come after her and bring her back. Heaven put it in her heart to do wrong, and she gave no thought to that sin, which has been the source of all our sorrows. Now, however, that you have convinced me by showing that you know all about our bed (which no human being has ever seen but you and I and a single maidservant, the daughter of Actor, who was given me by my father on my marriage, and who keeps the doors of our room) hard of belief though I have been I can mistrust no longer.” Then Ulysses in his turn melted, and wept as he clasped his dear and faithful wife to his bosom. As the sight of land is welcome to men who are swimming towards the shore, when Neptune has wrecked their ship with the fury of his winds and waves; a few alone reach the land, and these, covered with brine, are thankful when they find themselves on firm ground and out of danger—even so was her husband welcome to her as she looked upon him, and she could not tear her two fair arms from about his neck. Indeed they would have gone on indulging their sorrow till rosy-fingered morn appeared, had not Minerva determined otherwise, and held night back in the far west, while she would not suffer Dawn to leave Oceanus, nor to yoke the two steeds Lampus and Phaethon that bear her onward to break the day upon mankind. At last, however, Ulysses said, “Wife, we have not yet reached the end of our troubles. I have an unknown amount of toil still to undergo. It is long and difficult, but I must go through with it, for thus the shade of Teiresias prophesied concerning me, on the day when I went down into Hades to ask about my return and that of my companions. But now let us go to bed, that we may lie down and enjoy the blessed boon of sleep.” “You shall go to bed as soon as you please,” replied Penelope, “now that the gods have sent you home to your own good house and to your country. But as heaven has put it in your mind to speak of it, tell me about the task that lies before you. I shall have to hear about it later, so it is better that I should be told at once.” “My dear,” answered Ulysses, “why should you press me to tell you? Still, I will not conceal it from you, though you will not like it. I do not like it myself, for Teiresias bade me travel far and wide, carrying an oar, till I came to a country where the people have never heard of the sea, and do not even mix salt with their food. They know nothing about ships, nor oars that are as the wings of a ship. He gave me this certain token which I will not hide from you. He said that a wayfarer should meet me and ask me whether it was a winnowing shovel that I had on my shoulder. On this, I was to fix my oar in the ground and sacrifice a ram, a bull, and a boar to Neptune; after which I was to go home and offer hecatombs to all the gods in heaven, one after the other. As for myself, he said that death should come to me from the sea, and that my life should ebb away very gently when I was full of years and peace of mind, and my people should bless me. All this, he said, should surely come to pass.” And Penelope said, “If the gods are going to vouchsafe you a happier time in your old age, you may hope then to have some respite from misfortune.” Thus did they converse. Meanwhile Eurynome and the nurse took torches and made the bed ready with soft coverlets; as soon as they had laid them, the nurse went back into the house to go to her rest, leaving the bed chamber woman Eurynome183 to show Ulysses and Penelope to bed by torch light. When she had conducted them to their room she went back, and they then came joyfully to the rites of their own old bed. Telemachus, Philoetius, and the swineherd now left off dancing, and made the women leave off also. They then laid themselves down to sleep in the cloisters. When Ulysses and Penelope had had their fill of love they fell talking with one another. She told him how much she had had to bear in seeing the house filled with a crowd of wicked suitors who had killed so many sheep and oxen on her account, and had drunk so many casks of wine. Ulysses in his turn told her what he had suffered, and how much trouble he had himself given to other people. He told her everything, and she was so delighted to listen that she never went to sleep till he had ended his whole story. He began with his victory over the Cicons, and how he thence reached the fertile land of the Lotus-eaters. He told her all about the Cyclops and how he had punished him for having so ruthlessly eaten his brave comrades; how he then went on to Aeolus, who received him hospitably and furthered him on his way, but even so he was not to reach home, for to his great grief a hurricane carried him out to sea again; how he went on to the Laestrygonian city Telepylos, where the people destroyed all his ships with their crews, save himself and his own ship only. Then he told of cunning Circe and her craft, and how he sailed to the chill house of Hades, to consult the ghost of the Theban prophet Teiresias, and how he saw his old comrades in arms, and his mother who bore him and brought him up when he was a child; how he then heard the wondrous singing of the Sirens, and went on to the wandering rocks and terrible Charybdis and to Scylla, whom no man had ever yet passed in safety; how his men then ate the cattle of the sun-god, and how Jove therefore struck the ship with his thunderbolts, so that all his men perished together, himself alone being left alive; how at last he reached the Ogygian island and the nymph Calypso, who kept him there in a cave, and fed him, and wanted him to marry her, in which case she intended making him immortal so that he should never grow old, but she could not persuade him to let her do so; and how after much suffering he had found his way to the Phaeacians, who had treated him as though he had been a god, and sent him back in a ship to his own country after having given him gold, bronze, and raiment in great abundance. This was the last thing about which he told her, for here a deep sleep took hold upon him and eased the burden of his sorrows. Then Minerva bethought her of another matter. When she deemed that Ulysses had had both of his wife and of repose, she bade gold-enthroned Dawn rise out of Oceanus that she might shed light upon mankind. On this, Ulysses rose from his comfortable bed and said to Penelope, “Wife, we have both of us had our full share of troubles, you, here, in lamenting my absence, and I in being prevented from getting home though I was longing all the time to do so. Now, however, that we have at last come together, take care of the property that is in the house. As for the sheep and goats which the wicked suitors have eaten, I will take many myself by force from other people, and will compel the Achaeans to make good the rest till they shall have filled all my yards. I am now going to the wooded lands out in the country to see my father who has so long been grieved on my account, and to yourself I will give these instructions, though you have little need of them. At sunrise it will at once get abroad that I have been killing the suitors; go upstairs, therefore,184 and stay there with your women. See nobody and ask no questions.”185 As he spoke he girded on his armour. Then he roused Telemachus, Philoetius, and Eumaeus, and told them all to put on their armour also. This they did, and armed themselves. When they had done so, they opened the gates and sallied forth, Ulysses leading the way. It was now daylight, but Minerva nevertheless concealed them in darkness and led them quickly out of the town.
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Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Earned Trust - Why Real Love Tests Before It Accepts
Real intimacy requires verification through shared knowledge and proven actions, not just declarations and demands for immediate acceptance.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to distinguish between genuine remorse and manipulative words by observing reactions to verification requests.
Practice This Today
Next time someone who hurt you demands immediate forgiveness, notice whether they get angry at being asked to prove their change or gladly accept the opportunity to rebuild trust slowly.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Terms to Know
Recognition scene
A dramatic moment when characters discover each other's true identity after a long separation or disguise. In ancient literature, these scenes often involved specific tests or tokens that proved identity beyond physical appearance.
Modern Usage:
We see this in movies when long-lost family members reunite, or when someone returns from war and has to prove they're really themselves to suspicious loved ones.
Marriage bed symbolism
The bed represents the foundation of marriage - not just physical intimacy, but shared secrets, private knowledge, and the life built together. Ulysses carved their bed from a living olive tree, making it immovable and eternal.
Modern Usage:
Today we might talk about 'what happens behind closed doors' - the private moments and shared experiences that only couples know about each other.
Protective skepticism
The habit of questioning good news or positive changes, especially after experiencing loss or betrayal. It's a survival mechanism that prevents further emotional damage.
Modern Usage:
Like when someone who's been cheated on has trouble trusting a new partner, even when they want to believe.
Intimate knowledge test
Proving identity through private information that only close relationships would share - not public facts anyone could learn, but personal details from shared experiences.
Modern Usage:
Security questions on accounts use this concept - asking for your mother's maiden name or first pet's name that only you would know.
Prophecy as plot device
Ancient stories often used divine predictions to explain why heroes must continue traveling or facing challenges even after apparent victory. It keeps the story moving and explains ongoing struggles.
Modern Usage:
Like when doctors tell patients they need follow-up treatments even after successful surgery - there's always more work to do.
Xenia (guest-host relationship)
The sacred Greek custom of hospitality between strangers, which created mutual obligations of protection and respect. Breaking xenia brought divine punishment.
Modern Usage:
Similar to how we still feel obligated to be polite to houseguests, or how 'Southern hospitality' creates expectations about how to treat visitors.
Characters in This Chapter
Penelope
Cautious wife
She refuses to immediately accept that the stranger is her husband, demanding proof through their shared secret about the marriage bed. Her skepticism shows wisdom gained from twenty years of disappointment and false hope.
Modern Equivalent:
The woman who's been burned before and won't fall for smooth talk
Ulysses
Returning husband
He understands Penelope's need for proof and provides the intimate details about their bed that only he would know. He's honest about future dangers rather than pretending their troubles are over.
Modern Equivalent:
The partner who's been away and has to earn back trust through actions, not just words
Euryclea
Loyal nurse
She's overjoyed to finally share the good news with Penelope, but gets frustrated when her mistress won't believe her. She represents pure emotional reaction without strategic thinking.
Modern Equivalent:
The friend who gets excited about your good news and can't understand why you're not celebrating yet
Telemachus
Supporting son
He's present but takes a backseat to his parents' reunion, understanding this is their moment. He's grown from boy to man during his father's absence.
Modern Equivalent:
The adult child who steps back and lets their parents work through their relationship issues
Key Quotes & Analysis
"My good nurse, you must be mad. The gods sometimes send some very sensible people out of their minds, and make foolish people become sensible."
Context: When Euryclea wakes her to announce Ulysses has returned
This shows Penelope's protective cynicism - she'd rather believe her trusted nurse has gone crazy than risk hoping for something that might not be true. Twenty years of waiting has taught her that hope can be dangerous.
In Today's Words:
You've lost your mind. Sometimes life makes smart people act stupid and stupid people suddenly make sense.
"There is a secret in the making of our bed that no one knows but you and I and one maid only."
Context: When he describes how he built their bed around a living olive tree
This is the proof Penelope needs - not physical appearance or public knowledge, but intimate details from their private life together. It shows that real love is built on shared secrets and experiences.
In Today's Words:
Only you and I know how our bed was made - that's something nobody else could fake.
"Then Penelope's knees became weak and her heart melted when she recognized the sure signs that Ulysses had given her."
Context: The moment Penelope finally accepts that he's really her husband
After all her caution and testing, Penelope's emotional walls finally come down. The physical description shows how powerful the relief is after twenty years of uncertainty and self-protection.
In Today's Words:
All her defenses crumbled when she knew for sure it was really him.
Thematic Threads
Identity
In This Chapter
Ulysses must prove his identity not through appearance but through intimate shared knowledge only the real husband would possess
Development
Evolved from disguises and false identities throughout the journey to this final test of authentic self
In Your Life:
You might need to prove who you really are after major life changes, not just claim it
Trust
In This Chapter
Penelope demands verification before accepting Ulysses back, showing that wisdom sometimes requires testing even those we love
Development
Built from themes of deception and false appearances to this moment of requiring proof
In Your Life:
You might need to verify someone's claims through actions over time rather than accepting promises immediately
Intimacy
In This Chapter
True marital intimacy is revealed through shared secrets and private knowledge that outsiders cannot access or fake
Development
Contrasts with the public violence of killing suitors—real connection is private and personal
In Your Life:
You might recognize authentic relationships by the small, private details you share that others don't know
Wisdom
In This Chapter
Penelope's caution is presented as intelligence, not coldness—she's learned that hope without verification is dangerous
Development
Represents the wisdom gained through twenty years of surviving false hopes and empty promises
In Your Life:
You might need to balance openness with protective skepticism when stakes are high
Partnership
In This Chapter
Their reunion includes honest discussion of future dangers, showing that real partnership means facing challenges together
Development
Moves from individual survival and testing to collaborative planning for what comes next
In Your Life:
You might find that strong relationships discuss problems honestly rather than just celebrating good moments
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
Why does Penelope refuse to believe the stranger is her husband, even after he's killed all the suitors?
analysis • surface - 2
What makes the olive tree bed test so powerful as proof of identity?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see people today demanding immediate trust after long absences or betrayals?
application • medium - 4
How would you handle someone who got angry at you for wanting proof of their changed behavior?
application • deep - 5
What does Penelope's caution teach us about the difference between being open-hearted and being naive?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Design Your Own Trust Test
Think of a relationship in your life where someone wants you to trust them again after they've hurt you or been absent. Design a 'trust test' like Penelope's olive tree bed - something that would prove they truly know and care about your shared history, not just empty words about the future.
Consider:
- •What shared knowledge or experience would only someone who truly cared about you remember?
- •How would genuine love respond to being asked for proof versus fake interest?
- •What small actions over time would demonstrate real change rather than just promises?
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you trusted too quickly and got hurt, or when you were cautious like Penelope and it protected you. What did that experience teach you about the difference between being loving and being wise?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 24: Peace After the Storm
Moving forward, we'll examine to handle the aftermath of conflict and seek reconciliation, and understand divine intervention in preventing endless cycles of revenge. These insights bridge the gap between classic literature and modern experience.
