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20:005:001 y son, attend unto my wisdom, and bow thine ear to my
understanding:
20:005:002 That thou mayest regard discretion, and that thy lips may keep
knowledge.
20:005:003 For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her
mouth is smoother than oil:
20:005:004 But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword.
20:005:005 Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell.
20:005:006 Lest thou shouldest ponder the path of life, her ways are
moveable, that thou canst not know them.
20:005:007 Hear me now therefore, O ye children, and depart not from the
words of my mouth.
20:005:008 Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her
house:
20:005:009 Lest thou give thine honour unto others, and thy years unto
the cruel:
20:005:010 Lest strangers be filled with thy wealth; and thy labours be
in the house of a stranger;
20:005:011 And thou mourn at the last, when thy flesh and thy body are
consumed,
20:005:012 And say, How have I hated instruction, and my heart despised
reproof;
20:005:013 And have not obeyed the voice of my teachers, nor inclined
mine ear to them that instructed me!
20:005:014 I was almost in all evil in the midst of the congregation and
assembly.
20:005:015 Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out
of thine own well.
20:005:016 Let thy fountains be dispersed abroad, and rivers of waters in
the streets.
20:005:017 Let them be only thine own, and not strangers' with thee.
20:005:018 Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy
youth.
20:005:019 Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her
breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always
with her love.
20:005:020 And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman,
and embrace the bosom of a stranger?
20:005:021 For the ways of man are before the eyes of the LORD, and he
pondereth all his goings.
20:005:022 His own iniquities shall take the wicked himself, and he shall
be holden with the cords of his sins.
20:005:023 He shall die without instruction; and in the greatness of his
folly he shall go astray.
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Let's Analyse the Pattern
Destructive choices disguise themselves as immediately pleasurable while hiding their long-term costs through deliberate instability and unpredictability.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how manipulators deliberately keep situations unstable and confusing to prevent their targets from thinking clearly about consequences.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when someone can't give you straight answers about expectations, keeps changing the rules, or pressures you to decide quickly without time to think.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil: But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword."
Context: Warning about how destructive temptations present themselves attractively at first
This reveals the classic pattern of how bad choices seduce us - they start sweet but end bitter. Solomon is teaching pattern recognition, showing how to spot the bait-and-switch before you're hooked.
In Today's Words:
They'll tell you exactly what you want to hear at first, but once you're in, it's going to hurt you badly.
"Her ways are moveable, that thou canst not know them."
Context: Explaining why destructive influences are so hard to predict or navigate
This identifies a key manipulation tactic - keeping you confused and off-balance so you can't make good decisions. It's about recognizing when someone or something deliberately keeps changing the rules.
In Today's Words:
They keep changing the game so you never know what to expect - that's not confusion, that's control.
"Lest strangers be filled with thy wealth; and thy labours be in the house of a stranger."
Context: Warning about the long-term cost of giving in to destructive temptations
This shows how bad choices don't just hurt you emotionally - they cost you financially and professionally. Your hard work ends up benefiting people who don't care about you.
In Today's Words:
You'll end up working hard to pay for someone else's lifestyle while your own life falls apart.
"Rejoice with the wife of thy youth."
Context: Prescribing the antidote to destructive temptation
This isn't just about marriage - it's about appreciating and investing in the good relationships and opportunities you already have instead of always looking elsewhere for something better.
In Today's Words:
Find joy in the good things you've already built instead of always chasing something that looks more exciting.
Thematic Threads
Deception
In This Chapter
Solomon shows how destructive choices deliberately hide their true nature, appearing sweet while being poison
Development
Introduced here
In Your Life:
You might see this in any situation where someone keeps changing the rules or won't give you straight answers about expectations.
Consequences
In This Chapter
The chapter emphasizes that poor choices lead to loss of honor, strength, wealth, and ultimately regret
Development
Builds on earlier warnings about wisdom's protective power
In Your Life:
You might recognize this when you're tempted to take shortcuts that could damage your reputation or relationships.
Commitment
In This Chapter
Solomon advocates for faithfulness to 'your own well' and 'the wife of your youth' as protection against temptation
Development
Introduced here
In Your Life:
You might apply this by investing in relationships and opportunities you already have instead of constantly seeking something better.
Identity
In This Chapter
The chapter warns that giving in to these temptations costs you your reputation and how others see you
Development
Builds on earlier themes about how wisdom shapes who you become
In Your Life:
You might consider this when making choices that could affect how your family, coworkers, or community view you.
Personal Growth
In This Chapter
Solomon presents self-control and discernment as skills that protect you from being trapped by poor decisions
Development
Continues the theme that wisdom is practical protection
In Your Life:
You might practice this by learning to pause and ask 'where does this path actually lead?' before making impulsive choices.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What specific warnings does Solomon give about choices that seem attractive at first but lead to destruction?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Solomon emphasize that destructive influences have 'unstable paths' - what advantage does this give them?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see this 'sweet at first, bitter at the end' pattern in modern life - in relationships, work, or financial decisions?
application • medium - 4
When you encounter something that feels deliberately unstable or keeps changing the rules, how would you apply Solomon's advice to 'drink from your own well'?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter reveal about why humans are drawn to what's harmful for them, and how can we use this knowledge to make better choices?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Own Wells vs. Honey Traps
Make two lists: your current 'wells' (relationships, opportunities, or habits that consistently nourish you) and recent 'honey offers' (things that promised quick rewards but felt unstable or kept changing expectations). For each honey offer, identify what made it feel unstable and what your gut was telling you that you might have ignored.
Consider:
- •Look for patterns in what makes something feel 'off' even when it sounds good
- •Notice whether your wells get neglected when you chase honey offers
- •Consider how much energy unstable situations drain compared to stable ones
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you ignored warning signs because something looked too good to pass up. What would you do differently now that you understand the pattern of deliberate instability?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 6: Financial Traps and Life Patterns
After warning about the dangers of bad relationships, Solomon shifts to another trap that destroys lives: the financial obligations we take on for others. He's about to reveal why co-signing loans and making promises with your money can be just as destructive as any other seductive trap.
