Summary
At Christmas gatherings, the town's medical establishment gossips about Lydgate's expensive lifestyle and whether his practice can support it. Mr. Farebrother notices troubling changes in his young colleague - Lydgate seems agitated, talks frantically about medical theories, and shows signs of stress. At the Vincy family's New Year party, the social dynamics reveal deeper tensions. Rosamond maintains perfect composure while subtly demonstrating her emotional distance from her husband. Mrs. Vincy complains about Lydgate's demanding schedule and 'close, proud disposition' to anyone who will listen. Meanwhile, Fred Vincy struggles with jealousy as he watches Mr. Farebrother's easy rapport with Mary Garth. The evening's climax comes when Farebrother attempts to offer Lydgate financial help, acknowledging that Lydgate once helped him secure his church position. But Lydgate's pride makes him recoil from any suggestion that he needs assistance. He responds coldly and checks his watch, effectively shutting down the conversation. Farebrother recognizes the rejection and backs away, understanding that some people cannot bear to be helped, even by friends. The chapter exposes how financial pressure isolates people and how pride can become a prison, preventing the very connections that might provide relief.
Coming Up in Chapter 64
Lydgate's financial troubles are about to intensify, and the weight of his pride may soon prove more costly than he imagined. Meanwhile, other characters face their own moments of reckoning.
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CHAPTER LXIII. These little things are great to little man.—GOLDSMITH. “Have you seen much of your scientific phoenix, Lydgate, lately?” said Mr. Toller at one of his Christmas dinner-parties, speaking to Mr. Farebrother on his right hand. “Not much, I am sorry to say,” answered the Vicar, accustomed to parry Mr. Toller’s banter about his belief in the new medical light. “I am out of the way and he is too busy.” “Is he? I am glad to hear it,” said Dr. Minchin, with mingled suavity and surprise. “He gives a great deal of time to the New Hospital,” said Mr. Farebrother, who had his reasons for continuing the subject: “I hear of that from my neighbor, Mrs. Casaubon, who goes there often. She says Lydgate is indefatigable, and is making a fine thing of Bulstrode’s institution. He is preparing a new ward in case of the cholera coming to us.” “And preparing theories of treatment to try on the patients, I suppose,” said Mr. Toller. “Come, Toller, be candid,” said Mr. Farebrother. “You are too clever not to see the good of a bold fresh mind in medicine, as well as in everything else; and as to cholera, I fancy, none of you are very sure what you ought to do. If a man goes a little too far along a new road, it is usually himself that he harms more than any one else.” “I am sure you and Wrench ought to be obliged to him,” said Dr. Minchin, looking towards Toller, “for he has sent you the cream of Peacock’s patients.” “Lydgate has been living at a great rate for a young beginner,” said Mr. Harry Toller, the brewer. “I suppose his relations in the North back him up.” “I hope so,” said Mr. Chichely, “else he ought not to have married that nice girl we were all so fond of. Hang it, one has a grudge against a man who carries off the prettiest girl in the town.” “Ay, by God! and the best too,” said Mr. Standish. “My friend Vincy didn’t half like the marriage, I know that,” said Mr. Chichely. “_He_ wouldn’t do much. How the relations on the other side may have come down I can’t say.” There was an emphatic kind of reticence in Mr. Chichely’s manner of speaking. “Oh, I shouldn’t think Lydgate ever looked to practice for a living,” said Mr. Toller, with a slight touch of sarcasm, and there the subject was dropped. This was not the first time that Mr. Farebrother had heard hints of Lydgate’s expenses being obviously too great to be met by his practice, but he thought it not unlikely that there were resources or expectations which excused the large outlay at the time of Lydgate’s marriage, and which might hinder any bad consequences from the disappointment in his practice. One evening, when he took the pains to go to Middlemarch on purpose to have a chat with Lydgate as of old, he noticed in...
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Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Pride Trap - When Help Becomes Humiliation
When defensive pride prevents us from accepting help we desperately need, turning protection into isolation.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize when protective pride becomes self-destructive isolation during crisis.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when you automatically say 'I'm fine' or 'I can handle it'—ask yourself if pride is protecting you or isolating you from needed support.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Terms to Know
Medical establishment
The group of established doctors who control medical practice in a community. In Middlemarch, they're threatened by Lydgate's new methods and foreign training. They use gossip and social pressure to maintain their power.
Modern Usage:
We see this in any professional field where the old guard resists new approaches or outsiders.
Social credit
Your reputation and standing in the community, which directly affects your ability to make a living. In small towns like Middlemarch, losing social credit could destroy your career and livelihood.
Modern Usage:
Today we call this 'networking' or 'professional reputation' - it's still crucial for career success.
Pride as isolation
When someone's self-respect becomes so rigid they can't accept help, even from friends. Lydgate's pride prevents him from getting the support he desperately needs.
Modern Usage:
We see this when people won't ask for help with debt, mental health, or job searches because they're embarrassed.
Cholera preparation
A deadly disease that periodically swept through 19th-century communities. Preparing for cholera outbreaks was serious public health work that required new medical approaches.
Modern Usage:
Similar to how hospitals prepared for COVID-19 - requiring innovative thinking and resource management.
Christmas dinner-parties
Formal social gatherings where the town's important people network, gossip, and conduct informal business. These parties shaped reputations and careers.
Modern Usage:
Like office holiday parties or professional networking events where careers can be made or broken.
Indefatigable
Never getting tired or giving up, especially when working toward a goal. Lydgate works tirelessly at the hospital despite growing personal problems.
Modern Usage:
We use this to describe workaholics or people who throw themselves into work to avoid dealing with other problems.
Characters in This Chapter
Mr. Toller
Medical establishment antagonist
An established doctor who uses social gatherings to undermine Lydgate with sarcastic comments about his 'theories.' He represents the old guard's resistance to change.
Modern Equivalent:
The senior employee who makes snide comments about the new hire's ideas
Dr. Minchin
Medical establishment member
Another established doctor who joins in questioning Lydgate's methods. His 'mingled suavity and surprise' shows how the medical community masks hostility with politeness.
Modern Equivalent:
The colleague who smiles while stabbing you in the back
Mr. Farebrother
Concerned friend and mentor
The vicar who defends Lydgate publicly but privately worries about him. He tries to offer help but backs off when Lydgate's pride makes it impossible.
Modern Equivalent:
The friend who sees you're struggling but doesn't know how to help without offending you
Lydgate
Struggling protagonist
Shows increasing signs of stress and financial pressure. His pride prevents him from accepting help, even from friends who genuinely care about him.
Modern Equivalent:
The person drowning in debt but too proud to admit they need help
Mrs. Casaubon
Community observer
Mentioned as someone who visits the hospital and reports on Lydgate's dedication. She serves as a neutral witness to his good work.
Modern Equivalent:
The community member who sees the real story behind the gossip
Key Quotes & Analysis
"If a man goes a little too far along a new road, it is usually himself that he harms more than any one else."
Context: Defending Lydgate against criticism of his medical innovations
Farebrother recognizes that pioneers often pay a personal price for being ahead of their time. He's trying to get the other doctors to show compassion for Lydgate's situation.
In Today's Words:
When someone tries something new, they're usually the ones who get hurt if it doesn't work out.
"You are too clever not to see the good of a bold fresh mind in medicine, as well as in everything else."
Context: Challenging Dr. Toller to acknowledge Lydgate's value
Farebrother appeals to Toller's intelligence while defending innovation. He's trying to shift the conversation from personal gossip to professional merit.
In Today's Words:
You're smart enough to know that new ideas can be good for everyone.
"He gives a great deal of time to the New Hospital."
Context: Explaining why he doesn't see Lydgate much socially
Farebrother subtly defends Lydgate's absence from social events by emphasizing his dedication to important work. It's a diplomatic way of countering gossip.
In Today's Words:
He's busy doing important work at the hospital.
Thematic Threads
Pride
In This Chapter
Lydgate cannot accept Farebrother's financial help, seeing it as humiliation rather than friendship
Development
Evolving from professional confidence to defensive isolation as circumstances worsen
In Your Life:
Notice when your pride prevents you from accepting help you actually need
Social Performance
In This Chapter
Rosamond maintains perfect composure while emotionally distancing from Lydgate; Mrs. Vincy gossips about their troubles
Development
Deepening theme of how people manage their public image during private crises
In Your Life:
Recognize when you're performing stability while your foundation is cracking
Isolation
In This Chapter
Financial pressure and pride combine to cut Lydgate off from potential support systems
Development
Growing pattern of how circumstances separate people from their communities
In Your Life:
Watch for how stress makes you withdraw from the people who could help most
Class Anxiety
In This Chapter
The medical establishment gossips about Lydgate's expensive lifestyle and financial sustainability
Development
Continuing examination of how financial status affects professional reputation
In Your Life:
Notice how money troubles threaten not just finances but social standing
Friendship Limits
In This Chapter
Farebrother recognizes that some people cannot bear to be helped, even by genuine friends
Development
Introduced here as exploration of when good intentions meet defensive pride
In Your Life:
Understand that sometimes caring for someone means accepting their refusal of help
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What specific signs does Farebrother notice that show Lydgate is struggling, and how does Lydgate respond when offered help?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Lydgate interpret Farebrother's genuine offer of help as something negative rather than supportive?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see this pattern today - people who desperately need help but can't accept it because of pride?
application • medium - 4
If you were Farebrother, how would you approach someone whose pride is preventing them from accepting necessary help?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter reveal about how financial stress changes people and damages relationships, even with good intentions on both sides?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Pride Triggers
Think of a time when you needed help but found it difficult to ask for or accept. Write down what was happening, what you were afraid people would think, and how pride either helped or hurt the situation. Then identify what early warning signs might help you recognize this pattern in the future.
Consider:
- •Consider how your background or upbringing shaped your relationship with asking for help
- •Think about the difference between healthy self-reliance and destructive pride
- •Notice how stress and shame can make us misinterpret other people's intentions
Journaling Prompt
Write about someone in your life who might be struggling but too proud to ask for help. How could you offer support in a way that honors their dignity while still providing assistance?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 64: When Marriage Becomes a Battlefield
Moving forward, we'll examine financial stress can poison even loving relationships, and understand passive resistance can be more destructive than open conflict. These insights bridge the gap between classic literature and modern experience.