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OOK III. PA YIH.
CHAP. I. Confucius said of the head of the Chi family, who had
eight rows of pantomimes in his area, 'If he can bear to do this,
what may he not bear to do?'
CHAP. II. The three families used the YUNG ode, while the
vessels were being removed, at the conclusion of the sacrifice. The
Master said, '"Assisting are the princes;-- the son of heaven looks
profound and grave:"-- what application can these words have in
the hall of the three families?'
CHAP. III. The Master said, 'If a man be without the virtues
proper to humanity, what has he to do with the rites of propriety?
If a man be without the virtues proper to humanity, what has he to
do with music?'
CHAP. IV. 1. Lin Fang asked what was the first thing to be
attended to in ceremonies.
2. The Master said, 'A great question indeed!
3. 'In festive ceremonies, it is better to be sparing than
extravagant.
In the ceremonies of mourning, it is better that there be deep
sorrow than a minute attention to observances.'
CHAP. V. The Master said, 'The rude tribes of the east and
north have their princes, and are not like the States of our great
land which are without them.'
CHAP. VI. The chief of the Chi family was about to sacrifice to
the T'ai mountain. The Master said to Zan Yu, 'Can you not save him
from this?' He answered, 'I cannot.' Confucius said, 'Alas! will you
say that the T'ai mountain is not so discerning as Lin Fang?'
CHAP. VII. The Master said, 'The student of virtue has no
contentions. If it be said he cannot avoid them, shall this be in
archery? But he bows complaisantly to his competitors; thus he
ascends the hall, descends, and exacts the forfeit of drinking. In his
contention, he is still the Chun-tsze.'
CHAP. VIII. 1. Tsze-hsia asked, saying, 'What is the meaning
of the passage-- "The pretty dimples of her artful smile! The well-
defined black and white of her eye! The plain ground for the
colours?"'
2. The Master said, 'The business of laying on the colours
follows (the preparation of) the plain ground.'
3. 'Ceremonies then are a subsequent thing?' The Master said,
'It is Shang who can bring out my meaning. Now I can begin to talk
about the odes with him.'
CHAP. IX. The Master said, 'I could describe the ceremonies of
the Hsia dynasty, but Chi cannot sufficiently attest my words. I
could describe the ceremonies of the Yin dynasty, but Sung cannot
sufficiently attest my words. (They cannot do so) because of the
insufficiency of their records and wise men. If those were
sufficient, I could adduce them in support of my words.'
CHAP. X. The Master said, 'At the great sacrifice, after the
pouring out of the libation, I have no wish to look on.'
CHAP. XI. Some one asked the meaning of the great sacrifice.
The Master said, 'I do not know. He who knew its meaning would
find it as easy to govern the kingdom as to look on this;-- pointing
to his palm.
CHAP. XII. 1. He sacrificed to the dead, as if they were
present. He sacrificed to the spirits, as if the spirits were present.
2. The Master said, 'I consider my not being present at the
sacrifice, as if I did not sacrifice.'
CHAP. XIII. 1. Wang-sun Chia asked, saying, 'What is the
meaning of the saying, "It is better to pay court to the furnace than
to the south-west corner?"'
2. The Master said, 'Not so. He who offends against Heaven
has none to whom he can pray.'
CHAP. XIV. The Master said, 'Chau had the advantage of
viewing the two past dynasties. How complete and elegant are its
regulations! I follow Chau.'
CHAP. XV. The Master, when he entered the grand temple,
asked about everything. Some one said, 'Who will say that the son
of the man of Tsau knows the rules of propriety! He has entered the
grand temple and asks about everything.' The Master heard the
remark, and said, 'This is a rule of propriety.'
CHAP. XVI. The Master said, 'In archery it is not going
through the leather which is the principal thing;-- because people's
strength is not equal. This was the old way.'
CHAP. XVII. 1. Tsze-kung wished to do away with the offering
of a sheep connected with the inauguration of the first day of each
month.
2. The Master said, 'Ts'ze, you love the sheep; I love the
ceremony.'
CHAP. XVII. The Master said, 'The full observance of the rules
of propriety in serving one's prince is accounted by people to be
flattery.'
CHAP. XIX. The Duke Ting asked how a prince should employ
his ministers, and how ministers should serve their prince.
Confucius replied, 'A prince should employ his minister according to
according to the rules of propriety; ministers should serve their
prince with faithfulness.'
CHAP. XX. The Master said, 'The Kwan Tsu is expressive of
enjoyment without being licentious, and of grief without being
hurtfully excessive.'
CHAP. XXI. 1. The Duke Ai asked Tsai Wo about the altars of
the spirits of the land. Tsai Wo replied, 'The Hsia sovereign planted
the pine tree about them; the men of the Yin planted the cypress;
and the men of the Chau planted the chestnut tree, meaning
thereby to cause the people to be in awe.'
2. When the Master heard it, he said, 'Things that are done, it
is needless to speak about; things that have had their course, it is
needless to remonstrate about; things that are past, it is needless to
blame.'
CHAP. XXII. 1. The Master said, 'Small indeed was the capacity
of Kwan Chung!'
2. Some one said, 'Was Kwan Chung parsimonious?' 'Kwan,'
was the reply, 'had the San Kwei, and his officers performed no
double duties; how can he be considered parsimonious?'
3. 'Then, did Kwan Chung know the rules of propriety?' The
Master said, 'The princes of States have a screen intercepting the
view at their gates. Kwan had likewise a screen at his gate. The
princes of States on any friendly meeting between two of them, had
a stand on which to place their inverted cups. Kwan had also such a
stand. If Kwan knew the rules of propriety, who does not know
them?'
CHAP. XXXII. The Master instructing the grand music-master
of Lu said, 'How to play music may be known. At the
commencement of the piece, all the parts should sound together. As
it proceeds, they should be in harmony while severally distinct and
flowing without break, and thus on to the conclusion.'
CHAP. XXIV. The border warden at Yi requested to be
introduced to the Master, saying, 'When men of superior virtue
have come to this, I have never been denied the privilege of seeing
them.' The followers of the sage introduced him, and when he came
out from the interview, he said, 'My friends, why are you distressed
by your master's loss of office? The kingdom has long been without
the principles of truth and right; Heaven is going to use your master
as a bell with its wooden tongue.'
CHAP. XXV. The Master said of the Shao that it was perfectly
beautiful and also perfectly good. He said of the Wu that it was
perfectly beautiful but not perfectly good.
CHAP. XXVI. The Master said, 'High station filled without
indulgent generosity; ceremonies performed without reverence;
mourning conducted without sorrow;-- wherewith should I
contemplate such ways?'
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Let's Analyse the Pattern
People attempt to gain respect and power through symbols and displays rather than developing genuine competence or character.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to distinguish between authentic authority based on competence and borrowed authority based on symbols and performance.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when someone demands respect through titles or procedures rather than earning it through results and relationships.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"If he can bear to do this, what may he not bear to do?"
Context: After observing the Chi family's inappropriate eight-row dance ceremony
Confucius reveals how small acts of disrespect indicate deeper character flaws. Someone who violates sacred boundaries will eventually violate any boundary that serves their interests.
In Today's Words:
If they're willing to cross this line, what line won't they cross?
"If a man be without the virtues proper to humanity, what has he to do with the rites of propriety?"
Context: Teaching about the relationship between character and ceremony
This cuts to the heart of authentic versus performative behavior. Rituals and manners are meaningless when performed by people who lack basic human decency and compassion.
In Today's Words:
What's the point of good manners if you're a terrible person inside?
"In festive ceremonies, it is better to be sparing than extravagant. In the ceremonies of mourning, it is better that there be deep sorrow than a minute attention to observances."
Context: Answering Lin Fang's question about what matters most in ceremonies
Confucius prioritizes genuine emotion over expensive displays. True celebration and grief come from the heart, not from how much money you spend or how perfectly you follow protocol.
In Today's Words:
Better to throw a simple party with real joy than a fancy one that's all for show, and better to truly grieve than to put on a performance.
"Can you not save him from this?"
Context: Asking his disciple Zan Yu to prevent the Chi family's inappropriate mountain sacrifice
Shows Confucius's hope that good people can influence those in power to do the right thing. He believes in intervention when someone is about to make a serious moral error.
In Today's Words:
Can't you talk them out of this terrible idea?
Thematic Threads
Authentic Authority
In This Chapter
Confucius demonstrates real authority through questioning and learning, while the Chi family performs fake authority through stolen ceremonies
Development
Introduced here
In Your Life:
You might recognize this when someone demands respect they haven't earned through actual leadership or competence.
Performance vs. Substance
In This Chapter
The contrast between elaborate ritual displays and genuine mourning, between asking questions and pretending to know
Development
Introduced here
In Your Life:
You encounter this whenever someone's actions don't match their words or their image doesn't reflect their reality.
Social Hierarchy
In This Chapter
The Chi family overstepping their social position by appropriating royal ceremonies they haven't earned the right to perform
Development
Introduced here
In Your Life:
You see this when people try to claim status or privileges that don't match their actual role or contributions.
Humility as Strength
In This Chapter
Confucius shows that asking questions demonstrates proper respect and wisdom, not ignorance
Development
Introduced here
In Your Life:
You practice this when you admit what you don't know instead of pretending expertise you lack.
Character Recognition
In This Chapter
The ability to distinguish between genuine virtue and performative displays of righteousness
Development
Introduced here
In Your Life:
You use this skill when evaluating whether someone's public behavior reflects their private character.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What specific behaviors does Confucius criticize about the Chi family, and why does he consider their ceremonial displays inappropriate?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Confucius believe that asking questions in the temple shows proper respect rather than ignorance?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see people today using symbols or titles to claim authority they haven't earned through competence or character?
application • medium - 4
How would you respond to a coworker or boss who demands respect through displays of power rather than earning it through their actions?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter reveal about the difference between genuine influence and performed authority, and why does one last while the other crumbles?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Authority Audit
Think of someone in your workplace or community who commands genuine respect versus someone who demands it through position or displays. List three specific behaviors each person uses to establish their authority. Then identify which approach creates more lasting influence and why.
Consider:
- •Notice whether people ask questions or avoid them when their authority is challenged
- •Pay attention to whether someone's influence grows or shrinks when they're not physically present
- •Observe how each person responds to criticism or alternative viewpoints
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you tried to gain respect through external displays rather than developing genuine competence. What did you learn from that experience, and how do you approach authority differently now?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 4: Living Your Values Every Day
Having exposed the hollow performances of false leaders, Confucius turns to what real virtue looks like in daily life. The next chapter explores how genuine goodness shapes our relationships, choices, and the communities we build.




