Summary
Sue recovers from her soaking in Jude's room while he tends to her with careful propriety, hiding her clothes from the landlady and spending the night by the fire. As she regains strength, Sue opens up about her unconventional past—particularly her platonic but intimate relationship with a university friend who died after she refused to become his mistress. She reveals her extensive reading, her fearless attitude toward men, and her rejection of traditional religious thinking, having been influenced by her irreligious but moral friend. This confession creates both closeness and distance between her and Jude. While he's drawn to her intelligence and honesty, he's also troubled by her skepticism toward Christianity and marriage—the very institutions he's devoted his life to pursuing. Sue's ability to remain 'as she began' despite her unconventional lifestyle both fascinates and frustrates Jude, who sees in her the intellectual companion he's always wanted but fears she may be beyond his reach. The chapter captures the painful beauty of two people discovering they understand each other deeply while realizing they may want fundamentally different things from life. Their late-night conversation reveals how past wounds and different worldviews can complicate even the most genuine connections.
Coming Up in Chapter 23
Morning brings Sue back to her usual composed self, but the intimacy of their night together has shifted something between them. As they face the practical reality of her situation, both must confront what their growing closeness might mean for their futures.
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Jude’s reverie was interrupted by the creak of footsteps ascending the stairs. He whisked Sue’s clothing from the chair where it was drying, thrust it under the bed, and sat down to his book. Somebody knocked and opened the door immediately. It was the landlady. “Oh, I didn’t know whether you was in or not, Mr. Fawley. I wanted to know if you would require supper. I see you’ve a young gentleman—” “Yes, ma’am. But I think I won’t come down to-night. Will you bring supper up on a tray, and I’ll have a cup of tea as well.” It was Jude’s custom to go downstairs to the kitchen, and eat his meals with the family, to save trouble. His landlady brought up the supper, however, on this occasion, and he took it from her at the door. When she had descended he set the teapot on the hob, and drew out Sue’s clothes anew; but they were far from dry. A thick woollen gown, he found, held a deal of water. So he hung them up again, and enlarged his fire and mused as the steam from the garments went up the chimney. Suddenly she said, “Jude!” “Yes. All right. How do you feel now?” “Better. Quite well. Why, I fell asleep, didn’t I? What time is it? Not late surely?” “It is past ten.” “Is it really? What _shall_ I do!” she said, starting up. “Stay where you are.” “Yes; that’s what I want to do. But I don’t know what they would say! And what will you do?” “I am going to sit here by the fire all night, and read. To-morrow is Sunday, and I haven’t to go out anywhere. Perhaps you will be saved a severe illness by resting there. Don’t be frightened. I’m all right. Look here, what I have got for you. Some supper.” When she had sat upright she breathed plaintively and said, “I do feel rather weak still. I thought I was well; and I ought not to be here, ought I?” But the supper fortified her somewhat, and when she had had some tea and had lain back again she was bright and cheerful. The tea must have been green, or too long drawn, for she seemed preternaturally wakeful afterwards, though Jude, who had not taken any, began to feel heavy; till her conversation fixed his attention. “You called me a creature of civilization, or something, didn’t you?” she said, breaking a silence. “It was very odd you should have done that.” “Why?” “Well, because it is provokingly wrong. I am a sort of negation of it.” “You are very philosophical. ‘A negation’ is profound talking.” “Is it? Do I strike you as being learned?” she asked, with a touch of raillery. “No—not learned. Only you don’t talk quite like a girl—well, a girl who has had no advantages.” “I have had advantages. I don’t know Latin and Greek, though I know the grammars of those tongues. But I know...
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Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Honest Connection - When Truth Creates Distance
The more authentically we connect with someone, the more we may discover we're fundamentally incompatible.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize the difference between feeling close to someone and actually being able to build a future together.
Practice This Today
Next time you feel deeply connected to someone, ask yourself: are we bonding over shared values, or just shared experiences and chemistry?
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Terms to Know
Propriety
The social rules about what's considered proper behavior, especially between unmarried men and women. In Victorian times, a woman alone in a man's room overnight would be scandalous, even if nothing physical happened.
Modern Usage:
We still worry about appearances and what people will think, like being careful about work relationships or how we present ourselves on social media.
Platonic relationship
A close, intimate friendship without physical romance. Sue describes her relationship with her university friend this way - they shared deep intellectual and emotional connection but remained physically chaste.
Modern Usage:
Today we call these 'close friendships' or sometimes struggle with the 'friend zone' when one person wants more than friendship.
Irreligious
Not following organized religion or traditional religious beliefs. Sue's friend influenced her to question Christianity and conventional morality, which was shocking in Victorian England.
Modern Usage:
Like people today who are 'spiritual but not religious' or who reject traditional church teachings while still trying to live morally.
University education for women
In the 1890s, very few women could attend university, and those who did were considered radical. Sue's education makes her unusual and gives her dangerous ideas about independence.
Modern Usage:
Similar to how higher education still changes people's worldviews and sometimes creates distance from family or community values.
Chaperone system
The Victorian practice of never leaving unmarried men and women alone together. Jude hiding Sue's presence from the landlady shows how seriously these rules were taken.
Modern Usage:
Like parents today setting rules about sleepovers or being careful about appearances in professional settings.
Intellectual compatibility
When two people connect deeply through shared ideas, books, and conversations. Jude and Sue discover they think alike about many things, which creates intense attraction.
Modern Usage:
Like finding someone who gets your references, shares your interests, or can have deep conversations - often more important than physical attraction.
Characters in This Chapter
Jude
Protagonist
He carefully tends to Sue while maintaining proper boundaries, hiding her presence from the landlady. His devotion to both Christianity and classical learning puts him at odds with Sue's skeptical views.
Modern Equivalent:
The guy who falls for someone whose lifestyle challenges everything he believes in
Sue
Love interest/intellectual equal
She reveals her unconventional past and irreligious views while recovering in Jude's room. Her honesty about her platonic relationship and rejection of traditional beliefs both attracts and troubles Jude.
Modern Equivalent:
The independent woman who's had complicated relationships and doesn't follow conventional rules
The landlady
Social watchdog
She represents Victorian propriety and the social surveillance that makes Jude hide Sue's presence. Her brief appearance reminds us of the social rules governing their situation.
Modern Equivalent:
The nosy neighbor or gossipy coworker who notices everything
Sue's deceased friend
Influential mentor figure
Though dead, his influence on Sue's thinking about religion and morality shapes her character. He represents the intellectual world that Sue inhabited before meeting Jude.
Modern Equivalent:
The ex or former friend whose ideas still influence someone's worldview
Key Quotes & Analysis
"Stay where you are."
Context: When Sue panics about the impropriety of spending the night in his room
Shows Jude's protective instincts overriding social conventions. He's willing to risk his reputation to ensure her safety and comfort, revealing the depth of his feelings.
In Today's Words:
Don't worry about what people think - you're safe here.
"I have been thinking of what you said about our being alike in temperament and tastes."
Context: During their intimate late-night conversation
Sue acknowledges their intellectual connection while also creating distance. She's drawn to their similarity but also wary of what it might mean for their relationship.
In Today's Words:
I've been thinking about how much we have in common, and it kind of scares me.
"He taught me to see what became of me - that I was not worth a man's love."
Context: Describing her relationship with her university friend who died
Reveals Sue's deep insecurity despite her intellectual confidence. Her past relationship left her feeling unworthy of love, which explains her fear of commitment.
In Today's Words:
He made me realize I'm not good enough for anyone to really love me.
Thematic Threads
Intellectual Connection
In This Chapter
Jude finds in Sue the intellectual companion he's always wanted—someone who reads, questions, and thinks deeply
Development
Introduced here as Jude's first encounter with a woman who matches his intellectual curiosity
In Your Life:
You might experience this when you meet someone who finally 'gets' your interests or way of thinking
Religious Doubt
In This Chapter
Sue's rejection of traditional Christianity troubles Jude, who has built his identity around pursuing religious scholarship
Development
Builds on Jude's earlier religious struggles, now externalized through Sue's influence
In Your Life:
This appears when someone you care about challenges beliefs that are central to your identity
Social Convention
In This Chapter
Sue's unconventional past relationships and attitudes toward marriage clash with societal expectations
Development
Continues the theme of characters struggling against social norms, now through Sue's perspective
In Your Life:
You see this when you or someone close to you lives outside traditional relationship models
Past Wounds
In This Chapter
Sue's relationship with her deceased friend shapes her current attitudes and creates barriers with Jude
Development
Introduced here as Sue's defining experience, parallel to Jude's past with Arabella
In Your Life:
This shows up when previous relationships or losses influence how you approach new connections
Class Barriers
In This Chapter
Sue's university connections and sophisticated thinking highlight the educational gap between her and Jude
Development
Continues the class theme but now shows how it affects personal relationships, not just career aspirations
In Your Life:
You might feel this when educational or cultural differences create distance in personal relationships
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What does Sue reveal about her past that both draws Jude closer and pushes him away?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Sue's honesty create distance even as it creates intimacy between her and Jude?
analysis • medium - 3
When have you experienced a situation where getting to know someone better revealed fundamental differences in values or life goals?
application • medium - 4
How do you decide whether to continue investing in a relationship when you discover major incompatibilities with someone you genuinely care about?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter suggest about the relationship between authenticity and compatibility in human connections?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Dealbreakers and Bridges
Think about a close relationship in your life - romantic, friendship, or work partnership. Create two lists: fundamental differences you can bridge versus dealbreakers you cannot. Consider Sue and Jude's situation - she's skeptical about marriage and religion while he's devoted to both. For each difference on your lists, write whether it's something you can respect and work around, or something that would make the relationship unsustainable long-term.
Consider:
- •Some differences enrich relationships while others undermine them
- •Your dealbreakers might change over time or in different contexts
- •The timing of when you discover incompatibilities affects how you handle them
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when honest conversation revealed a fundamental difference with someone important to you. How did you navigate it, and what would you do differently now?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 23: When Love Becomes a Scandal
What lies ahead teaches us society punishes women more harshly for the same behaviors men exhibit, and shows us mixed signals in relationships create confusion and hurt for everyone involved. These patterns appear in literature and life alike.