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ORNING CALLS.
“Well—I suppose we must.”
FRIENDS IN COUNCIL.
Mr. Thornton had had some difficulty in working up his mother to the
desired point of civility. She did not often make calls; and when she
did, it was in heavy state that she went through her duties. Her son had
given her a carriage; but she refused to let him keep horses for it;
they were hired for the solemn occasions, when she paid morning or
evening visits. She had had horses for three days, not a fortnight
before, and had comfortably “killed off” all her acquaintances, who
might now put themselves to trouble and expense in their turn. Yet
Crampton was too far off for her to walk; and she had repeatedly
questioned her son as to whether his wish that she should call on the
Hales was strong enough to bear the expense of cab-hire. She would have
been thankful if it had not; for, as she said, “she saw no use in making
up friendships and intimacies with all the teachers and masters in
Milton; why, he would be wanting her to call on Fanny’s dancing-master’s
wife, the next thing!”
“And so I would, mother, if Mr. Mason and his wife were friendless in a
strange place, like the Hales.”
“Oh! you need not speak so hastily. I am going to-morrow. I only wanted
you exactly to understand about it.”
“If you are going to-morrow, I shall order horses.”
“Nonsense, John. One would think you were made of money.”
“Not quite, yet. But about the horses I’m determined. The last time you
were out in a cab, you came home with a headache from the jolting.”
“I never complained of it, I’m sure.”
“No! my mother is not given to complaints,” said he, a little proudly.
“But so much the more I have to watch over you. Now, as for Fanny there,
a little hardship would do her good.”
“She is not made of the same stuff as you are, John. She could not bear
it.”
Mrs. Thornton was silent after this; for her last words bore relation to
a subject which mortified her. She had an unconscious contempt for a
weak character; and Fanny was weak in the very points in which her
mother and brother were strong. Mrs. Thornton was not a woman much
given to reasoning; her quick judgment and firm resolution served her in
good stead of any long arguments and discussions with herself; she felt
instinctively that nothing could strengthen Fanny to endure hardships
patiently, or face difficulties bravely; and though she winced as she
made this acknowledgment to herself about her daughter, it only gave her
a kind of pitying tenderness of manner towards her; much of the same
description of demeanour with which mothers are wont to treat their weak
and sickly children. A stranger, a careless observer might have
considered that Mrs. Thornton’s manner to her children betokened far
more love to Fanny than to John. But such a one would have been deeply
mistaken. The very daringness with which mother and son spoke out
unpalatable truths, the one to the other, showed a reliance on the firm
centre of each other’s souls, which the uneasy tenderness of Mrs.
Thornton’s manner to her daughter, the shame with which she thought to
hide the poverty of her child in all the grand qualities which she
herself possessed unconsciously, and which she set so high a value upon
in others—this shame, I say, betrayed the want of a secure
resting-place for her affection. She never called her son by any name
but John; “love,” and “dear,” and such like terms, were reserved for
Fanny. But her heart gave thanks for him day and night; and she walked
proudly among women for his sake.
“Fanny dear! I shall have horses to the carriage to-day, to go and call
on these Hales. Should not you go and see nurse? It’s in the same
direction, and she’s always so glad to see you. You could go on there
while I am at Mrs. Hale’s.”
“Oh! mamma, it’s such a long way, and I am so tired.”
“With what?” asked Mrs. Thornton, her brow slightly contracting.
“I don’t know—the weather, I think. It is so relaxing. Couldn’t you
bring nurse here, mamma? The carriage could fetch her, and she could
spend the rest of the day here, which I know she would like.”
Mrs. Thornton did not speak; but she laid her work on the table, and
seemed to think.
“It will be a long way for her to walk back at night!” she remarked, at
last.
“Oh, but I will send her home in a cab. I never thought of her walking.”
At this point, Mr. Thornton came in, just before going to the mill.
“Mother! I need hardly say, that if there is any little thing that could
serve Mrs. Hale as an invalid, you will offer it, I’m sure.”
“If I can find it out, I will. But I have never been ill myself, so I am
not much up to invalids’ fancies.”
“Well! here is Fanny then, who is seldom without an ailment. She will be
able to suggest something, perhaps—won’t you, Fan?”
“I have not always an ailment,” said Fanny, pettishly; “and I am not
going with mamma. I have a headache to-day, and I shan’t go out.”
Mr. Thornton looked annoyed. His mother’s eyes were bent on her work, at
which she was now stitching away busily.
“Fanny! I wish you to go,” said he, authoritatively. “It will do you
good, instead of harm. You will oblige me by going, without my saying
anything more about it.”
He went abruptly out of the room after saying this.
If he had stayed a minute longer, Fanny would have cried at his tone of
command, even when he used the words, “You will oblige me.” As it was,
she grumbled.
“John always speaks as if I fancied I was ill, and I am sure I never do
fancy any such thing. Who are these Hales that he makes such a fuss
about?”
“Fanny, don’t speak so of your brother. He has good reasons of some kind
or other, or he would not wish us to go. Make haste and put your things
on.”
But the little altercation between her son and her daughter did not
incline Mrs. Thornton more favourably towards “these Hales.” Her jealous
heart repeated her daughter’s question, “Who are they, that he is so
anxious we should pay them all this attention?” It came up like a burden
to a song, long after Fanny had forgotten all about it in the pleasant
excitement of seeing the effect of a new bonnet in the looking-glass.
Mrs. Thornton was shy. It was only of late years that she had had
leisure enough in her life to go into society; and as society she did
not enjoy it. As dinner-giving, and as criticising other people’s
dinners, she took satisfaction in it. But this going to make
acquaintance with strangers was a very different thing. She was ill at
ease, and looked more than usually stern and forbidding as she entered
the Hales’ little drawing-room.
Margaret was busy embroidering a small piece of cambric for some little
article of dress for Edith’s expected baby—“Flimsy, useless work,” as
Mrs. Thornton observed to herself. She liked Mrs. Hale’s double knitting
far better; that was sensible of its kind. The room altogether was full
of knick-knacks, which must take a long time to dust; and time to people
of limited income was money.
She made all these reflections as she was talking in her stately way to
Mrs. Hale, and uttering all the stereotyped commonplaces that most
people can find to say with their senses blindfolded. Mrs. Hale was
making rather more exertion in her answers, captivated by some real old
lace which Mrs. Thornton wore; “lace,” as she afterwards observed to
Dixon, “of that old English point which has not been made for this
seventy years, and which cannot be bought. It must have been an
heir-loom, and shows that she had ancestors.” So the owner of the
ancestral lace became worthy of something more than the languid exertion
to be agreeable to a visitor, by which Mrs. Hale’s efforts at
conversation would have been otherwise bounded. And presently, Margaret,
racking her brain to talk to Fanny, heard her mother and Mrs. Thornton
plunge into the interminable subject of servants.
“I suppose you are not musical,” said Fanny, “as I see no piano.”
“I am fond of hearing good music; I cannot play well myself; and papa
and mamma don’t care much about it; so we sold our old piano when we
came here.”
“I wonder how you can exist without one. It almost seems to me a
necessary of life.”
“Fifteen shillings a week, and three saved out of them!” thought
Margaret to herself. “But she must have been very young. She probably
has forgotten her own personal experience. But she must know of those
days.” Margaret’s manner had an extra tinge of coldness in it when she
next spoke.
“You have good concerts here, I believe.”
“Oh, yes! Delicious! Too crowded, that is the worst. The directors admit
so indiscriminately. But one is sure to hear the newest music there. I
always have a large order to give to Johnson’s, the day after a
concert.”
“Do you like new music simply for its newness, then?”
“Oh; one knows it is the fashion in London, or else the singers would
not bring it down here. You have been in London, of course.”
“Yes,” said Margaret, “I have lived there for several years.”
“Oh! London and the Alhambra are the two places I long to see!”
“London and the Alhambra!”
“Yes! ever since I read the Tales of the Alhambra. Don’t you know them?”
“I don’t think I do. But surely, it is a very easy journey to London.”
“Yes; but somehow,” said Fanny, lowering her voice, “mamma has never
been to London herself, and can’t understand my longing. She is very
proud of Milton; dirty, smoky place as I feel it to be. I believe she
admires it the more for those very qualities.”
“If it has been Mrs. Thornton’s home for some years, I can well
understand her loving it,” said Margaret, in her clear, bell-like voice.
“What are you saying about me, Miss Hale? May I inquire?”
Margaret had not the words ready for an answer to this question, which
took her a little by surprise, so Miss Thornton replied:
“Oh, mamma! we are only trying to account for your being so fond of
Milton.”
“Thank you,” said Mrs. Thornton. “I do not feel that my very natural
liking for the place where I was born and brought up,—and which has
since been my residence for some years, requires any accounting for.”
Margaret was vexed. As Fanny had put it, it did seem as if they had been
impertinently discussing Mrs. Thornton’s feelings; but she also rose up
against that lady’s manner of showing that she was offended.
Mrs. Thornton went on after a moment’s pause:
“Do you know anything of Milton, Miss Hale? Have you seen any of our
factories? our magnificent warehouses?”
“No!” said Margaret. “I have not seen anything of that description as
yet.”
Then she felt that, by concealing her utter indifference to all such
places, she was hardly speaking with truth; so she went on:
“I dare say, papa would have taken me before now if I had cared. But I
really do not find much pleasure in going over manufactories.”
“They are very curious places,” said Mrs. Hale, “but there is so much
noise and dirt always. I remember once going in a lilac silk to see
candles made, and my gown was utterly ruined.”
“Very probably,” said Mrs. Thornton, in a short displeased manner. “I
merely thought, that as strangers newly come to reside in a town which
has risen to eminence in the country, from the character and progress of
its peculiar business, you might have cared to visit some of the places
where it is carried on; places unique in the kingdom, I am informed. If
Miss Hale changes her mind and condescends to be curious as to the
manufactures of Milton, I can only say I shall be glad to procure her
admission to print-works, or reed-making, or the more simple operations
of spinning carried on in my son’s mill. Every improvement of machinery
is, I believe, to be seen there, in its highest perfection.”
“I am so glad you don’t like mills and manufactories, and all those kind
of things,” said Fanny, in a half-whisper, as she rose to accompany her
mother, who was taking leave of Mrs. Hale with rustling dignity.
“I think I should like to know all about them, if I were you,” replied
Margaret quietly.
“Fanny!” said her mother, as they drove away, “we will be civil to these
Hales: but don’t form one of your hasty friendships with the daughter.
She will do you no good, I see. The mother looks very ill, and seems a
nice, quiet kind of person.”
“I don’t want to form any friendship with Miss Hale, mamma,” said Fanny,
pouting. “I thought I was doing my duty by talking to her, and trying to
amuse her.”
“Well! at any rate John must be satisfied now.”
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Let's Analyse the Pattern
When feeling judged, we aggressively defend our identity instead of demonstrating our worth, pushing away the very people whose respect we seek.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize when someone's aggressive boasting is actually a response to feeling judged or threatened.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when someone launches into unprompted explanations of their worth—they're usually responding to judgment they think they're receiving, not attacking you.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"she saw no use in making up friendships and intimacies with all the teachers and masters in Milton"
Context: Complaining about having to visit the Hales
Shows her class consciousness and practical view of relationships. She sees friendship as a luxury she can't afford, both financially and socially. Her dismissive tone reveals she doesn't consider the Hales her social equals.
In Today's Words:
Why should I waste time and money on people who aren't in our league?
"One would think you were made of money"
Context: When John offers to hire horses for the carriage
Despite their success, she maintains the careful spending habits that got them where they are. Shows the anxiety that comes with new money - the fear it could all disappear if you're not careful.
In Today's Words:
Money doesn't grow on trees, you know
"I am not fond of Milton myself"
Context: Whispering to Margaret during the visit
Reveals her shame about the industrial city that made her family's fortune. She wants to distance herself from the source of her privilege, showing the complex relationship between new money and social acceptance.
In Today's Words:
I'm embarrassed about where I come from
Thematic Threads
Class Anxiety
In This Chapter
Mrs. Thornton calculates carriage costs while defending industrial pride, revealing how economic insecurity drives social performance
Development
Deepening from earlier surface tensions to show the financial calculations behind social behavior
In Your Life:
You might recognize this when you overspend to 'keep up' or overexplain your choices to people you think judge your lifestyle.
Identity Defense
In This Chapter
Mrs. Thornton takes Margaret's indifference to manufacturing as personal attack, defending not just business but her family's worth
Development
Building on Margaret's earlier cultural superiority to show how identity threats trigger defensive responses
In Your Life:
You see this when criticism of your workplace, hometown, or choices feels like criticism of your entire worth as a person.
Social Performance
In This Chapter
The visit becomes theater where everyone performs their values while calculating costs and benefits
Development
Expanding from individual pretense to show how social interactions become strategic performances
In Your Life:
You experience this at work events, parent meetings, or anywhere you feel pressure to represent not just yourself but your 'type.'
Generational Divide
In This Chapter
Fanny whispers against manufacturing while benefiting from it, showing disconnection from family's source of wealth
Development
Introduced here as new complexity in class dynamics
In Your Life:
You might see this in children who take family sacrifices for granted or judge the work that supports their lifestyle.
Recognition Hunger
In This Chapter
Mrs. Thornton needs Margaret to appreciate industrial progress, revealing how much the 'refined' woman's opinion matters
Development
Evolving from Margaret's need for belonging to show how recognition works both ways across class lines
In Your Life:
You feel this when someone you secretly admire seems indifferent to what you're proud of, making their approval suddenly crucial.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What specific behaviors reveal Mrs. Thornton's conflicted feelings about visiting the Hales?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Mrs. Thornton interpret Margaret's polite indifference about manufacturing as a personal attack?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see this pattern of defensive pride in your own workplace or community?
application • medium - 4
How could Mrs. Thornton have responded differently when she sensed Margaret's disinterest in the mills?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter reveal about how economic insecurity shapes the way we interact with people from different backgrounds?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Decode the Defensive Pride Cycle
Think of a recent situation where someone seemed to dismiss something important to you. Map out what happened using Mrs. Thornton's pattern: What triggered your defensive response? What did you do to prove your worth? How did the other person react? Now rewrite the scene showing how confident curiosity might have changed the outcome.
Consider:
- •Notice the difference between defending your worth versus demonstrating it
- •Consider what the other person might have been thinking or feeling
- •Look for the moment where defensive pride started building walls instead of bridges
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you felt judged for something that defines your identity. How did you respond? What would you do differently now that you understand the defensive pride cycle?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 13: Finding Connection Through Suffering
The social chess game continues as the community begins to form opinions about the new arrivals. Margaret's position in Milton society becomes clearer, but not necessarily easier.




