Summary
Solomon gets brutally honest about the people who make life harder than it needs to be. He starts with fools - those who refuse to learn from mistakes or listen to reason. The key insight? Sometimes you argue back to shut them down, sometimes you don't engage at all. It depends on the situation and what you're trying to accomplish. Then he shifts to lazy people, painting vivid pictures we all recognize: the coworker who always has an excuse (there's a lion in the street!), who acts like the simplest tasks are impossible burdens. Solomon's point isn't to mock them, but to help us see the pattern so we don't get sucked into their drama. The chapter's most practical section deals with conflict and gossip. Solomon shows how some people are like human matchsticks - they ignite drama wherever they go. Others spread gossip that cuts deep and spreads poison through relationships. But here's the hope: remove the fuel (stop feeding the gossip, don't engage the drama-seekers) and the fire dies out. The chapter ends with a warning about people who smile to your face while plotting behind your back. Solomon reminds us that what goes around comes around - those who dig pits for others usually fall in themselves. This isn't about being judgmental; it's about protecting your peace and energy by recognizing patterns in human behavior.
Coming Up in Chapter 27
After dealing with difficult people, Solomon turns to something we all struggle with - the temptation to brag about our plans and accomplishments. He's about to reveal why humility isn't just nice, it's smart.
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A20:026:001 s snow in summer, and as rain in harvest, so honour is not seemly for a fool. 20:026:002 As the bird by wandering, as the swallow by flying, so the curse causeless shall not come. 20:026:003 A whip for the horse, a bridle for the ass, and a rod for the fool's back. 20:026:004 Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest thou also be like unto him. 20:026:005 Answer a fool according to his folly, lest he be wise in his own conceit. 20:026:006 He that sendeth a message by the hand of a fool cutteth off the feet, and drinketh damage. 20:026:007 The legs of the lame are not equal: so is a parable in the mouth of fools. 20:026:008 As he that bindeth a stone in a sling, so is he that giveth honour to a fool. 20:026:009 As a thorn goeth up into the hand of a drunkard, so is a parable in the mouths of fools. 20:026:010 The great God that formed all things both rewardeth the fool, and rewardeth transgressors. 20:026:011 As a dog returneth to his vomit, so a fool returneth to his folly. 20:026:012 Seest thou a man wise in his own conceit? there is more hope of a fool than of him. 20:026:013 The slothful man saith, There is a lion in the way; a lion is in the streets. 20:026:014 As the door turneth upon his hinges, so doth the slothful upon his bed. 20:026:015 The slothful hideth his hand in his bosom; it grieveth him to bring it again to his mouth. 20:026:016 The sluggard is wiser in his own conceit than seven men that can render a reason. 20:026:017 He that passeth by, and meddleth with strife belonging not to him, is like one that taketh a dog by the ears. 20:026:018 As a mad man who casteth firebrands, arrows, and death, 20:026:019 So is the man that deceiveth his neighbour, and saith, Am not I in sport? 20:026:020 Where no wood is, there the fire goeth out: so where there is no talebearer, the strife ceaseth. 20:026:021 As coals are to burning coals, and wood to fire; so is a contentious man to kindle strife. 20:026:022 The words of a talebearer are as wounds, and they go down into the innermost parts of the belly. 20:026:023 Burning lips and a wicked heart are like a potsherd covered with silver dross. 20:026:024 He that hateth dissembleth with his lips, and layeth up deceit within him; 20:026:025 When he speaketh fair, believe him not: for there are seven abominations in his heart. 20:026:026 Whose hatred is covered by deceit, his wickedness shall be shewed before the whole congregation. 20:026:027 Whoso diggeth a pit shall fall therein: and he that rolleth a stone, it will return upon him. 20:026:028 A lying tongue hateth those that are afflicted by it; and a flattering mouth worketh ruin.
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Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Energy Vampires - Recognizing and Handling Draining People
People who consistently drain others' energy through predictable behaviors that get them attention, avoid responsibility, or create social power.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to identify people whose behavioral patterns consistently drain others without contributing positive value.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when someone's request or conversation leaves you feeling exhausted rather than energized, then ask yourself what pattern they're repeating.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Terms to Know
Proverb
A short, memorable saying that captures a universal truth about human behavior or life. Solomon uses these bite-sized wisdom nuggets to help people recognize patterns and make better choices.
Modern Usage:
We still use proverbs today like 'Actions speak louder than words' or 'You can't judge a book by its cover' to quickly communicate life lessons.
Fool (in Biblical wisdom)
Not someone who lacks intelligence, but someone who refuses to learn from mistakes or listen to good advice. They keep making the same bad choices over and over.
Modern Usage:
That coworker who never learns from feedback, or the friend who keeps dating the same type of toxic person despite everyone's warnings.
Slothful
Beyond just lazy - someone who makes elaborate excuses to avoid responsibility and effort. They turn simple tasks into impossible obstacles in their mind.
Modern Usage:
The person who always has a dramatic reason why they can't do basic tasks, like the employee who claims every assignment is 'too complicated' or 'not their job.'
Causeless curse
An insult or attack that has no real foundation in truth. Solomon says these empty attacks won't stick or cause real harm to innocent people.
Modern Usage:
When someone tries to trash your reputation with lies or unfair criticism, but people who know you see right through it.
Talebearing
Spreading gossip, secrets, or inflammatory information that damages relationships and stirs up conflict between people.
Modern Usage:
That person who always has 'tea' to spill about what someone said about someone else, creating drama in friend groups or at work.
Contentious person
Someone who thrives on argument and conflict, always looking for a fight or something to complain about. They're human drama magnets.
Modern Usage:
The family member who turns every holiday dinner into an argument, or the coworker who complains about everything and creates tension wherever they go.
Wise in own conceit
Someone who thinks they know everything and can't be taught anything new. They're so convinced of their own wisdom that they become unteachable.
Modern Usage:
The person who always has to be right, never admits mistakes, and dismisses anyone else's ideas or advice as inferior to their own.
Characters in This Chapter
The Fool
Cautionary example
Represents people who refuse to learn from experience and keep making the same mistakes. Solomon shows different ways to handle them depending on the situation.
Modern Equivalent:
The coworker who never learns from feedback
The Slothful Man
Cautionary example
Makes elaborate excuses to avoid work, claiming there are impossible dangers everywhere. Represents people who turn simple tasks into dramatic obstacles.
Modern Equivalent:
The person who always has an excuse for why they can't do their job
The Talebearer
Conflict instigator
Spreads gossip and secrets that damage relationships and create unnecessary drama between people.
Modern Equivalent:
The office gossip who stirs up drama
The Contentious Person
Troublemaker
Like kindling for fire - wherever they go, conflict follows. They thrive on argument and discord.
Modern Equivalent:
The family member who turns every gathering into an argument
The Conceited Person
Self-deceived antagonist
So convinced of their own wisdom that they become unteachable. Solomon says they're actually worse than obvious fools.
Modern Equivalent:
The know-it-all who can never admit they're wrong
Key Quotes & Analysis
"Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest thou also be like unto him. Answer a fool according to his folly, lest he be wise in his own conceit."
Context: Teaching when to engage with difficult people and when to walk away
This seeming contradiction is actually brilliant advice about reading the room. Sometimes arguing back just makes you look foolish too. Other times, you need to shut down their nonsense so they don't think they won.
In Today's Words:
Sometimes don't argue with idiots - they'll drag you down to their level. But sometimes you have to call them out or they'll think they're right.
"Where no wood is, there the fire goeth out: so where there is no talebearer, the strife ceaseth."
Context: Explaining how gossip fuels conflict in relationships and communities
One of the most practical pieces of advice about handling drama. Cut off the fuel source and the fire dies. Stop feeding the gossip mill and the drama stops.
In Today's Words:
Drama dies when you stop feeding it. No gossip, no conflict.
"As a dog returneth to his vomit, so a fool returneth to his folly."
Context: Describing how some people keep making the same mistakes over and over
A disgusting but memorable image that captures how some people are drawn back to destructive behaviors even when they know better. It's about recognizing this pattern in others.
In Today's Words:
Some people keep going back to the same bad choices that hurt them, like a dog eating its own throw-up.
"The slothful man saith, There is a lion in the way; a lion is in the streets."
Context: Mocking the elaborate excuses lazy people make to avoid work
This is ancient sarcasm at its finest. Solomon is calling out people who make ridiculous excuses to avoid doing what they should do. It's so extreme it's almost funny.
In Today's Words:
Lazy people always have dramatic excuses for why they can't do simple tasks.
Thematic Threads
Boundaries
In This Chapter
Solomon shows how to engage or disengage strategically with difficult people rather than being reactive
Development
Builds on earlier wisdom about choosing your battles and protecting your peace
In Your Life:
You might recognize times when you've been drained by people who always seem to need something from you
Social Dynamics
In This Chapter
Detailed analysis of how gossip spreads and how some people ignite conflict wherever they go
Development
Expands from individual character to group dynamics and social poison
In Your Life:
You might notice how certain people always seem to be at the center of workplace or family drama
Personal Responsibility
In This Chapter
Contrasts those who make excuses for everything with the need to take ownership of your responses
Development
Deepens the theme of self-accountability while recognizing others' patterns
In Your Life:
You might catch yourself making excuses or recognize when others consistently avoid responsibility
Deception
In This Chapter
Warning about people who smile to your face while plotting harm, emphasizing the gap between appearance and reality
Development
Builds on earlier themes about discernment and not taking people at face value
In Your Life:
You might remember times when someone's friendliness felt off or when you discovered hidden agendas
Justice
In This Chapter
The principle that those who dig pits for others eventually fall into them themselves
Development
Reinforces the cosmic justice theme that consequences eventually catch up
In Your Life:
You might have witnessed how people who consistently harm others eventually face their own downfall
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
Solomon describes three types of difficult people: fools who argue endlessly, lazy people who make excuses, and gossips who spread drama. Which type do you encounter most often in your daily life?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Solomon say sometimes you should argue back with a fool and sometimes you shouldn't? What's the difference between these situations?
analysis • medium - 3
Think about your workplace or family. Who fits Solomon's description of someone who 'removes wood from the fire' - meaning they actually calm things down when drama starts?
application • medium - 4
Solomon warns about people who 'dig pits for others' but end up falling in themselves. How would you handle someone who's actively trying to undermine you without becoming like them?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter teach us about protecting our energy while still being good people? How do you balance helping others with not enabling destructive behavior?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Energy Drains
Draw three columns: Fools (people who argue in circles), Lazy (people who make their problems yours), and Gossips (people who spread drama). List specific people or situations from your life in each column. Then beside each entry, write whether you currently engage, avoid, or set boundaries - and note what results you're getting.
Consider:
- •Look for patterns in how these behaviors affect your mood and productivity
- •Notice which responses actually change the dynamic versus which ones feed it
- •Consider whether you sometimes exhibit these behaviors yourself
Journaling Prompt
Write about one relationship where you've been feeding a destructive pattern. What would happen if you changed your response? What are you afraid might happen if you set a boundary?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 27: Iron Sharpens Iron: True Friendship
The coming pages reveal to recognize genuine friendship from flattery and manipulation, and teach us planning ahead matters more than hoping for the best. These discoveries help us navigate similar situations in our own lives.