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20:031:001 he words of king Lemuel, the prophecy that his mother taught
him.
20:031:002 What, my son? and what, the son of my womb? and what, the son
of my vows?
20:031:003 Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which
destroyeth kings.
20:031:004 It is not for kings, O Lemuel, it is not for kings to drink
wine; nor for princes strong drink:
20:031:005 Lest they drink, and forget the law, and pervert the judgment
of any of the afflicted.
20:031:006 Give strong drink unto him that is ready to perish, and wine
unto those that be of heavy hearts.
20:031:007 Let him drink, and forget his poverty, and remember his misery
no more.
20:031:008 Open thy mouth for the dumb in the cause of all such as are
appointed to destruction.
20:031:009 Open thy mouth, judge righteously, and plead the cause of the
poor and needy.
20:031:010 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above
rubies.
20:031:011 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he
shall have no need of spoil.
20:031:012 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
20:031:013 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her
hands.
20:031:014 She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from
afar.
20:031:015 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her
household, and a portion to her maidens.
20:031:016 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her
hands she planteth a vineyard.
20:031:017 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her
arms.
20:031:018 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth
not out by night.
20:031:019 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the
distaff.
20:031:020 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth
forth her hands to the needy.
20:031:021 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her
household are clothed with scarlet.
20:031:022 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk
and purple.
20:031:023 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the
elders of the land.
20:031:024 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles
unto the merchant.
20:031:025 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in
time to come.
20:031:026 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the
law of kindness.
20:031:027 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not
the bread of idleness.
20:031:028 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also,
and he praiseth her.
20:031:029 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them
all.
20:031:030 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that
feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.
20:031:031 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works
praise her in the gates.
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Let's Analyse the Pattern
True influence comes from demonstrating competence and character consistently over time, not from demanding respect based on position or appearance.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to distinguish between people who have real influence because they've proven themselves and those who just have titles or positions.
Practice This Today
This week, notice who people actually turn to for advice or help at work—it's often not the person with the highest official position, but the one who consistently delivers results and helps others.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"Open thy mouth for the dumb in the cause of all such as are appointed to destruction"
Context: She's teaching her son about the responsibilities that come with power
This is about using whatever influence you have to help people who can't help themselves. It's not about charity - it's about justice and speaking up when you see wrong being done.
In Today's Words:
Use your voice to stand up for people who can't stand up for themselves
"Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies"
Context: Beginning the famous description of the capable woman
This isn't saying women are rare gems to be collected. It's saying that someone who truly has their life together and builds something meaningful is incredibly valuable and hard to find.
In Today's Words:
A person who really has it all figured out is worth more than money
"She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household"
Context: Describing the virtuous woman's work ethic and care for her family
This shows someone who puts in extra effort to take care of the people depending on her. It's about dedication and responsibility, not being a servant.
In Today's Words:
She gets up early to make sure everyone is taken care of
"She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard"
Context: Showing the virtuous woman as a businesswoman and investor
This woman isn't just managing a household - she's making business decisions and investments. She's thinking strategically about the future and building wealth through her own work.
In Today's Words:
She spots a good deal on property and uses her own money to buy it and start a business
Thematic Threads
Class
In This Chapter
The virtuous woman transcends class limitations through entrepreneurship and smart investments, building wealth through work rather than inheritance
Development
Evolved from earlier warnings about poverty to show practical wealth-building strategies
In Your Life:
You might see this when someone from a working-class background builds success through consistent effort and smart choices
Identity
In This Chapter
Worth is defined by actions and character rather than appearance or others' opinions—revolutionary for its time
Development
Culminates the book's theme that true identity comes from wisdom and integrity, not external validation
In Your Life:
You might struggle with this when social media or workplace politics make you question your self-worth based on others' perceptions
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
The chapter subverts gender roles by presenting a woman as entrepreneur and business leader, not just caregiver
Development
Builds on earlier themes about wisdom transcending social categories
In Your Life:
You might face this when others try to limit what you can achieve based on their assumptions about your background or role
Personal Growth
In This Chapter
Growth comes through taking responsibility, defending others, and building something meaningful rather than seeking pleasure
Development
Concludes the book's emphasis on wisdom as practical life-building rather than abstract knowledge
In Your Life:
You might recognize this when you have to choose between immediate gratification and long-term building of skills or relationships
Human Relationships
In This Chapter
Healthy relationships are built on mutual respect, shared responsibility, and using your strengths to benefit others
Development
Synthesizes earlier teachings about friendship, marriage, and community into a model of interdependent strength
In Your Life:
You might see this pattern in relationships where both people contribute their unique strengths rather than one person doing everything
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What specific advice does the mother give her son about using power responsibly?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does the text emphasize that the virtuous woman's strength comes from her character rather than her appearance?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see examples of earned authority versus demanded authority in your workplace, family, or community?
application • medium - 4
If you were building influence in your current situation, what specific actions would you take based on this chapter's wisdom?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter reveal about the relationship between competence, consistency, and respect?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Influence Builders
Think of someone whose opinion you genuinely respect - at work, in your family, or community. List the specific actions they take that built your trust over time. Then identify three concrete ways you could build similar credibility in your own circle. Focus on behaviors you can start this week, not grand gestures.
Consider:
- •Look for patterns of consistency rather than single impressive moments
- •Notice how they handle situations when no one important is watching
- •Consider how they balance taking care of their own responsibilities while helping others
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you had to choose between demanding respect and earning it. What did you learn from that experience, and how would you handle a similar situation now?




