Summary
Mr. Farebrother finally receives the Lowick living he's long desired, bringing joy to his family and financial security at last. His mother and sisters celebrate, already planning their improved future. But success brings unexpected burdens—Farebrother feels ashamed of his past laxness and determined to prove worthy of his position. Almost immediately, duty arrives in an uncomfortable form: Fred Vincy seeks his help. Fred has graduated but faces a crisis—he doesn't want to become a clergyman but sees no other options given his father's investment in his education. More painfully, Fred asks Farebrother to speak to Mary Garth about his prospects, knowing she opposes his entering the Church. Farebrother agrees, though the request clearly costs him something. When he visits Mary, their conversation reveals the depth of her feelings for Fred—and hints at Farebrother's own suppressed emotions. Mary firmly states she could never love Fred if he becomes a clergyman for mere gentility's sake, but admits her deep attachment to him runs too strong to abandon. Farebrother delivers this message with grace, though his manner suggests personal pain. The chapter explores how doing right by others sometimes means sacrificing our own desires, and how success can multiply rather than simplify our moral obligations.
Coming Up in Chapter 53
The ripple effects of Mary's decisive words will reshape Fred's future—but other characters face their own moments of reckoning as the social fabric of Middlemarch continues to shift.
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CHAPTER LII. “His heart The lowliest duties on itself did lay.” —WORDSWORTH. On that June evening when Mr. Farebrother knew that he was to have the Lowick living, there was joy in the old fashioned parlor, and even the portraits of the great lawyers seemed to look on with satisfaction. His mother left her tea and toast untouched, but sat with her usual pretty primness, only showing her emotion by that flush in the cheeks and brightness in the eyes which give an old woman a touching momentary identity with her far-off youthful self, and saying decisively— “The greatest comfort, Camden, is that you have deserved it.” “When a man gets a good berth, mother, half the deserving must come after,” said the son, brimful of pleasure, and not trying to conceal it. The gladness in his face was of that active kind which seems to have energy enough not only to flash outwardly, but to light up busy vision within: one seemed to see thoughts, as well as delight, in his glances. “Now, aunt,” he went on, rubbing his hands and looking at Miss Noble, who was making tender little beaver-like noises, “There shall be sugar-candy always on the table for you to steal and give to the children, and you shall have a great many new stockings to make presents of, and you shall darn your own more than ever!” Miss Noble nodded at her nephew with a subdued half-frightened laugh, conscious of having already dropped an additional lump of sugar into her basket on the strength of the new preferment. “As for you, Winny”—the Vicar went on—“I shall make no difficulty about your marrying any Lowick bachelor—Mr. Solomon Featherstone, for example, as soon as I find you are in love with him.” Miss Winifred, who had been looking at her brother all the while and crying heartily, which was her way of rejoicing, smiled through her tears and said, “You must set me the example, Cam: _you_ must marry now.” “With all my heart. But who is in love with me? I am a seedy old fellow,” said the Vicar, rising, pushing his chair away and looking down at himself. “What do you say, mother?” “You are a handsome man, Camden: though not so fine a figure of a man as your father,” said the old lady. “I wish you would marry Miss Garth, brother,” said Miss Winifred. “She would make us so lively at Lowick.” “Very fine! You talk as if young women were tied up to be chosen, like poultry at market; as if I had only to ask and everybody would have me,” said the Vicar, not caring to specify. “We don’t want everybody,” said Miss Winifred. “But _you_ would like Miss Garth, mother, shouldn’t you?” “My son’s choice shall be mine,” said Mrs. Farebrother, with majestic discretion, “and a wife would be most welcome, Camden. You will want your whist at home when we go to Lowick, and Henrietta Noble never was a...
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Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Noble Sacrifice - When Doing Right Hurts
The cost of maintaining principles when doing right requires sacrificing personal desires or advantages.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize when doing right will cost you personally, and why paying that cost builds long-term trust.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when you could help someone who might benefit at your expense—then help them anyway and watch how others respond to your fairness.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Terms to Know
Living
A church position that provides a house and income for a clergyman. In Eliot's time, these were often controlled by wealthy landowners who could appoint whoever they chose. Getting a good living meant financial security for life.
Modern Usage:
Like getting tenure at a university or a permanent government job with benefits - it's the security everyone hopes for but few actually get.
Genteel poverty
Being from a 'good family' but having little money - you're expected to maintain appearances and social standards you can barely afford. The Farebrothers live this way before he gets the living.
Modern Usage:
Like keeping up middle-class appearances while living paycheck to paycheck - shopping at Target but carrying a designer purse from five years ago.
Moral obligation vs. personal desire
The central conflict of doing what's right for others even when it hurts you personally. Farebrother helps Fred pursue Mary even though he loves her himself.
Modern Usage:
When you help your friend get the job you wanted, or encourage someone you like to date someone else because you know they're better together.
Clerical career
Becoming a minister was one of the few 'respectable' careers for educated young men without money. Many entered not from calling but from lack of options.
Modern Usage:
Like going into teaching or social work because it's stable and respected, even if your heart isn't really in it.
Social expectations
The unwritten rules about what people of your class and education should do with their lives. Fred's family expects him to use his university education in a 'proper' profession.
Modern Usage:
When your family expects you to use your college degree in a certain way, or when people assume you should want certain things because of your background.
Self-sacrifice
Giving up what you want for someone else's benefit. Farebrother sacrifices his own romantic hopes to help Fred, showing true nobility of character.
Modern Usage:
When parents work extra shifts so their kids can have opportunities, or when you step back from something you want so someone else can succeed.
Characters in This Chapter
Mr. Farebrother
Moral exemplar
Finally gets the financial security he's long needed, but immediately faces a test of character when Fred asks him to help win Mary's heart. He agrees despite his own feelings for her, showing true selflessness.
Modern Equivalent:
The mentor who puts their mentee's needs first, even when it costs them personally
Fred Vincy
Young man in crisis
Faces the gap between what others expect of him and what he actually wants. He's educated for the clergy but has no calling for it, and needs Farebrother's help to navigate his relationship with Mary.
Modern Equivalent:
The college graduate who studied what their parents wanted but now has no idea what they actually want to do with their life
Mary Garth
The moral compass
Represents clear principles and honest feeling. She won't accept Fred if he becomes a clergyman just for respectability, but admits her deep attachment to him makes it hard to give him up entirely.
Modern Equivalent:
The person who won't compromise their values for love but struggles with how much they care about someone who might not be right for them
Mrs. Farebrother
Supportive mother
Shows quiet pride in her son's achievement and belief that he deserves this success. Her joy reveals how long the family has struggled financially.
Modern Equivalent:
The parent who's worked hard to support their family and finally sees their sacrifices paying off
Miss Noble
Gentle dependent
Farebrother's aunt who will benefit from his improved circumstances. Her presence shows how his success affects his whole household, not just himself.
Modern Equivalent:
The family member everyone takes care of - the one whose wellbeing depends on everyone else doing okay
Key Quotes & Analysis
"The greatest comfort, Camden, is that you have deserved it."
Context: She says this when celebrating his appointment to the living
Shows that merit and character matter more than luck or connections in her value system. It's her way of saying his struggles and good behavior have finally been rewarded.
In Today's Words:
You earned this - it wasn't just luck or who you know.
"When a man gets a good berth, mother, half the deserving must come after."
Context: His response to his mother's praise about deserving the position
Reveals his humility and understanding that success brings responsibility. He knows getting the job is just the beginning - now he has to prove worthy of it.
In Today's Words:
Getting the opportunity is only half the battle - now I have to show I deserve to keep it.
"I could not love a man who is ridiculous."
Context: When Farebrother asks about her feelings toward Fred becoming a clergyman
Shows Mary's clear standards and practical nature. She won't pretend to respect what she sees as false or foolish, even in someone she loves.
In Today's Words:
I can't be with someone I don't respect, even if I care about them.
Thematic Threads
Moral Obligation
In This Chapter
Farebrother's success immediately creates new duties to help others, even his romantic rival
Development
Building from earlier chapters where characters avoided difficult moral choices
In Your Life:
Your promotions and achievements often come with expectations to help others succeed, even competitors.
Unrequited Love
In This Chapter
Farebrother must facilitate Fred's relationship with Mary despite his own feelings for her
Development
Continues the pattern of characters loving those who love others
In Your Life:
Sometimes caring about someone means helping them be happy with someone else.
Class Expectations
In This Chapter
Fred feels trapped by family expectations to become a gentleman clergyman regardless of his calling
Development
Reinforces how social position dictates life choices throughout the novel
In Your Life:
Family investments in your education or career can create pressure to follow paths that don't fit you.
Professional Identity
In This Chapter
Fred struggles with entering a profession for status rather than genuine vocation
Development
Introduced here as a new dimension of career authenticity
In Your Life:
Taking jobs for prestige or family approval rather than genuine interest often leads to misery.
Success Burden
In This Chapter
Farebrother's achievement brings shame about past failures and pressure to prove worthiness
Development
New theme showing how accomplishment creates new forms of pressure
In Your Life:
Getting what you wanted often reveals new responsibilities and expectations you didn't anticipate.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
Why does Farebrother agree to help Fred even though it might hurt his own chances with Mary?
analysis • surface - 2
What does Mary's response reveal about what she values in a partner, and why does this create a problem for Fred?
analysis • medium - 3
When have you seen someone help a rival or competitor because it was the right thing to do? What happened?
application • medium - 4
If you were in Farebrother's position, how would you balance being honest with Mary while protecting your own interests?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter suggest about the relationship between success and moral responsibility?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Integrity Moments
Think of three situations where doing the right thing might cost you something you want. For each scenario, write down what you'd gain by taking the high road versus what you'd lose. Then identify which choice builds the kind of reputation you want long-term.
Consider:
- •Consider both immediate costs and long-term benefits of acting with integrity
- •Think about how others would view your choice and what that says about your character
- •Remember that people notice when you help others succeed, even rivals
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you had to choose between helping someone else succeed and advancing your own interests. What did you learn about yourself from that experience?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 53: When the Past Comes Calling
What lies ahead teaches us our past actions can resurface unexpectedly to threaten our present stability, and shows us the difference between private guilt and public shame in maintaining reputation. These patterns appear in literature and life alike.