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←etter 51. On Baiae and moralsMoral letters to Luciliusby Seneca, translated by Richard Mott GummereLetter 52. On choosing our teachersLetter 53. On the faults of the spirit→483025Moral letters to Lucilius — Letter 52. On choosing our teachersRichard Mott GummereSeneca LII. ON CHOOSING OUR TEACHERS 1. What is this force, Lucilius, that drags us in one direction when we are aiming in another, urging us on to the exact place from which we long to withdraw? What is it that wrestles with our spirit, and does not allow us to desire anything once for all? We veer from plan to plan. None of our wishes is free, none is unqualified, none is lasting. 2. “But it is the fool,” you say, “who is inconsistent; nothing suits him for long.” But how or when can we tear ourselves away from this folly? No man by himself has sufficient strength to rise above it; he needs a helping hand, and some one to extricate him. 3. Epicurus[1] remarks that certain men have worked their way to the truth without any one’s assistance, carving out their own passage. And he gives special praise to these, for their impulse has come from within, and they have forged to the front by themselves. Again, he says, there are others who need outside help, who will not proceed unless someone leads the way, but who will follow faithfully. Of these, he says, Metrodorus was one; this type of man is also excellent, but belongs to the second grade. We ourselves are not of that first class, either; we shall be well treated if we are admitted into the second. Nor need you despise a man who can gain salvation only with the assistance of another; the will to be saved means a great deal, too. 4. You will find still another class of man,—and a class not to be despised,—who can be forced and driven into righteousness, who do not need a guide as much as they require someone to encourage and, as it were, to force them along. This is the third variety. If you ask me for a man of this pattern also, Epicurus tells us that Hermarchus was such. And of the two last-named classes, he is more ready to congratulate the one,[2] but he feels more respect for the other; for although both reached the same goal, it is a greater credit to have brought about the same result with the more difficult material upon which to work. 5. Suppose that two buildings have been erected, unlike as to their foundations, but equal in height and in grandeur. One is built on faultless ground, and the process of erection goes right ahead. In the other case, the foundations have exhausted the building materials, for they have been sunk into soft and shifting ground and much labour has been wasted in reaching the solid rock. As one looks at both of them, one sees clearly what progress the former has made, but the larger and more difficult part of the latter is hidden. 6. So with men’s dispositions; some are pliable and easy to manage, but others have to be laboriously wrought out by hand, so to speak, and are wholly employed in the making of their own foundations. I should accordingly deem more fortunate the man who has never had any trouble with himself; but the other, I feel, has deserved better of himself, who has won a victory over the meanness of his own nature, and has not gently led himself, but has wrestled his way, to wisdom. 7. You may be sure that this refractory nature, which demands much toil, has been implanted in us. There are obstacles in our path; so let us fight, and call to our assistance some helpers. “Whom,” you say, “shall I call upon? Shall it be this man or that[3]?” There is another choice also open to you; you may go to the ancients; for they have the time to help you. We can get assistance not only from the living, but from those of the past. 8. Let us choose, however, from among the living, not men who pour forth their words with the greatest glibness, turning out commonplaces and holding. as it were, their own little private exhibitions,[4]—not these, I say, but men who teach us by their lives, men who tell us what we ought to do and then prove it by practice, who show us what we should avoid, and then are never caught doing that which they have ordered us to avoid. Choose as a guide one whom you will admire more when you see him act than when you hear him speak. 9. Of course I would not prevent you from listening also to those philosophers who are wont to hold public meetings and discussions, provided they appear before the people for the express purpose of improving themselves and others, and do not practise their profession for the sake of self-seeking. For what is baser than philosophy courting applause? Does the sick man praise the surgeon while he is operating? 10. In silence and with reverent awe submit to the cure.[5] Even though you cry applause, I shall listen to your cries as if you were groaning when your sores were touched. Do you wish to bear witness that you are attentive, that you are stirred by the grandeur of the subject? You may do this at the proper time; I shall of course allow you to pass judgment and cast a vote as to the better course. Pythagoras made his pupils keep silence for five years; do you think that they had the right on that account to break out immediately into applause? 11. How mad is he who leaves the lecture-room in a happy frame of mind simply because of applause from the ignorant! Why do you take pleasure in being praised by men whom you yourself cannot praise? Fabianus used to give popular talks, but his audience listened with self-control. Occasionally a loud shout of praise would burst forth, but it was prompted by the greatness of his subject, and not by the sound of oratory that slipped forth pleasantly and softly. 12. There should be a difference between the applause of the theatre and the applause of the school; and there is a certain decency even in bestowing praise. If you mark them carefully, all acts are always significant, and you can gauge character by even the most trifling signs. The lecherous man is revealed by his gait, by a movement of the hand, sometimes by a single answer, by his touching his head with a finger,[6] by the shifting of his eye. The scamp is shown up by his laugh; the madman by his face and general appearance. These qualities become known by certain marks; but you can tell the character of every man when you see how he gives and receives praise. 13. The philosopher’s audience, from this corner and that, stretch forth admiring hands, and sometimes the adoring crowd almost hang over the lecturer’s head. But, if you really understand, that is not praise; it is merely applause. These outcries should be left for the arts which aim to please the crowd; let philosophy be worshipped in silence. 14. Young men, indeed, must sometimes have free play to follow their impulses, but it should only be at times when they act from impulse, and when they cannot force themselves to be silent. Such praise as that gives a certain kind of encouragement to the hearers themselves, and acts as a spur to the youthful mind. But let them be roused to the matter, and not to the style; otherwise, eloquence does them harm, making them enamoured of itself, and not of the subject. 15. I shall postpone this topic for the present; it demands a long and special investigation, to show how the public should be addressed, what indulgences should be allowed to a speaker on a public occasion, and what should be allowed to the crowd itself in the presence of the speaker. There can be no doubt that philosophy has suffered a loss, now that she has exposed her charms for sale. But she can still be viewed in her sanctuary, if her exhibitor is a priest and not a pedlar. Farewell. ↑ Frag. 192 Usener. ↑ i.e., that of Metrodorus, who had the happier nature. ↑ i.e., a representative of this school or that. Seneca’s reply is, in effect, “Upon no present school; go to the ancients.” ↑ Circulatores were travelling showmen who performed sword-swallowing and snake-charming feats, or cheap stump speakers who displayed their eloquence at the street-corners in the hope of a few pence. The word is also found in the sense of “pedlar”. ↑ This and what follows, to § 11, are the words with which a true philosopher is supposed to address his hearers. ↑ The scratching of the head with one finger was for some reason regarded as a mark of effeminacy or vice; cf. the charge brought against Pompey, Plutarch, Moralia, 89 E and Ammianus, 17. 11 quod genuino quodam more caput digito uno scalpebat . . . ut dissolutum. Compare also Juvenal, ix. 133 scalpere caput digito.
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Key Quotes & Analysis
"What is this force, Lucilius, that drags us in one direction when we are aiming in another, urging us on to the exact place from which we long to withdraw?"
Context: Opening the letter by acknowledging the universal struggle with self-control and consistency
This perfectly captures the human experience of knowing what we should do but repeatedly doing the opposite. Seneca frames this as a common struggle rather than a personal failing, which makes it easier to address honestly.
In Today's Words:
Why do we keep doing the exact things we're trying to stop doing, even when we know better?
"No man by himself has sufficient strength to rise above it; he needs a helping hand, and some one to extricate him."
Context: Explaining why most people can't overcome their inconsistencies through willpower alone
This challenges the modern myth of pure self-reliance by acknowledging that transformation usually requires support. It removes shame from needing help and reframes it as practical wisdom.
In Today's Words:
You can't just tough it out alone - most people need someone in their corner to help them change.
"There are others who need outside help, who will not proceed unless someone leads the way, but who will follow faithfully."
Context: Describing the second type of learner, using Metrodorus as an example
This validates people who learn best through mentorship rather than independent discovery. Seneca shows that different learning styles are equally valuable, just requiring different approaches.
In Today's Words:
Some people need a good teacher to show them the path, but once they see it, they'll stick with it.
"Choose therefore a Cato; or, if Cato seems too severe a model, choose some Laelius, a gentler spirit."
Context: Advising Lucilius on selecting appropriate role models and teachers
Seneca recognizes that different personalities need different types of mentors. He's practical about matching teaching styles to learning needs rather than insisting on one-size-fits-all approaches.
In Today's Words:
Find a mentor whose style works for you - if you need someone tough, go with that; if you need someone gentler, that's fine too.
Thematic Threads
Personal Growth
In This Chapter
Seneca argues transformation is possible for everyone but requires different approaches based on individual learning styles
Development
Builds on earlier letters about self-improvement by providing practical framework for how different people actually change
In Your Life:
You might recognize whether you learn best alone, with examples, or with accountability partners
Human Relationships
In This Chapter
The mentor-student relationship requires authenticity over performance, with teachers who practice what they preach
Development
Extends relationship themes by focusing specifically on learning relationships and choosing guides
In Your Life:
You might evaluate whether your advisors and role models live by their own advice
Class
In This Chapter
Seneca respects those who must work hardest for their progress, comparing them to builders who dig through soft ground
Development
Continues class consciousness by valuing effort over natural advantages
In Your Life:
You might recognize that needing more support doesn't make you inferior to those with natural advantages
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
Criticizes philosophers who perform for applause rather than focusing on genuine teaching and transformation
Development
Builds on earlier critiques of social performance by examining how it corrupts learning relationships
In Your Life:
You might notice when experts prioritize their reputation over actually helping you grow
Identity
In This Chapter
Understanding your learning type becomes part of knowing yourself and choosing your path forward
Development
Deepens self-knowledge themes by providing concrete framework for understanding how you change
In Your Life:
You might gain clarity about why certain approaches to self-improvement have or haven't worked for you
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
Seneca describes three types of people when it comes to learning and changing. What are these three types, and which one does he respect most? Why?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Seneca compare some learners to builders who must dig through soft ground to reach solid rock? What advantage do these 'diggers' actually have over those who start on solid ground?
analysis • medium - 3
Think about your workplace, family, or friend group. Can you identify examples of each type of learner? How do they approach new challenges differently?
application • medium - 4
Seneca warns against choosing mentors who are flashy speakers seeking applause. How would you tell the difference between an authentic guide and someone just performing? What would you look for?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter reveal about the relationship between natural talent and hard work? How might this change how you view your own struggles with change?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Learning Support System
Think about a specific area where you want to grow or change (health habits, job skills, parenting, relationships). First, honestly identify which type of learner you are in this area. Then map out what kind of support you actually need versus what you've been trying to do. Finally, identify one person in your life whose actions match their words in this area—someone who could be an authentic guide rather than just a good talker.
Consider:
- •Be honest about your learning style without judging yourself as 'weak' for needing support
- •Look for people who consistently practice what they teach, not just those who sound impressive
- •Consider that you might be different types of learners in different areas of life
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you tried to change something important but kept falling back into old patterns. What type of support did you actually need that you weren't getting? How might things have been different with the right kind of guide?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 53: When Self-Awareness Feels Impossible
Seneca faces his own mortality as a severe asthma attack forces him to confront death. His reflections on breathing, living, and letting go offer profound insights into how we can face our own inevitable end with courage and wisdom.




