Summary
Lydgate visits Rev. Farebrother at his old parsonage, expecting to find a scholarly bachelor but instead discovering a man living with three devoted women who manage his domestic life. The household reveals class tensions—Mrs. Farebrother represents old-fashioned certainty while tiny Miss Noble secretly saves food scraps for poor children. Farebrother himself emerges as refreshingly honest about his compromises: he smokes despite religious disapproval, pursues natural history instead of pure theology, and admits he's 'not a model clergyman—only a decent makeshift.' Their conversation reveals the political undercurrents of Middlemarch—Farebrother and Bulstrode represent opposing factions in church politics. Farebrother warns Lydgate that supporting Bulstrode's hospital plans will make enemies, but he won't take it personally. The chapter explores how decent people survive in flawed systems. Farebrother has found ways to feed his intellectual curiosity and maintain his integrity while accepting that he can't be perfect. His openness about his limitations—from his gambling to his lack of pure religious calling—creates genuine connection with Lydgate. The visit also plants seeds about Mary Garth, whom Farebrother mentions has 'taken notice' of Lydgate. This chapter shows how real relationships form through honesty rather than pretense, and how understanding the social landscape helps navigate it without compromising core values.
Coming Up in Chapter 18
Lydgate's medical practice begins to intersect with Middlemarch society in ways that will test his idealistic plans to stay above local politics and focus purely on his scientific work.
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T“he clerkly person smiled and said Promise was a pretty maid, But being poor she died unwed.” The Rev. Camden Farebrother, whom Lydgate went to see the next evening, lived in an old parsonage, built of stone, venerable enough to match the church which it looked out upon. All the furniture too in the house was old, but with another grade of age—that of Mr. Farebrother’s father and grandfather. There were painted white chairs, with gilding and wreaths on them, and some lingering red silk damask with slits in it. There were engraved portraits of Lord Chancellors and other celebrated lawyers of the last century; and there were old pier-glasses to reflect them, as well as the little satin-wood tables and the sofas resembling a prolongation of uneasy chairs, all standing in relief against the dark wainscot. This was the physiognomy of the drawing-room into which Lydgate was shown; and there were three ladies to receive him, who were also old-fashioned, and of a faded but genuine respectability: Mrs. Farebrother, the Vicar’s white-haired mother, befrilled and kerchiefed with dainty cleanliness, upright, quick-eyed, and still under seventy; Miss Noble, her sister, a tiny old lady of meeker aspect, with frills and kerchief decidedly more worn and mended; and Miss Winifred Farebrother, the Vicar’s elder sister, well-looking like himself, but nipped and subdued as single women are apt to be who spend their lives in uninterrupted subjection to their elders. Lydgate had not expected to see so quaint a group: knowing simply that Mr. Farebrother was a bachelor, he had thought of being ushered into a snuggery where the chief furniture would probably be books and collections of natural objects. The Vicar himself seemed to wear rather a changed aspect, as most men do when acquaintances made elsewhere see them for the first time in their own homes; some indeed showing like an actor of genial parts disadvantageously cast for the curmudgeon in a new piece. This was not the case with Mr. Farebrother: he seemed a trifle milder and more silent, the chief talker being his mother, while he only put in a good-humored moderating remark here and there. The old lady was evidently accustomed to tell her company what they ought to think, and to regard no subject as quite safe without her steering. She was afforded leisure for this function by having all her little wants attended to by Miss Winifred. Meanwhile tiny Miss Noble carried on her arm a small basket, into which she diverted a bit of sugar, which she had first dropped in her saucer as if by mistake; looking round furtively afterwards, and reverting to her teacup with a small innocent noise as of a tiny timid quadruped. Pray think no ill of Miss Noble. That basket held small savings from her more portable food, destined for the children of her poor friends among whom she trotted on fine mornings; fostering and petting all needy creatures being so spontaneous a delight to her, that she...
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Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Strategic Honesty
Revealing calculated imperfections to build authentic connection while maintaining effectiveness and respect.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to distinguish between destructive oversharing and calculated vulnerability that builds trust.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when someone admits a professional limitation to you—are they building connection or dumping problems?
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Terms to Know
Parsonage
The official residence provided to a church minister or vicar. These homes were often old, modest, and came with the job rather than being owned by the family. The condition and style of a parsonage reflected the church's status and resources.
Modern Usage:
Like company housing or a work-provided apartment - you get to live there as long as you have the job, but it's not really yours.
Physiognomy
Originally the study of facial features to determine character, but here Eliot uses it to mean the overall 'face' or character of a room. The way furniture and decorations are arranged reveals the personality and values of the people who live there.
Modern Usage:
We still judge people by their living spaces - whether someone's house is cluttered or minimalist, expensive or thrifty tells us about their personality.
Subjection
Being under someone else's control or authority. In this era, unmarried women often lived their entire lives under the authority of male relatives or elderly parents, never having independence or decision-making power.
Modern Usage:
Like being stuck in a job where you never get promoted or living with controlling family members who make all the decisions for you.
Makeshift
A temporary solution or substitute that works well enough but isn't ideal. Farebrother calls himself a 'decent makeshift' as a clergyman - he's doing the job adequately but knows he's not perfectly suited for it.
Modern Usage:
When you take a job you're not passionate about but need the paycheck, or when someone fills a role they're not really trained for.
Church politics
The power struggles and competing factions within religious institutions. Different groups push for different approaches to worship, social issues, and how the church should operate, often creating conflicts behind the scenes.
Modern Usage:
Like office politics or school board drama - people with different agendas competing for influence and control within an organization.
Faded respectability
Having good social standing and proper manners but limited money. These families maintain appearances and dignity despite financial constraints, often through careful management and old-fashioned values.
Modern Usage:
Like families who still dress nicely and have good manners but shop at thrift stores and clip coupons to make ends meet.
Characters in This Chapter
Rev. Camden Farebrother
Mentor figure
The local vicar who surprises Lydgate with his honesty about his own flaws and compromises. He admits he's not a perfect clergyman and warns Lydgate about the political consequences of supporting Bulstrode's hospital plans.
Modern Equivalent:
The experienced coworker who tells you the real deal about office politics and admits their own career isn't perfect
Mrs. Farebrother
Family matriarch
The vicar's elderly mother who represents old-fashioned certainty and proper behavior. She manages the household and maintains standards despite their modest means.
Modern Equivalent:
The grandmother who still runs the family and has strong opinions about how things should be done
Miss Noble
Compassionate caregiver
Mrs. Farebrother's sister, a tiny elderly woman who secretly saves food scraps to give to poor children. Her quiet charity reveals genuine Christian kindness without fanfare.
Modern Equivalent:
The sweet elderly neighbor who always has cookies for kids and quietly helps struggling families
Miss Winifred Farebrother
Dutiful daughter
The vicar's unmarried sister who has spent her life caring for family elders. Her subdued manner shows how unmarried women of the era often sacrificed their own desires for family duty.
Modern Equivalent:
The adult child who never moved out because they're taking care of aging parents
Lydgate
Protagonist
The young doctor visiting to better understand the social landscape of Middlemarch. He's learning about the political factions and personal relationships that will affect his medical practice.
Modern Equivalent:
The new employee trying to figure out workplace dynamics and who the real power players are
Key Quotes & Analysis
"I am not a model clergyman—only a decent makeshift"
Context: Farebrother is being honest with Lydgate about his limitations as a religious leader
This quote shows Farebrother's refreshing honesty about his own shortcomings. Rather than pretending to be perfect, he admits he's doing an adequate job in a role he's not ideally suited for, which creates genuine connection.
In Today's Words:
I'm not the best at my job, but I do okay and I'm honest about it
"The fact is, I don't like my position, and never did like it"
Context: Farebrother explains why he's not an ideal clergyman
This admission reveals how many people end up in careers that don't suit their true interests or talents. Farebrother's honesty about his situation makes him more trustworthy than someone who pretends to love a job they're stuck in.
In Today's Words:
I never really wanted this job and I still don't love it
"You will find yourself in rather hot water if you are seen to be intimate with Bulstrode"
Context: Warning Lydgate about the political consequences of supporting Bulstrode's hospital plans
This shows how even well-intentioned professional decisions can have social and political consequences. Farebrother is giving Lydgate the insider knowledge he needs to navigate Middlemarch successfully.
In Today's Words:
People are going to have a problem with you if they see you as being too close to that guy
Thematic Threads
Authenticity
In This Chapter
Farebrother admits his flaws openly rather than maintaining clerical pretense
Development
Contrasts with earlier characters who hide behind social roles
In Your Life:
You might recognize this when deciding how much of your real self to show at work or in new relationships.
Class
In This Chapter
The household dynamics reveal different class attitudes—Mrs. Farebrother's old-fashioned certainty vs Miss Noble's quiet charity
Development
Continues exploring how class shapes daily behavior and expectations
In Your Life:
You see this in how different generations in your family handle money, work, or social obligations.
Political Navigation
In This Chapter
Farebrother warns Lydgate about the social consequences of aligning with Bulstrode
Development
Introduces the political undercurrents that will drive later conflicts
In Your Life:
You face this when choosing sides in workplace politics or community disputes.
Compromise
In This Chapter
Farebrother accepts he's 'not a model clergyman—only a decent makeshift'
Development
Shows mature acceptance of imperfection while maintaining effectiveness
In Your Life:
You experience this when realizing you can't be the perfect parent, employee, or partner but can still do good work.
Hidden Kindness
In This Chapter
Miss Noble secretly saves food scraps for poor children
Development
Introduced here as quiet generosity without recognition
In Your Life:
You might notice this in people who help others without seeking credit or acknowledgment.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
Why does Farebrother admit his flaws to Lydgate instead of trying to impress him?
analysis • surface - 2
What makes Farebrother's honesty about his limitations effective rather than damaging to his reputation?
analysis • medium - 3
Where have you seen people build stronger relationships by admitting their imperfections rather than pretending to be perfect?
application • medium - 4
How would you decide what personal flaws are appropriate to share when trying to build trust with someone new?
application • deep - 5
What does Farebrother's approach teach us about the difference between vulnerability and oversharing?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Practice Strategic Honesty
Think of a relationship where you feel like you have to maintain a perfect image. Write down three minor flaws or struggles you could appropriately share that might actually strengthen the connection. For each one, explain how you manage that flaw rather than just complaining about it.
Consider:
- •Choose flaws that show you're human without undermining your competence
- •Focus on how you handle challenges, not just the challenges themselves
- •Consider what the other person might relate to or appreciate hearing
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when someone's honest admission of their struggles made you trust them more. What made their honesty feel genuine rather than like they were seeking pity?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 18: The Weight of Small Compromises
What lies ahead teaches us personal relationships complicate professional decisions, and shows us financial pressure can force good people into questionable choices. These patterns appear in literature and life alike.