Summary
The Teacher takes a hard look at workplace dynamics and discovers something uncomfortable: success breeds envy, and envy breeds isolation. He watches people grinding themselves to the bone, chasing achievements that only make their coworkers resent them. The harder someone works, the more alone they become. He observes the fool who gives up entirely, destroying himself through inaction, but also notes that sometimes a small, peaceful life beats the exhausting rat race. The chapter's most powerful insight comes when he examines the truly isolated person - someone with no family, no close relationships, working endless hours for wealth they'll never enjoy. This person can't even answer the basic question: 'Who am I doing this for?' The Teacher then shifts to one of his most practical observations: partnership changes everything. Two people working together accomplish more than twice what one person can do alone. When one falls, the other helps them up. When one gets cold, they share warmth. When trouble comes, they can stand together. He uses the image of a threefold cord - three strands twisted together - that won't break under pressure. The chapter ends with a political observation about how power shifts from generation to generation. Even wise young leaders who rise from nothing eventually become the old, stubborn rulers they once replaced. The crowds that cheered them will eventually cheer their replacement. This isn't just ancient politics - it's the cycle of every workplace, every organization, every family business where the founder's kids take over.
Coming Up in Chapter 5
The Teacher turns his attention to something we all deal with but rarely examine closely: the gap between what we say we believe and how we actually behave. He's about to explore the dangerous territory of making promises we can't keep.
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S21:004:001 o I returned, and considered all the oppressions that are done under the sun: and behold the tears of such as were oppressed, and they had no comforter; and on the side of their oppressors there was power; but they had no comforter. 21:004:002 Wherefore I praised the dead which are already dead more than the living which are yet alive. 21:004:003 Yea, better is he than both they, which hath not yet been, who hath not seen the evil work that is done under the sun. 21:004:004 Again, I considered all travail, and every right work, that for this a man is envied of his neighbour. This is also vanity and vexation of spirit. 21:004:005 The fool foldeth his hands together, and eateth his own flesh. 21:004:006 Better is an handful with quietness, than both the hands full with travail and vexation of spirit. 21:004:007 Then I returned, and I saw vanity under the sun. 21:004:008 There is one alone, and there is not a second; yea, he hath neither child nor brother: yet is there no end of all his labour; neither is his eye satisfied with riches; neither saith he, For whom do I labour, and bereave my soul of good? This is also vanity, yea, it is a sore travail. 21:004:009 Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. 21:004:010 For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up. 21:004:011 Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone? 21:004:012 And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken. 21:004:013 Better is a poor and a wise child than an old and foolish king, who will no more be admonished. 21:004:014 For out of prison he cometh to reign; whereas also he that is born in his kingdom becometh poor. 21:004:015 I considered all the living which walk under the sun, with the second child that shall stand up in his stead. 21:004:016 There is no end of all the people, even of all that have been before them: they also that come after shall not rejoice in him. Surely this also is vanity and vexation of spirit.
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Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Hollow Success - Why Achievement Without Connection Destroys Us
The more you achieve alone, the more alone you become, until success itself becomes your prison.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize when professional success is creating personal isolation and relationship damage.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when your achievements make others uncomfortable - watch for conversation changes, invitation withdrawals, or subtle resentment signals.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Terms to Know
Vanity
In Ecclesiastes, this doesn't mean being conceited about looks. It means something that's ultimately meaningless or futile - like chasing after wind. The Hebrew word 'hevel' suggests something temporary and insubstantial.
Modern Usage:
We see this when people work 80-hour weeks for promotions that don't actually make them happier, or chase social media likes that disappear tomorrow.
Vexation of spirit
The deep frustration and mental exhaustion that comes from pursuing things that don't satisfy. It's the feeling of being trapped in cycles that drain your soul.
Modern Usage:
This is the Sunday night anxiety, the burnout from toxic jobs, or the emptiness after achieving goals that were supposed to make everything better.
Under the sun
The Teacher's phrase for earthly life - everything we can see and experience in this world. It's his way of talking about human existence without divine perspective.
Modern Usage:
We use similar phrases like 'in the real world' or 'down here on earth' when talking about practical, everyday life versus idealistic thinking.
Threefold cord
A rope made of three strands twisted together, much stronger than individual threads. The Teacher uses this as a metaphor for relationships and partnerships that create mutual strength.
Modern Usage:
We see this in strong marriages, business partnerships, or friend groups where people genuinely support each other through tough times.
Travail
Hard, painful labor or work that wears you down. In this context, it's not just physical work but the emotional and mental grinding that comes with competitive striving.
Modern Usage:
This is the hustle culture burnout, the exhaustion from constantly trying to get ahead, or working multiple jobs just to survive.
Comforter
Someone who provides support, relief, or consolation during difficult times. The Teacher notes that both oppressed and oppressors lack this crucial human connection.
Modern Usage:
This is the person who actually listens when you're struggling, not just someone who gives advice or tells you to 'think positive.'
Characters in This Chapter
The Teacher
Observer and narrator
He systematically examines different aspects of human behavior and work, pointing out the futility in competitive striving and the importance of relationships. His observations move from despair about oppression to practical wisdom about partnership.
Modern Equivalent:
The wise older coworker who's seen it all and tells you the real truth about office politics
The oppressed
Victims of systemic injustice
They represent people who suffer under unfair systems with no one to help them. Their tears and lack of comfort highlight how power imbalances create isolation.
Modern Equivalent:
Workers being exploited by employers, people facing discrimination, or anyone stuck in unfair situations with no advocate
The oppressors
Those who abuse power
Despite having power, they also lack comfort and genuine connection. This reveals that using power to harm others ultimately isolates the powerful person too.
Modern Equivalent:
The toxic boss who has authority but no real friends, or the bully who's actually deeply insecure
The fool
Cautionary example
He represents the extreme of giving up entirely - folding his hands and 'eating his own flesh' through inaction and self-destruction.
Modern Equivalent:
The person who's so discouraged they stop trying at all and sabotage their own life
The isolated worker
Tragic figure
Someone who works endlessly without family or close relationships, unable to answer why they're working so hard. Represents the ultimate futility of solitary ambition.
Modern Equivalent:
The workaholic who realizes at retirement they have money but no one to share it with
Key Quotes & Analysis
"Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour."
Context: After observing isolated people destroying themselves through lonely ambition
This introduces one of the most practical pieces of wisdom in Ecclesiastes. Partnership isn't just nice - it's more effective. The Teacher recognizes that human connection serves a practical purpose in making work and life more rewarding.
In Today's Words:
You get better results when you work with someone than when you go it alone.
"For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth."
Context: Explaining why partnership matters in practical terms
This acknowledges that failure and setbacks are inevitable parts of life. The difference isn't whether you fall, but whether someone's there to help you get back up. It's a realistic view of both human vulnerability and human interdependence.
In Today's Words:
When you mess up, you need someone to help you get back on your feet - and if you're all alone, you're in trouble.
"Better is an handful with quietness, than both the hands full with travail and vexation of spirit."
Context: Contrasting the peaceful modest life with the exhausting pursuit of success
This challenges the assumption that more is always better. Sometimes a small, peaceful life beats the stress and competition of trying to have it all. It's about quality of life versus quantity of possessions or achievements.
In Today's Words:
It's better to have a little bit and some peace than to have a lot and be stressed out of your mind.
"For whom do I labour, and bereave my soul of good?"
Context: The moment when someone realizes they've been working without purpose or connection
This is the existential crisis of the workaholic - realizing that endless labor without relationships or meaning is ultimately pointless. It's the question that forces people to examine their priorities.
In Today's Words:
Who am I even doing all this for, and why am I making myself miserable?
Thematic Threads
Class
In This Chapter
The Teacher observes how economic competition creates class divisions - those who succeed become isolated from those who don't, and those who fail become envious of those who succeed
Development
Building on earlier themes of wealth's futility, now focusing on how pursuing wealth destroys social bonds
In Your Life:
You might notice how getting promoted or making more money changes your relationships with former peers
Human Relationships
In This Chapter
Partnership is presented as the antidote to competitive isolation - two people together accomplish more than twice what one can do alone
Development
First major focus on relationships as solution rather than problem
In Your Life:
You might recognize that your biggest achievements happened when you had strong support, not when you went it alone
Identity
In This Chapter
The isolated achiever can't answer 'Who am I doing this for?' - success without purpose or connection becomes meaningless
Development
Deepening the theme of purposeless striving from earlier chapters
In Your Life:
You might catch yourself working toward goals you can't really explain or justify to yourself
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
Society expects us to compete individually, but the Teacher shows this expectation leads to misery and isolation
Development
Challenging social norms rather than just observing their effects
In Your Life:
You might question whether the competitive pressure you feel is actually serving your best interests
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
The Teacher observes that hard work often creates envy in others. What specific examples does he give of how success isolates people?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does the Teacher say that two people working together accomplish more than twice what one person can do alone? What's the mechanism behind this?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see the pattern of 'success breeding isolation' in modern workplaces, schools, or social media?
application • medium - 4
The Teacher asks about the isolated worker: 'Who am I doing this for?' How would you help someone answer that question practically?
application • deep - 5
What does the 'threefold cord' metaphor reveal about how humans are designed to function together versus alone?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Build Your Threefold Cord
Draw three circles representing the people in your life who help when you fall, celebrate your wins without envy, and remind you what you're working for. Write their names and one specific way each person strengthens your 'cord.' Then identify one relationship you could invest in to strengthen this support system.
Consider:
- •Look for people who genuinely want your success, not just those who are always available
- •Consider whether your current relationships are mostly competitive or collaborative
- •Think about whether you're being the kind of partner to others that you want them to be for you
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you achieved something significant but felt empty because you had no one meaningful to share it with. What would you do differently now?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 5: Words, Wealth, and What Really Matters
In the next chapter, you'll discover to recognize when your words are getting you into trouble, and learn chasing money never leads to satisfaction. These insights reveal timeless patterns that resonate in our own lives and relationships.