Far from the Madding Crowd

HE SHEEP-WASHING—THE OFFER

Boldwood did eventually call upon her. She was not at home. “Of course
not,” he murmured. In contemplating Bathsheba as a woman, he had
forgotten the accidents of her position as an agriculturist—that being
as much of a farmer, and as extensive a farmer, as himself, her
probable whereabouts was out-of-doors at this time of the year. This,
and the other oversights Boldwood was guilty of, were natural to the
mood, and still more natural to the circumstances. The great aids to
idealization in love were present here: occasional observation of her
from a distance, and the absence of social intercourse with her—visual
familiarity, oral strangeness. The smaller human elements were kept out
of sight; the pettinesses that enter so largely into all earthly living
and doing were disguised by the accident of lover and loved-one not
being on visiting terms; and there was hardly awakened a thought in
Boldwood that sorry household realities appertained to her, or that
she, like all others, had moments of commonplace, when to be least
plainly seen was to be most prettily remembered. Thus a mild sort of
apotheosis took place in his fancy, whilst she still lived and breathed
within his own horizon, a troubled creature like himself.

It was the end of May when the farmer determined to be no longer
repulsed by trivialities or distracted by suspense. He had by this time
grown used to being in love; the passion now startled him less even
when it tortured him more, and he felt himself adequate to the
situation. On inquiring for her at her house they had told him she was
at the sheep-washing, and he went off to seek her there.

The sheep-washing pool was a perfectly circular basin of brickwork in
the meadows, full of the clearest water. To birds on the wing its
glassy surface, reflecting the light sky, must have been visible for
miles around as a glistening Cyclops’ eye in a green face. The grass
about the margin at this season was a sight to remember long—in a minor
sort of way. Its activity in sucking the moisture from the rich damp
sod was almost a process observable by the eye. The outskirts of this
level water-meadow were diversified by rounded and hollow pastures,
where just now every flower that was not a buttercup was a daisy. The
river slid along noiselessly as a shade, the swelling reeds and sedge
forming a flexible palisade upon its moist brink. To the north of the
mead were trees, the leaves of which were new, soft, and moist, not yet
having stiffened and darkened under summer sun and drought, their
colour being yellow beside a green—green beside a yellow. From the
recesses of this knot of foliage the loud notes of three cuckoos were
resounding through the still air.

Boldwood went meditating down the slopes with his eyes on his boots,
which the yellow pollen from the buttercups had bronzed in artistic
gradations. A tributary of the main stream flowed through the basin of
the pool by an inlet and outlet at opposite points of its diameter.
Shepherd Oak, Jan Coggan, Moon, Poorgrass, Cain Ball, and several
others were assembled here, all dripping wet to the very roots of their
hair, and Bathsheba was standing by in a new riding-habit—the most
elegant she had ever worn—the reins of her horse being looped over her
arm. Flagons of cider were rolling about upon the green. The meek sheep
were pushed into the pool by Coggan and Matthew Moon, who stood by the
lower hatch, immersed to their waists; then Gabriel, who stood on the
brink, thrust them under as they swam along, with an instrument like a
crutch, formed for the purpose, and also for assisting the exhausted
animals when the wool became saturated and they began to sink. They
were let out against the stream, and through the upper opening, all
impurities flowing away below. Cainy Ball and Joseph, who performed
this latter operation, were if possible wetter than the rest; they
resembled dolphins under a fountain, every protuberance and angle of
their clothes dribbling forth a small rill.

Boldwood came close and bade her good morning, with such constraint
that she could not but think he had stepped across to the washing for
its own sake, hoping not to find her there; more, she fancied his brow
severe and his eye slighting. Bathsheba immediately contrived to
withdraw, and glided along by the river till she was a stone’s throw
off. She heard footsteps brushing the grass, and had a consciousness
that love was encircling her like a perfume. Instead of turning or
waiting, Bathsheba went further among the high sedges, but Boldwood
seemed determined, and pressed on till they were completely past the
bend of the river. Here, without being seen, they could hear the
splashing and shouts of the washers above.

“Miss Everdene!” said the farmer.

She trembled, turned, and said “Good morning.” His tone was so utterly
removed from all she had expected as a beginning. It was lowness and
quiet accentuated: an emphasis of deep meanings, their form, at the
same time, being scarcely expressed. Silence has sometimes a remarkable
power of showing itself as the disembodied soul of feeling wandering
without its carcase, and it is then more impressive than speech. In the
same way, to say a little is often to tell more than to say a great
deal. Boldwood told everything in that word.

As the consciousness expands on learning that what was fancied to be
the rumble of wheels is the reverberation of thunder, so did
Bathsheba’s at her intuitive conviction.

“I feel—almost too much—to think,” he said, with a solemn simplicity.
“I have come to speak to you without preface. My life is not my own
since I have beheld you clearly, Miss Everdene—I come to make you an
offer of marriage.”

Bathsheba tried to preserve an absolutely neutral countenance, and all
the motion she made was that of closing lips which had previously been
a little parted.

“I am now forty-one years old,” he went on. “I may have been called a
confirmed bachelor, and I was a confirmed bachelor. I had never any
views of myself as a husband in my earlier days, nor have I made any
calculation on the subject since I have been older. But we all change,
and my change, in this matter, came with seeing you. I have felt
lately, more and more, that my present way of living is bad in every
respect. Beyond all things, I want you as my wife.”

“I feel, Mr. Boldwood, that though I respect you much, I do not
feel—what would justify me to—in accepting your offer,” she stammered.

This giving back of dignity for dignity seemed to open the sluices of
feeling that Boldwood had as yet kept closed.

“My life is a burden without you,” he exclaimed, in a low voice. “I
want you—I want you to let me say I love you again and again!”

Bathsheba answered nothing, and the horse upon her arm seemed so
impressed that instead of cropping the herbage she looked up.

“I think and hope you care enough for me to listen to what I have to
tell!”

Bathsheba’s momentary impulse at hearing this was to ask why he thought
that, till she remembered that, far from being a conceited assumption
on Boldwood’s part, it was but the natural conclusion of serious
reflection based on deceptive premises of her own offering.

“I wish I could say courteous flatteries to you,” the farmer continued
in an easier tone, “and put my rugged feeling into a graceful shape:
but I have neither power nor patience to learn such things. I want you
for my wife—so wildly that no other feeling can abide in me; but I
should not have spoken out had I not been led to hope.”

“The valentine again! O that valentine!” she said to herself, but not a
word to him.

“If you can love me say so, Miss Everdene. If not—don’t say no!”

“Mr. Boldwood, it is painful to have to say I am surprised, so that I
don’t know how to answer you with propriety and respect—but am only
just able to speak out my feeling—I mean my meaning; that I am afraid I
can’t marry you, much as I respect you. You are too dignified for me to
suit you, sir.”

“But, Miss Everdene!”

“I—I didn’t—I know I ought never to have dreamt of sending that
valentine—forgive me, sir—it was a wanton thing which no woman with any
self-respect should have done. If you will only pardon my
thoughtlessness, I promise never to—”

“No, no, no. Don’t say thoughtlessness! Make me think it was something
more—that it was a sort of prophetic instinct—the beginning of a
feeling that you would like me. You torture me to say it was done in
thoughtlessness—I never thought of it in that light, and I can’t endure
it. Ah! I wish I knew how to win you! but that I can’t do—I can only
ask if I have already got you. If I have not, and it is not true that
you have come unwittingly to me as I have to you, I can say no more.”

“I have not fallen in love with you, Mr. Boldwood—certainly I must say
that.” She allowed a very small smile to creep for the first time over
her serious face in saying this, and the white row of upper teeth, and
keenly-cut lips already noticed, suggested an idea of heartlessness,
which was immediately contradicted by the pleasant eyes.

“But you will just think—in kindness and condescension think—if you
cannot bear with me as a husband! I fear I am too old for you, but
believe me I will take more care of you than would many a man of your
own age. I will protect and cherish you with all my strength—I will
indeed! You shall have no cares—be worried by no household affairs, and
live quite at ease, Miss Everdene. The dairy superintendence shall be
done by a man—I can afford it well—you shall never have so much as to
look out of doors at haymaking time, or to think of weather in the
harvest. I rather cling to the chaise, because it is the same my poor
father and mother drove, but if you don’t like it I will sell it, and
you shall have a pony-carriage of your own. I cannot say how far above
every other idea and object on earth you seem to me—nobody knows—God
only knows—how much you are to me!”

Bathsheba’s heart was young, and it swelled with sympathy for the
deep-natured man who spoke so simply.

“Don’t say it! don’t! I cannot bear you to feel so much, and me to feel
nothing. And I am afraid they will notice us, Mr. Boldwood. Will you
let the matter rest now? I cannot think collectedly. I did not know you
were going to say this to me. Oh, I am wicked to have made you suffer
so!” She was frightened as well as agitated at his vehemence.

“Say then, that you don’t absolutely refuse. Do not quite refuse?”

“I can do nothing. I cannot answer.”

“I may speak to you again on the subject?”

“Yes.”

“I may think of you?”

“Yes, I suppose you may think of me.”

“And hope to obtain you?”

“No—do not hope! Let us go on.”

“I will call upon you again to-morrow.”

“No—please not. Give me time.”

“Yes—I will give you any time,” he said earnestly and gratefully. “I am
happier now.”

“No—I beg you! Don’t be happier if happiness only comes from my
agreeing. Be neutral, Mr. Boldwood! I must think.”

“I will wait,” he said.

And then she turned away. Boldwood dropped his gaze to the ground, and
stood long like a man who did not know where he was. Realities then
returned upon him like the pain of a wound received in an excitement
which eclipses it, and he, too, then went on.