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20:026:001 s snow in summer, and as rain in harvest, so honour is not
seemly for a fool.
20:026:002 As the bird by wandering, as the swallow by flying, so the
curse causeless shall not come.
20:026:003 A whip for the horse, a bridle for the ass, and a rod for the
fool's back.
20:026:004 Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest thou also be
like unto him.
20:026:005 Answer a fool according to his folly, lest he be wise in his
own conceit.
20:026:006 He that sendeth a message by the hand of a fool cutteth off
the feet, and drinketh damage.
20:026:007 The legs of the lame are not equal: so is a parable in the
mouth of fools.
20:026:008 As he that bindeth a stone in a sling, so is he that giveth
honour to a fool.
20:026:009 As a thorn goeth up into the hand of a drunkard, so is a
parable in the mouths of fools.
20:026:010 The great God that formed all things both rewardeth the fool,
and rewardeth transgressors.
20:026:011 As a dog returneth to his vomit, so a fool returneth to his
folly.
20:026:012 Seest thou a man wise in his own conceit? there is more hope
of a fool than of him.
20:026:013 The slothful man saith, There is a lion in the way; a lion is
in the streets.
20:026:014 As the door turneth upon his hinges, so doth the slothful upon
his bed.
20:026:015 The slothful hideth his hand in his bosom; it grieveth him to
bring it again to his mouth.
20:026:016 The sluggard is wiser in his own conceit than seven men that
can render a reason.
20:026:017 He that passeth by, and meddleth with strife belonging not to
him, is like one that taketh a dog by the ears.
20:026:018 As a mad man who casteth firebrands, arrows, and death,
20:026:019 So is the man that deceiveth his neighbour, and saith, Am not
I in sport?
20:026:020 Where no wood is, there the fire goeth out: so where there is
no talebearer, the strife ceaseth.
20:026:021 As coals are to burning coals, and wood to fire; so is a
contentious man to kindle strife.
20:026:022 The words of a talebearer are as wounds, and they go down into
the innermost parts of the belly.
20:026:023 Burning lips and a wicked heart are like a potsherd covered
with silver dross.
20:026:024 He that hateth dissembleth with his lips, and layeth up deceit
within him;
20:026:025 When he speaketh fair, believe him not: for there are seven
abominations in his heart.
20:026:026 Whose hatred is covered by deceit, his wickedness shall be
shewed before the whole congregation.
20:026:027 Whoso diggeth a pit shall fall therein: and he that rolleth a
stone, it will return upon him.
20:026:028 A lying tongue hateth those that are afflicted by it; and a
flattering mouth worketh ruin.
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Let's Analyse the Pattern
People who consistently drain others' energy through predictable behaviors that get them attention, avoid responsibility, or create social power.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to identify people whose behavioral patterns consistently drain others without contributing positive value.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when someone's request or conversation leaves you feeling exhausted rather than energized, then ask yourself what pattern they're repeating.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest thou also be like unto him. Answer a fool according to his folly, lest he be wise in his own conceit."
Context: Teaching when to engage with difficult people and when to walk away
This seeming contradiction is actually brilliant advice about reading the room. Sometimes arguing back just makes you look foolish too. Other times, you need to shut down their nonsense so they don't think they won.
In Today's Words:
Sometimes don't argue with idiots - they'll drag you down to their level. But sometimes you have to call them out or they'll think they're right.
"Where no wood is, there the fire goeth out: so where there is no talebearer, the strife ceaseth."
Context: Explaining how gossip fuels conflict in relationships and communities
One of the most practical pieces of advice about handling drama. Cut off the fuel source and the fire dies. Stop feeding the gossip mill and the drama stops.
In Today's Words:
Drama dies when you stop feeding it. No gossip, no conflict.
"As a dog returneth to his vomit, so a fool returneth to his folly."
Context: Describing how some people keep making the same mistakes over and over
A disgusting but memorable image that captures how some people are drawn back to destructive behaviors even when they know better. It's about recognizing this pattern in others.
In Today's Words:
Some people keep going back to the same bad choices that hurt them, like a dog eating its own throw-up.
"The slothful man saith, There is a lion in the way; a lion is in the streets."
Context: Mocking the elaborate excuses lazy people make to avoid work
This is ancient sarcasm at its finest. Solomon is calling out people who make ridiculous excuses to avoid doing what they should do. It's so extreme it's almost funny.
In Today's Words:
Lazy people always have dramatic excuses for why they can't do simple tasks.
Thematic Threads
Boundaries
In This Chapter
Solomon shows how to engage or disengage strategically with difficult people rather than being reactive
Development
Builds on earlier wisdom about choosing your battles and protecting your peace
In Your Life:
You might recognize times when you've been drained by people who always seem to need something from you
Social Dynamics
In This Chapter
Detailed analysis of how gossip spreads and how some people ignite conflict wherever they go
Development
Expands from individual character to group dynamics and social poison
In Your Life:
You might notice how certain people always seem to be at the center of workplace or family drama
Personal Responsibility
In This Chapter
Contrasts those who make excuses for everything with the need to take ownership of your responses
Development
Deepens the theme of self-accountability while recognizing others' patterns
In Your Life:
You might catch yourself making excuses or recognize when others consistently avoid responsibility
Deception
In This Chapter
Warning about people who smile to your face while plotting harm, emphasizing the gap between appearance and reality
Development
Builds on earlier themes about discernment and not taking people at face value
In Your Life:
You might remember times when someone's friendliness felt off or when you discovered hidden agendas
Justice
In This Chapter
The principle that those who dig pits for others eventually fall into them themselves
Development
Reinforces the cosmic justice theme that consequences eventually catch up
In Your Life:
You might have witnessed how people who consistently harm others eventually face their own downfall
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
Solomon describes three types of difficult people: fools who argue endlessly, lazy people who make excuses, and gossips who spread drama. Which type do you encounter most often in your daily life?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Solomon say sometimes you should argue back with a fool and sometimes you shouldn't? What's the difference between these situations?
analysis • medium - 3
Think about your workplace or family. Who fits Solomon's description of someone who 'removes wood from the fire' - meaning they actually calm things down when drama starts?
application • medium - 4
Solomon warns about people who 'dig pits for others' but end up falling in themselves. How would you handle someone who's actively trying to undermine you without becoming like them?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter teach us about protecting our energy while still being good people? How do you balance helping others with not enabling destructive behavior?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Energy Drains
Draw three columns: Fools (people who argue in circles), Lazy (people who make their problems yours), and Gossips (people who spread drama). List specific people or situations from your life in each column. Then beside each entry, write whether you currently engage, avoid, or set boundaries - and note what results you're getting.
Consider:
- •Look for patterns in how these behaviors affect your mood and productivity
- •Notice which responses actually change the dynamic versus which ones feed it
- •Consider whether you sometimes exhibit these behaviors yourself
Journaling Prompt
Write about one relationship where you've been feeding a destructive pattern. What would happen if you changed your response? What are you afraid might happen if you set a boundary?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 27: Iron Sharpens Iron: True Friendship
After dealing with difficult people, Solomon turns to something we all struggle with - the temptation to brag about our plans and accomplishments. He's about to reveal why humility isn't just nice, it's smart.
