Summary
Aunt Drusilla's death forces Jude and Sue back together despite their recent agreement to stay apart. At the funeral, Sue finally breaks down and confesses what readers have suspected: her marriage to Phillotson is a nightmare. She reveals that while she respects him intellectually, she finds physical intimacy with him repulsive - a 'torture' that society expects her to endure silently. Her confession comes pouring out in the familiar setting of Drusilla's house, where she admits she feels trapped by the 'dreadful contract' of marriage that demands she be responsive to her husband's desires regardless of her own feelings. Jude, who has been pretending his own contentment with returning to Arabella, drops his pretense and tries to comfort her. The chapter's most powerful moment comes late at night when both lie awake, tortured by their proximity. A rabbit caught in a trap cries out in pain - a perfect metaphor for their situation. When Jude kills the suffering animal, Sue appears at her window, and they share an intimate moment where she briefly kisses his head before retreating. Her final words reveal the tragedy: she believes their situation represents the 'barbarous customs' of their era, where people are forced into unnatural arrangements that cause suffering. The chapter shows how death strips away pretense, forcing honest conversations that change everything.
Coming Up in Chapter 31
Sue's devastating confession haunts Jude through the night, and her words about the 'barbarous customs' of marriage will drive him to make choices that will alter both their lives forever.
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However, if God disposed not, woman did. The next morning but one brought him this note from her: Don’t come next week. On your own account don’t! We were too free, under the influence of that morbid hymn and the twilight. Think no more than you can help of SUSANNA FLORENCE MARY. The disappointment was keen. He knew her mood, the look of her face, when she subscribed herself at length thus. But, whatever her mood, he could not say she was wrong in her view. He replied: I acquiesce. You are right. It is a lesson in renunciation which I suppose I ought to learn at this season. JUDE. He despatched the note on Easter Eve, and there seemed a finality in their decisions. But other forces and laws than theirs were in operation. On Easter Monday morning he received a message from the Widow Edlin, whom he had directed to telegraph if anything serious happened: Your aunt is sinking. Come at once. He threw down his tools and went. Three and a half hours later he was crossing the downs about Marygreen, and presently plunged into the concave field across which the short cut was made to the village. As he ascended on the other side a labouring man, who had been watching his approach from a gate across the path, moved uneasily, and prepared to speak. “I can see in his face that she is dead,” said Jude. “Poor Aunt Drusilla!” It was as he had supposed, and Mrs. Edlin had sent out the man to break the news to him. “She wouldn’t have knowed ’ee. She lay like a doll wi’ glass eyes; so it didn’t matter that you wasn’t here,” said he. Jude went on to the house, and in the afternoon, when everything was done, and the layers-out had finished their beer, and gone, he sat down alone in the silent place. It was absolutely necessary to communicate with Sue, though two or three days earlier they had agreed to mutual severance. He wrote in the briefest terms: Aunt Drusilla is dead, having been taken almost suddenly. The funeral is on Friday afternoon. He remained in and about Marygreen through the intervening days, went out on Friday morning to see that the grave was finished, and wondered if Sue would come. She had not written, and that seemed to signify rather that she would come than that she would not. Having timed her by her only possible train, he locked the door about mid-day, and crossed the hollow field to the verge of the upland by the Brown House, where he stood and looked over the vast prospect northwards, and over the nearer landscape in which Alfredston stood. Two miles behind it a jet of white steam was travelling from the left to the right of the picture. There was a long time to wait, even now, till he would know if she had arrived. He did wait, however, and at last a small...
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Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Crisis Truth - When Disaster Strips Away Pretense
Emergency situations strip away social pretense, forcing people to reveal feelings and truths they normally hide.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to identify when crisis strips away social masks and reveals authentic feelings.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when someone shares unusually honest thoughts during stressful times - don't dismiss it as 'just the situation talking.'
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Terms to Know
Renunciation
The act of giving up something you want for moral or practical reasons. In Victorian times, this was considered a noble virtue, especially for women who were expected to sacrifice their desires for duty.
Modern Usage:
We see this when someone stays in a job they hate to support family, or when people give up dreams to meet others' expectations.
Conjugal rights
The legal expectation that married women must be sexually available to their husbands regardless of their own feelings. Victorian law gave husbands almost complete control over wives' bodies.
Modern Usage:
Today we call this marital rape, which is now illegal, but the pressure for women to be 'available' still exists in many relationships.
Dreadful contract
Sue's description of marriage as a binding agreement that traps people in situations they can't escape. Victorian divorce was nearly impossible, especially for women.
Modern Usage:
We see similar feelings when people feel trapped by prenups, mortgages, or any legal agreement that seemed good at first but became a prison.
Barbarous customs
Sue's term for social traditions that cause unnecessary suffering. She's criticizing how society forces people into arrangements that go against their nature.
Modern Usage:
We use similar language when criticizing outdated workplace policies, family traditions, or social expectations that harm people.
Morbid hymn
Religious music focused on death, suffering, or guilt. Victorian culture was obsessed with mortality and sin, using these themes to control behavior.
Modern Usage:
Like how certain songs or movies put us in emotional moods that make us do things we later regret.
Concave field
A field that dips down in the middle, creating a bowl shape. Hardy uses landscape to mirror characters' emotional states - here, Jude is literally and figuratively going downhill.
Modern Usage:
We still use geography metaphorically - 'hitting rock bottom,' 'uphill battle,' 'smooth sailing.'
Characters in This Chapter
Jude
Protagonist
He's trying to do the 'right thing' by staying away from Sue, but Aunt Drusilla's death forces him back into her orbit. His pretense of being happy with Arabella crumbles when he sees Sue's real suffering.
Modern Equivalent:
The guy who tries to be noble about his ex but can't help himself when she needs him
Sue
Love interest/conscience
The funeral setting finally breaks down her walls and she confesses the horror of her marriage to Phillotson. Her honesty about finding physical intimacy with him repulsive reveals how trapped she feels.
Modern Equivalent:
The woman stuck in a marriage that looks good on paper but makes her skin crawl
Aunt Drusilla
Catalyst (posthumously)
Her death forces Jude and Sue back together and creates the intimate setting where Sue can finally be honest about her marriage. Even dead, she's bringing them together.
Modern Equivalent:
The family member whose funeral forces everyone to confront what they've been avoiding
Phillotson
Absent antagonist
Though not physically present, his influence dominates the chapter as Sue describes the torture of being married to someone who repulses her physically, despite respecting him intellectually.
Modern Equivalent:
The husband who's a good person on paper but completely wrong for his wife
Widow Edlin
Messenger
She sends the telegram that brings Jude rushing back, setting up the reunion that changes everything. She represents the older generation watching these young people struggle.
Modern Equivalent:
The family friend who delivers bad news and watches the drama unfold
Key Quotes & Analysis
"Don't come next week. On your own account don't! We were too free, under the influence of that morbid hymn and the twilight."
Context: Sue writes this note after their previous intimate moment, trying to maintain proper distance.
This shows how Victorian society made people feel guilty for natural emotions. Sue blames the music and atmosphere rather than admitting she wanted to be close to Jude.
In Today's Words:
Stay away - we got too comfortable and I'm scared of where this is going.
"It is a lesson in renunciation which I suppose I ought to learn at this season."
Context: His reply to Sue's note, written on Easter Eve.
Jude tries to frame their separation as noble sacrifice, using religious language to make sense of his pain. The Easter timing emphasizes themes of sacrifice and suffering.
In Today's Words:
I guess this is supposed to teach me to give up what I want - perfect timing for Easter.
"I can see in his face that she is dead."
Context: Jude realizes Aunt Drusilla has died before the laborer even speaks.
This shows Jude's intuitive understanding of human nature and suffering. He reads the situation immediately, showing his emotional intelligence.
In Today's Words:
I can tell by looking at you that she's gone.
"It is none of the natural tragedies of love that's love's usual tragedy in civilized life, but a tragedy artificially manufactured for people who in a natural state would find relief in parting."
Context: Sue explains why their situation feels so wrong and unnatural.
Sue identifies how society creates unnecessary suffering by forcing people into rigid arrangements. She sees their pain as artificial, not natural or inevitable.
In Today's Words:
This isn't normal relationship drama - society is forcing us into a mess that wouldn't exist if we could just be honest about what we want.
Thematic Threads
Trapped Intimacy
In This Chapter
Sue reveals her marriage requires physical intimacy she finds repulsive, describing it as torture society expects her to endure
Development
Deepened from earlier hints about her discomfort with Phillotson
In Your Life:
You might feel trapped in relationships where you're expected to be physically or emotionally available when you don't want to be
Social Performance
In This Chapter
Both Jude and Sue have been pretending contentment with their situations until crisis forces honesty
Development
Continues the theme of characters hiding their true feelings behind socially acceptable facades
In Your Life:
You might maintain a cheerful demeanor at work or in relationships while suffering internally
Institutional Marriage
In This Chapter
Sue describes marriage as a 'dreadful contract' that demands responsiveness regardless of personal feelings
Development
Evolves from earlier critiques to show marriage as a system that can create suffering
In Your Life:
You might feel trapped by commitments or contracts that seemed reasonable but now feel oppressive
Proximity Torture
In This Chapter
Jude and Sue lie awake tortured by being near each other while forbidden to connect
Development
Intensifies their earlier attraction with the added pain of knowing it's mutual but impossible
In Your Life:
You might experience the agony of being close to someone you want but can't have due to circumstances
Death as Catalyst
In This Chapter
Aunt Drusilla's death forces the honest conversation and brings them together physically
Development
Introduced here as a force that changes relationship dynamics
In Your Life:
You might find that loss or crisis moments reveal what really matters in your relationships
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What finally causes Sue to reveal the truth about her marriage to Phillotson?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does crisis make people more honest about their real feelings?
analysis • medium - 3
When have you seen someone reveal their true thoughts during a stressful time - a job loss, family emergency, or major life change?
application • medium - 4
How should you respond when someone shares painful truths with you during their crisis moment?
application • deep - 5
What does Sue's confession teach us about the difference between what people show publicly and what they experience privately?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Crisis Truth Moments
Think about a time when crisis or stress caused you to finally admit something you'd been hiding - maybe about a job, relationship, or life situation. Write down what you revealed and why that particular moment made honesty possible. Then consider: what truths might you be avoiding right now that could surface during your next stressful period?
Consider:
- •Crisis doesn't create problems - it reveals problems that already existed
- •The setting and people present during crisis moments affect what gets revealed
- •Truth that emerges during stress is usually more accurate than our normal social performance
Journaling Prompt
Write about a relationship or situation where you're currently performing contentment. What would you say if crisis stripped away your ability to pretend everything is fine?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 31: The Kiss That Changes Everything
As the story unfolds, you'll explore single moments can force us to confront our deepest contradictions, while uncovering trying to live up to others' expectations can destroy our authentic selves. These lessons connect the classic to contemporary challenges we all face.