Summary
Valancy returns to her mother's house, stepping back into the suffocating world she escaped a year ago. Everything looks exactly the same—the same pictures, the same furniture, the same cold reception—but she has changed completely. Her family greets her with stony disapproval until she reveals that Barney is actually Bernard Redfern, son of the wealthy Dr. Redfern. Suddenly, Uncle Benjamin's attitude transforms from judgment to protective concern. Valancy explains her situation: she married Barney believing she was dying, only to discover her heart condition was misdiagnosed. Convinced that Barney only married her out of pity and that she tricked him, she's left him to set him free. The family's horror at her 'disgraceful' behavior instantly shifts to scheming about how to handle this valuable connection. Uncle Benjamin takes charge, assuring Valancy they'll work everything out while clearly calculating the family's newfound social advantage. The chapter exposes how quickly people's moral judgments change when money enters the picture, and how Valancy's noble gesture of self-sacrifice might be based on her own fears rather than reality. Her exhaustion and resignation show someone who has tasted freedom and love, only to retreat into old patterns of self-denial when faced with uncertainty.
Coming Up in Chapter 41
While Valancy tries to settle back into her old life, forces are already in motion that will challenge her decision to leave Barney behind.
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L Valancy paused a moment on the porch of the brick house in Elm Street. She felt that she ought to knock like a stranger. Her rosebush, she idly noticed, was loaded with buds. The rubber-plant stood beside the prim door. A momentary horror overcame her—a horror of the existence to which she was returning. Then she opened the door and walked in. “I wonder if the Prodigal Son ever felt really at home again,” she thought. Mrs. Frederick and Cousin Stickles were in the sitting-room. Uncle Benjamin was there, too. They looked blankly at Valancy, realising at once that something was wrong. This was not the saucy, impudent thing who had laughed at them in this very room last summer. This was a grey-faced woman with the eyes of a creature who had been stricken by a mortal blow. Valancy looked indifferently around the room. She had changed so much—and it had changed so little. The same pictures hung on the walls. The little orphan who knelt at her never-finished prayer by the bed whereon reposed the black kitten that never grew up into a cat. The grey “steel engraving” of Quatre Bras, where the British regiment forever stood at bay. The crayon enlargement of the boyish father she had never known. There they all hung in the same places. The green cascade of “Wandering Jew” still tumbled out of the old granite saucepan on the window-stand. The same elaborate, never-used pitcher stood at the same angle on the sideboard shelf. The blue and gilt vases that had been among her mother’s wedding-presents still primly adorned the mantelpiece, flanking the china clock of berosed and besprayed ware that never went. The chairs in exactly the same places. Her mother and Cousin Stickles, likewise unchanged, regarding her with stony unwelcome. Valancy had to speak first. “I’ve come home, Mother,” she said tiredly. “So I see.” Mrs. Frederick’s voice was very icy. She had resigned herself to Valancy’s desertion. She had almost succeeded in forgetting there was a Valancy. She had rearranged and organised her systematic life without any reference to an ungrateful, rebellious child. She had taken her place again in a society which ignored the fact that she had ever had a daughter and pitied her, if it pitied her at all, only in discreet whispers and asides. The plain truth was that, by this time, Mrs. Frederick did not want Valancy to come back—did not want ever to see or hear of her again. And now, of course, Valancy was here. With tragedy and disgrace and scandal trailing after her visibly. “So I see,” said Mrs. Frederick. “May I ask why?” “Because—I’m—not—going to die,” said Valancy huskily. “God bless my soul!” said Uncle Benjamin. “Who said you were going to die?” “I suppose,” said Cousin Stickles shrewishly—Cousin Stickles did not want Valancy back either—“I suppose you’ve found out he has another wife—as we’ve been sure all along.” “No. I only wish he had,” said Valancy. She was not...
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Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Conditional Morality
People unconsciously adjust their moral judgments to align with their self-interest while maintaining their sense of righteousness.
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to identify when moral judgments are actually power plays disguised as principles.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when someone's moral stance changes after learning new information about your status, connections, or resources.
Now let's explore the literary elements.
Terms to Know
Prodigal Son
A biblical story about a son who leaves home, wastes his inheritance, then returns broke and ashamed to his father's forgiveness. Valancy references this when wondering if she'll ever feel at home again after her year of independence.
Modern Usage:
We still use this phrase for anyone who returns home after a period of rebellion or failure, often feeling like they don't quite fit back into their old life.
Steel engraving
A formal, expensive type of artwork popular in Victorian homes, usually depicting historical or military scenes. These represented respectability and culture to middle-class families who couldn't afford original paintings.
Modern Usage:
Today's equivalent would be mass-produced 'inspirational' wall art or generic landscape prints that people buy to look sophisticated.
Crayon enlargement
A hand-colored photograph, often of deceased family members, that was enlarged and displayed prominently. This was how families honored their dead before modern photography became affordable.
Modern Usage:
Similar to how we might frame and display professional photos of loved ones, especially those who have passed away.
Social climbing
The practice of trying to move up in social class, often by associating with wealthy or influential people. Uncle Benjamin's sudden change in attitude shows how quickly people will adjust their behavior when money is involved.
Modern Usage:
We see this constantly on social media - people name-dropping connections, posting photos with successful people, or suddenly being nice to someone who gets promoted.
Moral flexibility
The tendency for people to change their ethical standards based on personal benefit. The family goes from condemning Valancy to protecting her once they learn about Barney's wealth.
Modern Usage:
This happens when people overlook bad behavior from someone who can help them, or when they suddenly find excuses for actions they'd normally criticize.
Self-sacrifice complex
The pattern of giving up happiness or opportunities because you believe you don't deserve them or that others' needs matter more. Valancy leaves Barney thinking she's being noble, but it may be fear disguised as virtue.
Modern Usage:
We see this in people who stay in bad relationships 'for the kids,' turn down promotions because they're 'not ready,' or push away good partners because they feel unworthy.
Characters in This Chapter
Valancy
Protagonist returning home
Returns to her family home after a year of freedom, looking defeated and gray. She's convinced herself that leaving Barney was the right thing to do, but her exhaustion suggests she's running from happiness rather than toward it.
Modern Equivalent:
The woman who quits a good job because she doesn't think she deserves it
Mrs. Frederick
Disapproving mother
Valancy's mother, who represents the suffocating family expectations Valancy escaped. Her cold reception shows how little has changed in the family dynamics, despite Valancy's transformation.
Modern Equivalent:
The parent who never thinks anything their adult child does is good enough
Cousin Stickles
Family gossip and judge
Always present to witness and comment on family drama. Her shock at Valancy's appearance shows how dramatically Valancy has changed from her year of independence.
Modern Equivalent:
The family member who shows up to every crisis with opinions but no real help
Uncle Benjamin
Family patriarch and opportunist
Immediately takes charge when he learns about Barney's wealth, shifting from moral judgment to protective scheming. His transformation reveals how quickly people's principles bend when money is involved.
Modern Equivalent:
The relative who suddenly wants to help when they smell a financial opportunity
Key Quotes & Analysis
"I wonder if the Prodigal Son ever felt really at home again"
Context: As she enters her childhood home after a year away
This reveals Valancy's internal conflict about returning to her old life. She's questioning whether you can ever truly go back after experiencing freedom and growth. It also shows her tendency toward self-blame, comparing herself to the biblical figure who wasted his inheritance.
In Today's Words:
Can you ever really go back to the way things were after you've changed so much?
"This was a grey-faced woman with the eyes of a creature who had been stricken by a mortal blow"
Context: Describing how Valancy's family sees her when she returns
This description shows the dramatic change in Valancy from the confident woman who left to the defeated one who returns. The 'mortal blow' suggests she's been deeply wounded, but it's self-inflicted through her decision to leave Barney.
In Today's Words:
She looked completely broken, like someone had crushed her spirit
"Bernard Redfern - son of Dr. Redfern"
Context: Revealing Barney's true identity to her shocked family
This moment transforms the entire dynamic. The name carries weight and wealth, instantly changing how her family views her 'disgraceful' marriage. It exposes how social status can override moral judgments in an instant.
In Today's Words:
He's actually from that really wealthy, important family
Thematic Threads
Class
In This Chapter
Money instantly transforms the family's judgment from moral outrage to protective scheming
Development
Evolved from Valancy's earlier rebellion against class expectations to showing how class trumps morality
In Your Life:
Notice how differently people treat you based on your perceived status or usefulness to them
Identity
In This Chapter
Valancy retreats into old patterns of self-denial and martyrdom when faced with uncertainty
Development
Contrasts sharply with her confident self-assertion in previous chapters
In Your Life:
You might fall back into old, limiting behaviors when you're scared or uncertain about your worth
Self-sacrifice
In This Chapter
Valancy convinces herself that leaving Barney is noble when it might actually be self-protection
Development
Introduced here as a potentially misguided response to fear
In Your Life:
Sometimes what feels like noble sacrifice is actually avoiding difficult conversations or taking emotional risks
Social expectations
In This Chapter
The family's entire moral framework shifts to accommodate their new social advantage
Development
Shows how social expectations bend around power and money rather than genuine principles
In Your Life:
You'll see people's 'standards' change dramatically when it benefits them socially or financially
Fear
In This Chapter
Valancy's retreat is driven by fear that she tricked Barney rather than confidence in her decision
Development
Contrasts with her earlier fearless choices, showing how fear can masquerade as virtue
In Your Life:
Fear of rejection or abandonment can make you push people away first, calling it 'setting them free'
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
How does Uncle Benjamin's attitude toward Valancy change when he learns about Barney's identity, and what does this reveal about his previous moral judgments?
analysis • surface - 2
Why do you think the family's 'principles' about Valancy's behavior shift so quickly when money becomes involved?
analysis • medium - 3
Where have you seen people's moral standards change when their self-interest is at stake?
application • medium - 4
How would you protect yourself in a situation where someone's support for you might depend on what you can offer them?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter teach us about the difference between conditional approval and genuine support?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Conditional Relationships
Think about the relationships in your life - family, work, friends. List three relationships where someone's treatment of you has changed based on circumstances (your job, money, connections, etc.). For each one, write down what triggered the change and how their behavior shifted.
Consider:
- •Notice patterns in when people's attitudes toward you change
- •Consider whether these shifts reveal their true character or just human nature
- •Think about how you can maintain consistent standards regardless of what others offer you
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when someone's support for you changed based on your circumstances. How did you handle it, and what would you do differently now?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 41: The Agony of Return
As the story unfolds, you'll explore returning to old environments can trigger emotional regression, while uncovering the way memories become treasures when we've lost what we love. These lessons connect the classic to contemporary challenges we all face.