Summary
This chapter delivers one of the Tao's most counterintuitive insights: sometimes our attempts to fix things make them worse. Lao Tzu argues that if leaders stopped showing off their wisdom, people would be better off. If they stopped making grand gestures of kindness and righteousness, families would naturally become more caring. If they stopped scheming for advantage, crime would disappear. This isn't anti-wisdom - it's about recognizing the difference between genuine wisdom and performative cleverness. Think about the manager who micromanages every detail, creating chaos while trying to impose order. Or the parent whose constant lectures about honesty make their kids better liars. The chapter speaks to anyone who's watched their good intentions backfire spectacularly. Lao Tzu suggests that our desire to appear wise, good, or clever often creates the very problems we're trying to solve. When we stop trying so hard to control outcomes, natural order emerges. This connects to the Taoist principle that the best leaders are barely noticed - they create conditions where people flourish without heavy-handed intervention. For modern readers, this chapter offers permission to step back from the exhausting cycle of trying to fix everything and everyone. Sometimes the most helpful thing you can do is get out of the way and let natural solutions emerge.
Coming Up in Chapter 20
Having explored the power of letting go, the next chapter shifts to examine what happens when we stop overthinking every decision and learn to trust our natural instincts.
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I19. 1. f we could renounce our sageness and discard our wisdom, it would be better for the people a hundredfold. If we could renounce our benevolence and discard our righteousness, the people would again become filial and kindly. If we could renounce our artful contrivances and discard our (scheming for) gain, there would be no thieves nor robbers.
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Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Helpful Harm
When our efforts to appear wise, good, or helpful create the very problems we're trying to solve.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize when someone's display of power or wisdom is actually creating the problems they claim to solve.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when authority figures make a show of being helpful - does their performance of caring actually address your needs, or just make them look good?
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Terms to Know
Wu Wei
The Taoist principle of 'non-action' or effortless action - not doing nothing, but avoiding forced, artificial interference. It's about working with natural flow rather than against it.
Modern Usage:
When a good manager steps back and lets their team solve problems instead of micromanaging every detail.
Sageness
In Lao Tzu's context, this refers to the performative display of wisdom - showing off how smart you are rather than being genuinely wise. It's wisdom as a performance rather than as genuine understanding.
Modern Usage:
The coworker who always has to be the smartest person in the room and makes everyone else feel stupid.
Filial Piety
The natural respect and care children show toward parents and elders. Lao Tzu suggests this emerges naturally when not forced through artificial rules and lectures.
Modern Usage:
Kids who help out at home because they want to, not because they're constantly being told to respect their parents.
Artful Contrivances
Clever schemes, manipulative strategies, or overly complex solutions designed to gain advantage. Lao Tzu sees these as creating more problems than they solve.
Modern Usage:
Corporate buzzword strategies that sound impressive but make simple tasks unnecessarily complicated.
Natural Order
The Taoist belief that when artificial interference is removed, things tend to organize themselves in harmonious, efficient ways. Problems often solve themselves when we stop forcing solutions.
Modern Usage:
How a good workplace culture develops organically when management trusts employees instead of creating endless rules.
Paradoxical Thinking
The Taoist approach of finding truth in seemingly contradictory statements. What appears to be the opposite of common sense often reveals deeper wisdom.
Modern Usage:
Realizing that sometimes the best way to help someone is to stop trying to fix their problems for them.
Characters in This Chapter
The Sage-Ruler
The wise leader who demonstrates restraint
Represents the ideal leader who understands that true wisdom often means stepping back rather than showing off knowledge. This figure embodies the paradox of leading by not forcing leadership.
Modern Equivalent:
The boss who gets great results by trusting their team instead of micromanaging
The People
The community that benefits from natural leadership
They represent how ordinary people respond when given space to develop naturally rather than being controlled by artificial rules and performative wisdom.
Modern Equivalent:
Employees who thrive when given autonomy instead of being micromanaged
Key Quotes & Analysis
"If we could renounce our sageness and discard our wisdom, it would be better for the people a hundredfold."
Context: Opening statement about the counterintuitive nature of true leadership
This challenges our assumption that displaying intelligence helps others. Lao Tzu suggests that showing off wisdom often intimidates or creates dependency rather than empowering people to think for themselves.
In Today's Words:
If leaders stopped trying to prove how smart they are, everyone would be way better off.
"If we could renounce our benevolence and discard our righteousness, the people would again become filial and kindly."
Context: Explaining how forced morality backfires
Suggests that constantly preaching about being good actually makes people less naturally caring. When morality becomes performative, it loses its authentic power to inspire genuine kindness.
In Today's Words:
If people stopped lecturing everyone about being good, families would actually become more loving on their own.
"If we could renounce our artful contrivances and discard our scheming for gain, there would be no thieves nor robbers."
Context: Connecting artificial complexity to social problems
Implies that our clever schemes to get ahead often create the very problems we're trying to avoid. Complex systems designed for advantage tend to breed corruption and dishonesty.
In Today's Words:
If we stopped trying to game the system for personal advantage, there'd be way less cheating and stealing.
Thematic Threads
Performative Leadership
In This Chapter
Leaders who show off wisdom and righteousness create more problems than they solve
Development
Introduced here
In Your Life:
You might catch yourself giving advice to look smart rather than actually helping someone.
Natural Order
In This Chapter
When artificial controls are removed, people naturally become more honest and caring
Development
Builds on earlier themes of wu wei and natural flow
In Your Life:
You might notice that stepping back from controlling a situation allows better solutions to emerge.
Counterintuitive Wisdom
In This Chapter
Abandoning the performance of virtue leads to actual virtue
Development
Continues the theme that opposite approaches often work better
In Your Life:
You might find that trying less hard to appear good makes you actually more helpful to others.
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
The pressure to appear wise and righteous corrupts genuine leadership
Development
Introduced here
In Your Life:
You might recognize when you're performing your role instead of authentically fulfilling it.
Simplicity
In This Chapter
Simple, unadorned approaches work better than complex, showy ones
Development
Reinforces earlier emphasis on returning to basics
In Your Life:
You might notice that your simplest responses to problems are often your most effective ones.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What does Lao Tzu claim would happen if leaders stopped showing off their wisdom and righteousness?
analysis • surface - 2
Why might performing goodness or wisdom actually create the problems we're trying to solve?
analysis • medium - 3
Where have you seen someone's good intentions backfire because they were trying too hard to help or control a situation?
application • medium - 4
How can you tell the difference between genuinely helping and just managing your own anxiety about a problem?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter suggest about the relationship between control and natural order in human relationships?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Spot the Performance vs. Reality
Think of a situation where someone in your life (boss, parent, friend, politician) talks a lot about being helpful, wise, or good. Write down what they say they value versus what their actions actually accomplish. Then consider: what would happen if they stopped performing this virtue and just focused on practical results?
Consider:
- •Look for the gap between stated intentions and actual outcomes
- •Notice whether their 'help' makes people more or less capable
- •Consider how their need to appear virtuous might be driving their behavior
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when your own good intentions backfired. What were you really trying to accomplish - solving the problem or managing how you felt about the problem? How might you approach it differently now?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 20: The Weight of Being Different
In the next chapter, you'll discover going against the crowd can feel isolating and difficult, and learn to find peace when your values don't match society's expectations. These insights reveal timeless patterns that resonate in our own lives and relationships.