Summary
Margaret settles into London life while wrestling with unfinished business. Her former maid Dixon returns with gossip from Milton, including news that Mr. Thornton overpaid at Margaret's family's estate sale—a detail that hints at his continued feelings. Margaret desperately wants Mr. Bell to visit Milton and explain her circumstances to Thornton, but Bell seems reluctant and his letters grow short and bitter. Meanwhile, she finds hints that Bell might take her to Spain to visit her brother Frederick, offering a potential escape from her current limbo. Margaret discovers joy in caring for Edith's willful young son, finding in these moments a taste of the maternal feelings she fears she'll never fully experience. Henry Lennox becomes a regular presence in the household, bringing intellectual stimulation but also a subtle contempt for his brother's purposeless lifestyle. Though Margaret and Henry maintain polite distance after his rejected proposal, she notices he still seeks her approval and listens to her opinions with reluctant deference. The chapter captures the frustration of waiting for others to act on your behalf, the way unresolved situations can dominate our thoughts, and how we find meaning in small connections while navigating larger uncertainties. Margaret's situation reflects a common experience: being caught between wanting closure and being unable to directly pursue it.
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Margaret's patience with waiting may finally be tested as circumstances force long-delayed conversations and decisions that could change everything.
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LVII. SOMETHING WANTING. “Experience, like a pale musician, holds A dulcimer of patience in his hand; Whence harmonies we cannot understand, Of God’s will in His worlds, the strain unfolds In sad, perplexed minors.” MRS. BROWNING. About this time Dixon returned from Milton, and assumed her post as Margaret’s maid. She brought endless pieces of Milton gossip: How Martha had gone to live with Miss Thornton, on the latter’s marriage; with an account of the bridesmaids, dresses and breakfasts, at that interesting ceremony; how people thought that Mr. Thornton had made too grand a wedding of it, considering he had lost a deal by the strike, and had had to pay so much for the failure of his contracts; how little money articles of furniture—long cherished by Dixon—had fetched at the sale, which was a shame considering how rich folks were at Milton; how Mrs. Thornton had come one day and got two or three good bargains, and Mr. Thornton had come the next, and in his desire to obtain one or two things, had bid against himself, much to the enjoyment of the bystanders, so as Dixon observed, that made things even; if Mrs. Thornton paid too little, Mr. Thornton paid too much. Mr. Bell had sent all sorts of orders about the books; there was no understanding him, he was so particular; if he had come himself it would have been all right, but letters always were and always will be more puzzling than they are worth. Dixon had not much to tell about the Higginses. Her memory had an aristocratic bias, and was very treacherous whenever she tried to recall any circumstance connected with those below her in life. Nicholas was very well she believed. He had been several times at the house asking for news of Miss Margaret—the only person who ever did ask, except once Mr. Thornton. And Mary? oh! of course she was very well, a great, stout, slatternly thing! She did hear, or perhaps it was only a dream of hers, though it would be strange if she had dreamt of such people as the Higginses, that Mary had gone to work at Mr. Thornton’s mill, because her father wished her to know how to cook; but what nonsense that could mean she didn’t know. Margaret rather agreed with her that the story was incoherent enough to be like a dream. Still it was pleasant to have some one now with whom she could talk of Milton, and Milton people. Dixon was not over-fond of the subject, rather wishing to leave that part of her life in shadow. She liked much more to dwell upon speeches of Mr. Bell’s, which had suggested an idea to her of what was really his intention—making Margaret his heiress. But her young lady gave her no encouragement, nor in any way gratified her insinuating enquiries, however disguised in the form of suspicions or assertions. All this time Margaret had a strange undefined longing to hear that Mr....
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Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Waiting for Others to Act
Surrendering control over important outcomes by waiting for others to act on your behalf.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to identify when we're surrendering control by waiting for others to solve our problems.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when you're waiting for someone else to act on something important to you—then ask yourself what you could do directly instead.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Terms to Know
Estate sale
When someone dies or moves, their belongings are sold off to settle debts or liquidate assets. In Victorian times, this was often public and could be quite dramatic, with neighbors attending to see what wealthy families owned and bid on coveted items.
Modern Usage:
Today we see this at estate sales, garage sales, or online auctions when families need to clear out a deceased relative's home.
Bidding against oneself
When someone at an auction keeps raising their own bid, usually because they desperately want an item and aren't paying attention to the competition. It's financially foolish but emotionally revealing.
Modern Usage:
Like when you keep increasing your offer on a house or car because you want it so badly you lose track of what's reasonable.
Maid's position
A personal servant who helped wealthy women dress, arranged their hair, and managed their private affairs. It was a position of trust and intimacy, often lasting for decades.
Modern Usage:
Similar to a personal assistant today - someone who knows all your business and helps manage your private life.
Marriage settlements
Financial arrangements made when wealthy people married, determining who would pay for what and how money would be handled. These were business negotiations as much as romantic unions.
Modern Usage:
Like prenups today - legal agreements about money and property before marriage.
Letters of business
Formal correspondence used to conduct affairs when you couldn't be somewhere in person. These were often frustratingly unclear and led to misunderstandings.
Modern Usage:
Like trying to handle important matters through email or text instead of face-to-face - things get lost in translation.
Strike aftermath
The economic damage that follows labor disputes, where both workers and factory owners suffer financial losses. Contracts fail, debts pile up, and everyone struggles to recover.
Modern Usage:
Like the economic fallout after any major business disruption - layoffs, company closures, or supply chain problems.
Characters in This Chapter
Margaret Hale
protagonist
Margaret is stuck in London, desperately wanting Mr. Bell to explain her situation to Thornton but unable to ask directly. She finds small joys caring for Edith's child while wrestling with larger uncertainties about her future.
Modern Equivalent:
The woman waiting for someone else to fix a misunderstanding with her ex
Dixon
loyal servant
Margaret's former maid returns with gossip from Milton, including the telling detail that Thornton overpaid at the estate sale. Her chatter provides Margaret with painful reminders of her old life.
Modern Equivalent:
The friend who brings you updates about your ex's life whether you want them or not
Mr. Thornton
absent love interest
Though not physically present, his actions at the estate sale reveal his continued feelings for Margaret. His overpaying for items shows he was seeking connection to her memory.
Modern Equivalent:
The ex who buys something that reminds him of you at an unreasonable price
Mr. Bell
reluctant intermediary
Margaret's guardian whose letters have become short and bitter. She desperately wants him to visit Milton and explain her circumstances to Thornton, but he seems unwilling to get involved.
Modern Equivalent:
The mutual friend who doesn't want to get caught in the middle of your relationship drama
Henry Lennox
persistent suitor
Continues to visit the household regularly, bringing intellectual conversation but maintaining polite distance after Margaret rejected his proposal. He still seeks her approval despite their awkward history.
Modern Equivalent:
The guy who keeps hanging around hoping you'll change your mind about dating him
Key Quotes & Analysis
"Mr. Thornton had come the next, and in his desire to obtain one or two things, had bid against himself, much to the enjoyment of the bystanders"
Context: Dixon is gossiping about what happened at the Hale family estate sale
This reveals Thornton's emotional state - he was so desperate to own something connected to Margaret that he lost all business sense. The fact that bystanders were entertained shows how obvious his feelings were to everyone.
In Today's Words:
He wanted her stuff so badly he kept outbidding himself like an idiot, and everyone was laughing at him
"Letters always were and always will be more puzzling than they are worth"
Context: Complaining about Mr. Bell's confusing written instructions about the books
This captures the frustration of trying to handle important matters through indirect communication. It reflects Margaret's own situation - everything important is happening through intermediaries and letters.
In Today's Words:
Trying to handle serious business through messages never works out right
"Experience, like a pale musician, holds A dulcimer of patience in his hand"
Context: The chapter's opening poem about learning through difficult experiences
This sets the tone for Margaret's current state - she's learning patience through painful waiting. The 'pale musician' suggests someone worn down by life but still creating something meaningful from suffering.
In Today's Words:
Life teaches you patience the hard way, and sometimes you have to wait for things to make sense
Thematic Threads
Agency
In This Chapter
Margaret relies on Bell to communicate with Thornton rather than acting directly
Development
Evolved from earlier passive acceptance to active frustration with her powerlessness
In Your Life:
You might find yourself waiting for others to solve problems you could address yourself
Class
In This Chapter
Social expectations prevent Margaret from directly contacting Thornton
Development
Continues the theme of class rules constraining authentic communication
In Your Life:
You might follow unwritten social rules that prevent you from getting what you need
Unresolved feelings
In This Chapter
Margaret's preoccupation with Thornton dominates her thoughts despite physical distance
Development
Intensified from earlier chapters where she could dismiss her feelings
In Your Life:
You might find that unfinished emotional business consumes mental energy even when you try to move on
Finding meaning in small moments
In This Chapter
Margaret discovers joy and purpose in caring for Edith's willful young son
Development
Introduced here as a coping mechanism for larger life uncertainties
In Your Life:
You might find that small acts of care provide meaning when bigger life questions remain unresolved
Intellectual connection
In This Chapter
Henry Lennox brings stimulation but also subtle judgment to the household
Development
Continues the theme of how intellectual compatibility doesn't guarantee emotional fulfillment
In Your Life:
You might appreciate someone's mind while recognizing they're not right for your heart
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What specific actions is Margaret waiting for Mr. Bell to take, and why doesn't she handle these matters herself?
analysis • surface - 2
How does Margaret's inability to act directly create a cycle that actually makes her situation worse?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see this pattern of 'waiting for someone else to fix it' in modern workplaces, relationships, or family situations?
application • medium - 4
If you were Margaret's friend, what specific steps would you suggest she take to regain control of her situation?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter reveal about the hidden costs of avoiding direct communication when something important is at stake?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Waiting Game
Think of something important you're currently waiting for someone else to handle—a conversation, decision, or action. Write down what you're waiting for, who you're waiting on, and how long you've been waiting. Then list three direct actions you could take to move this situation forward yourself, even if they feel uncomfortable or risky.
Consider:
- •What's the worst realistic outcome if you act directly versus continuing to wait?
- •How much mental energy are you spending on this unresolved situation each week?
- •What would you tell a friend in your exact situation to do?
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when waiting for someone else to act cost you an opportunity or prolonged your stress. What would you do differently now, knowing what you learned from that experience?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 48: The Death of a Father Figure
What lies ahead teaches us superficial social interactions can leave us feeling empty despite appearing successful, and shows us acting decisively when someone you care about needs you. These patterns appear in literature and life alike.